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 #1 
Old 2009-01-04, 10:43
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Teenage attention whore.
Default Being "Grabby"

When I'm around my girlfriend, I'm grabby as shit. The default position of my hands are either on her ass or boobs.

I do this infront of everyone. Friends, school teachers, underage christian children.

She doesn't really seem to have a problem with it, but her friends always go "Eww Chichi get your hands off her for one second PLEASE! *looks away*".

She gets lots of "complaints" from her friends about it and apparently a lot of people talk about how awkward it makes them etc etc.

She says she likes it when I'm grabby.

Should I just ignore everyone else and just be grabby because WE like it, or just stop so she doesn't get talked about?


Also, hai numjum. Cool
 #2 
Old 2009-01-04, 10:48
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fake
 #3 
Old 2009-01-04, 11:52
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Australia
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Do what makes you both happy. It's your relationship, not theirs.
 #4 
Old 2009-01-04, 20:15
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Quote:
Originally Posted by arquin
Do what makes you both happy. It's your relationship, not theirs.


This. My girlfriend gets shit all the time because she's 17 and I just turned 15, but we're both happy, so fuck them.
 #5 
Old 2009-01-04, 20:20
Acolyte
 
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Aren't you like a cock sucking faggot or something? Because you certainly seem like you are.
 #6 
Old 2009-01-04, 20:22
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Ibahliah Ramading chapter 9,verse11:Idle hands are the Devils playground.


Subconciously to her... You are being needy, and shes a attention whore,so she enjoys it now,so she thinks.

She will soon get sick of this childish behavior.You need to keep your hands where they belong..inside a bible at your local catholic church!
 #7 
Old 2009-01-04, 20:24
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Originally Posted by Small Land Mammal
Aren't you like a cock sucking faggot or something? Because you certainly seem like you are.



Dont ever call my baby chichi such vile things, fucking new arrival.

Go make your bones in Half-Baked,youll fit right in there.
 #8 
Old 2009-01-04, 20:29
Acolyte
 
ontario++
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Dont ever call my baby chichi such vile things, fucking new arrival.

Go make your bones in Half-Baked,youll fit right in there.

Suck my cock faggot, and seeing as how you're defending a faggot you actually might like sucking my cock. So on second thought, just smear some smegma all over your face.

And lol you don't even have 500 posts. Fucking noob. This is aliveupboy here, not a new arrival. Been here since 04 nigger.
 #9 
Old 2009-01-04, 20:31
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It is awkward to have to hang out with people who are all over each other while you're trying to have a conversation. It's acceptable to grab your girlfriend but if you do it in a intimate social situation it's pretty fucking rude.
I wouldn't want a couple groping each other while I was sitting having lunch with them.
 #10 
Old 2009-01-04, 20:34
Nitronick Nitronick is offline
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For fuck sake man learn some decency around other people.
 #11 
Old 2009-01-04, 20:36
Acolyte
 
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Obviously hes grabbing her because he's insecure about being a flamer. Hes purposely over compensating because he doesn't want anyone/everyone to known he actually is frightened by vagina's and wants to lick male butthole.

By grabbing her tits in public hes basically holding up a sign saying "Hey! Hey everyone! Look at me! I'm not gay! I enjoy touching tits!".

Op you should learn to accept yourself. Go buy some rainbow shirts. Fag.
 #12 
Old 2009-01-04, 20:37
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Suck my cock faggot, and seeing as how you're defending a faggot you actually might like sucking my cock. So on second thought, just smear some smegma all over your face.

And lol you don't even have 500 posts. Fucking noob. This is aliveupboy here, not a new arrival. Been here since 04 nigger.


I can suck my own cock ,faggot? And why would i suck yours ... and why do you have smegma on it?

Also I as well have been here longer, I changed emails and it fucked up... Ive been here since 03 so suck on that.

Also I dont care how long someones been here...It doesnt mean shit ,when you post like a fucking retarded 12 year old.

Also please do not threaten me over the internet, I am sensitive and it makes me feel sad when I read them.
 #13 
Old 2009-01-04, 20:38
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Small Land Mammal
Obviously hes grabbing her because he's insecure about being a flamer. Hes purposely over compensating because he doesn't want anyone/everyone to known he actually is frightened by vagina's and wants to lick male butthole.

By grabbing her tits in public hes basically holding up a sign saying "Hey! Hey everyone! Look at me! I'm not gay! I enjoy touching tits!".

Op you should learn to accept yourself. Go buy some rainbow shirts. Fag.


This is what Im trying to change, we as straight people need to embrace the rainbow..!! jump on board!! ....the man-train that is,,....whoo whoo
 #14 
Old 2009-01-04, 20:39
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Canada
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Ugh. I HATE people who have to be all over eachother at all times. Get the fuck over it. It's rude and inappropriate and fucking stop it, dammit.
 #15 
Old 2009-01-04, 20:40
Acolyte
 
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This is what Im trying to change, we as straight people need to embrace the rainbow..!! jump on board!! ....the man-train that is,,....whoo whoo

See? You and chichi can be the bestest butt buddies of all times. Fags.
 #16 
Old 2009-01-04, 20:44
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If only chichi would return my phone calls......:(






http://little-link.com/pics/9263.gif
 #17 
Old 2009-01-04, 20:57
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Teenage attention whore.
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Hey, I'm not that bad.

It's not like I do it when we're all sitting down having a conversation or eating or something.

But when everyone is standing in a group, I'll hug/kiss her and put my hands on her. Then her friends get all "Oh MY!"

Is it really that bad?

Then again, maybe I shouldn't be asking americans. You're notorious for your prudence MadMadMad
 #18 
Old 2009-01-04, 21:21
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i guess that's not a big deal if you're like 15 or something, but once you get into the real world your kinda expected to not act like a dipshit all the time so you should probably wean yourself off of being a moron.
 #19 
Old 2009-01-04, 21:34
Hazzard Hazzard is offline
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Originally Posted by Aquabania
i guess that's not a big deal if you're like 15 or something, but once you get into the real world your kinda expected to not act like a dipshit all the time so you should probably wean yourself off of being a moron.


Coincidentally, the OP just so happens to be that numerical value...
 #20 
Old 2009-01-04, 21:43
Genesis_93 Genesis_93 is offline
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fake me thinks
 #21 
Old 2009-01-04, 22:36
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Originally Posted by Demoiselle
Ugh. I HATE people who have to be all over eachother at all times. Get the fuck over it. It's rude and inappropriate and fucking stop it, dammit.


This...

Cool
 #22 
Old 2009-01-04, 23:15
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Originally Posted by Small Land Mammal
Obviously hes grabbing her because he's insecure about being a flamer. Hes purposely over compensating because he doesn't want anyone/everyone to known he actually is frightened by vagina's and wants to lick male butthole.

By grabbing her tits in public hes basically holding up a sign saying "Hey! Hey everyone! Look at me! I'm not gay! I enjoy touching tits!".

Op you should learn to accept yourself. Go buy some rainbow shirts. Fag.


This is either completely on spot or a complete failed attempt at psychoanalysis.

Which is it Chichi?
O.o
 #23 
Old 2009-01-04, 23:20
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They all just feel left out. Include them in, next time.
 #24 
Old 2009-01-04, 23:25
Acolyte
 
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This is either completely on spot or a complete failed attempt at psychoanalysis.

Which is it Chichi?
O.o

If his actions are primarily caused by his sub conscious then he won't be able to accurately answer that question.
 #25 
Old 2009-01-04, 23:27
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Originally Posted by Nefret
It is awkward to have to hang out with people who are all over each other while you're trying to have a conversation. It's acceptable to grab your girlfriend but if you do it in a intimate social situation it's pretty fucking rude.
I wouldn't want a couple groping each other while I was sitting having lunch with them.


Did you run off to Australia with your boyfriend yet?

On topic: Grab away but know when to take a break. It's always annoying if I'm kicking it with a couple, like just me and them and they start frisking each other like hormonal chipmunks on ecstasy for ten minutes. That's usually when I'll excuse myself for a smoke. If your with a bunch of people though, go for it.
 #26 
Old 2009-01-05, 00:12
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This is either completely on spot or a complete failed attempt at psychoanalysis.

Which is it Chichi?
O.o

Failed attempt.

I've been out of the closet for months. I have nothing to hide and nothing to prove.

:o
 #27 
Old 2009-01-05, 02:32
Acolyte
 
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Failed attempt.

I've been out of the closet for months. I have nothing to hide and nothing to prove.

:o

Right. So you're out of the closet, but still have a girlfriend that you caress in public. That makes sense. So how does your "girlfriend" feel about you being a faggot?
 #28 
Old 2009-01-05, 02:43
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Teenage attention whore.
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Right. So you're out of the closet, but still have a girlfriend that you caress in public. That makes sense. So how does your "girlfriend" feel about you being a faggot?

I know, it's weird. It's almost as if I feel sexual attraction to both sexes, you know?

I wonder if there's a name for that orientation?

I'll consult the LGBT community. :o
 #29 
Old 2009-01-05, 02:47
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Nefret
It is awkward to have to hang out with people who are all over each other while you're trying to have a conversation. It's acceptable to grab your girlfriend but if you do it in a intimate social situation it's pretty fucking rude.
I wouldn't want a couple groping each other while I was sitting having lunch with them.


QFT

Don't make it awkward for her friends and/or your friends by feeling her up in public. You are just a kid, kids have hormones, but show some self control. Wait till you get home to do that shit.
 #30 
Old 2009-01-05, 03:08
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Cut it out. Firstly, you're doing it because you're insecure. She liked the attention, you like to show that you've got a girl who will let you touch her however whenever, but everyone else thinks its gross and uncomfortable. Secondly, the more you make touching each other a commonplace thing, the faster it loses its novelty. It seems nice while you're in a relatively new relationship, hormones a-flowing and all that, but it really does stop being so exciting to be touched when you're doing it in public on a regular basis. Leave the sexy stuff to be special and it will be much more exciting when you're alone.

Seriously, no one likes to see preteens mauling one another all over the place.
 #31 
Old 2009-01-05, 03:13
twenty four seven twenty four seven is offline
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Seriously, do no one likes to see preteens mauling one another all over the place.

QFMFT


Nothing pisses me off more at school when I see a couple of freshman fucking each other in the middle of the hallway...
 #32 
Old 2009-01-05, 03:15
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Teenage attention whore.
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QFMFT


Nothing pisses me off more at school when I see a couple of freshman fucking each other in the middle of the hallway...

Because you're alone? :(
 #33 
Old 2009-01-05, 03:24
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Because you're alone? :(

No, I'm pretty sure that wasn't his point at all. He is saying that it makes everyone uncomfortable to see random preteens all over eachother in public. Because, well it just is. Maybe that is part of your problem here. As mentioned before, I suppose you see touching her in public as a way to show the people around you that you have a girl all to yourself. One who lets you touch her. No one around you is thinking like that though, you are just making them uncomfortable.
 #34 
Old 2009-01-05, 03:43
twenty four seven twenty four seven is offline
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Because you're alone? :(


No, I've actually been with the same girl for almost six months now, but thanks for asking.

Are you mad because I get angry at people like you when I'm in school?
 #35 
Old 2009-01-05, 04:54
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Florida
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Seriously, no one likes to see preteens mauling one another all over the place.

actually I do
 #36 
Old 2009-01-05, 05:30
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Istanbul, Turkey
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Nefret
It is awkward to have to hang out with people who are all over each other while you're trying to have a conversation. It's acceptable to grab your girlfriend but if you do it in a intimate social situation it's pretty fucking rude.
I wouldn't want a couple groping each other while I was sitting having lunch with them.


This. Time to learn some manners, chichi.
 #37 
Old 2009-01-05, 05:34
reborn thief reborn thief is offline
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This. My girlfriend gets shit all the time because she's 17 and I just turned 15, but we're both happy, so fuck them.

lulz.
 #38 
Old 2009-01-05, 07:06
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Chichi
Hey, I'm not that bad.

It's not like I do it when we're all sitting down having a conversation or eating or something.

But when everyone is standing in a group, I'll hug/kiss her and put my hands on her. Then her friends get all "Oh MY!"

Is it really that bad?

Then again, maybe I shouldn't be asking americans. You're notorious for your prudence MadMadMad


In my highschool people could get detention for public displays of affection
 #39 
Old 2009-01-05, 07:35
wallstreetshuffle wallstreetshuffle is offline
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Actually that is kind of illegal...around here anyway its called, Personal Displays of Affection, or (PDA)

But I personally would keep the grabbing, only when you can sneak one in, then wink at her, but when you two are alone, GRAB AWAY!
 #40 
Old 2009-01-05, 09:47
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Teenage attention whore.
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So, you guys think I'm just doing it to show off that I have a girl who lets me touch her?

You don't think that there's a possibilty that, as a fifteen year old boy, I might just feel the natural urge to TOUCH A GIRL'S TITS? Mad

I don't just do it when other people are watching. I do it we're alone.

I'm not showing off.

Also, if you feel uncomfortable about seeing people being affectionate, then you probably weren't raised properly. Though this doesn't apply to being a "third wheel", then it's just fucking rude. Mad
 #41 
Old 2009-01-05, 10:15
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Smoking a bong with a kangaroo
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Chichi
So, you guys think I'm just doing it to show off that I have a girl who lets me touch her?

You don't think that there's a possibilty that, as a fifteen year old boy, I might just feel the natural urge to TOUCH A GIRL'S TITS? Mad

I don't just do it when other people are watching. I do it we're alone.

I'm not showing off.

Also, if you feel uncomfortable about seeing people being affectionate, then you probably weren't raised properly. Though this doesn't apply to being a "third wheel", then it's just fucking rude. Mad



Chichi, don't worry if people care!

If you and your partner like it, do it!

/Thread
 #42 
Old 2009-01-05, 10:23
Hazzard Hazzard is offline
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Chichi
So, you guys think I'm just doing it to show off that I have a girl who lets me touch her?

You don't think that there's a possibilty that, as a fifteen year old boy, I might just feel the natural urge to TOUCH A GIRL'S TITS? Mad

I don't just do it when other people are watching. I do it we're alone.

I'm not showing off.

Also, if you feel uncomfortable about seeing people being affectionate, then you probably weren't raised properly. Though this doesn't apply to being a "third wheel", then it's just fucking rude. Mad


You just answered your own question. Well done, problem solved.
 #43 
Old 2009-01-05, 10:34
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Hey Cheech :) !

I know that I personally don't enjoy watching people maul each other in public, and I generally try to watch myself when I'm with my boyfriend when we're out and about/with other people as well.

If it doesn't bother either of you at all, or you both like it too much to stop, maybe you might just want to tone it down a notch when you're with other people or at least try to be a little more subtle about it. Casually resting your hand on her ass or something is ok, but I'd say diving straight for her boobs or giving her a public full-body rub down is a little much. I'm sure it can be hard to keep your hands off of each other, but usually it's just not something other people want to witness and it's also something I think is more special when you're in private anyways.

So there you go.
 #44 
Old 2009-01-05, 10:47
chasm69 chasm69 is offline
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Chichi, don't worry if people care!

If you and your partner like it, do it!

/Thread

This

I'm the same with my girlfriend and I'm near 21 nothing better then slinging an arm around there neck and holding some boob hell sometimes I even go under the shirt for warmth.

But once again as you seem to be Chichi I'm an Aussie and we seem much more laid back about public displays of affection.

Although I once had sex in a public pool full of people (no one noticed :( )... Maybe I like the attention.

I say go for the grab my son...But remember never put down your beer/Bundy to do it thats just blasphemy
 #45 
Old 2009-01-05, 10:49
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This

I'm the same with my girlfriend and I'm near 21 nothing better then slinging an arm around there neck and holding some boob hell sometimes I even go under the shirt for warmth.

But once again as you seem to be Chichi I'm an Aussie and we seem much more laid back about public displays of affection.

Although I once had sex in a public pool full of people (no one noticed :( )... Maybe I like the attention.

I say go for the grab my son...But remember never put down your beer/Bundy to do it thats just blasphemy

Chichi is Australian too, Amen.
 #46 
Old 2009-01-05, 10:52
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Keep doing it. I know I would.
 #47 
Old 2009-01-05, 11:07
ignis invictus veritatis ignis invictus veritatis is offline
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Keep doing it. I know I would.


This.

The epitome of being a pussy is altering your behavior (especially behavior that doesn't affect anyone but the two consensual parties involved) because other people don't like it.
 #48 
Old 2009-01-05, 11:19
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Although I once had sex in a public pool full of people (no one noticed :( )

That was YOU?! EEK!
 #49 
Old 2009-01-05, 11:36
Acolyte
 
ontario++
Default Re: Being "Grabby"

Quote:
Originally Posted by Chichi
So, you guys think I'm just doing it to show off that I have a girl who lets me touch her?

You don't think that there's a possibilty that, as a fifteen year old boy, I might just feel the natural urge to TOUCH A GIRL'S TITS? Mad

I don't just do it when other people are watching. I do it we're alone.

I'm not showing off.

Also, if you feel uncomfortable about seeing people being affectionate, then you probably weren't raised properly. Though this doesn't apply to being a "third wheel", then it's just fucking rude. Mad


Ya... I didn't consider that as a possibility because YOU ARE GAY. My explanation is much more probable.
 #50 
Old 2009-01-05, 11:37
Bad_Intentions Bad_Intentions is offline
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Just be sublte, my bf and I grab each other in public all the time but we keep it between us.
 #51 
Old 2009-01-05, 11:52
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Ya... I didn't consider that as a possibility because YOU ARE GAY. My explanation is much more probable.

Okay, I'm going to have a try of your failpsychiatry.

Could it be that you're mad at me for having a girlfriend when you don't, and you don't like how I rub it in your face by saying I touch her all time? Is it possible that you came up with an explanation in your head for being more sexually successful than you, that explanation being that I'm really insecure faggot trying to show off?

Your insecurity is showing. http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/6/6f/Sigmund_Freud-loc.jpg



Oh, and since I take it you failed to comprehend my hint, I'm bisexual. :o
 #52 
Old 2009-01-05, 11:57
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That was YOU?! EEK!

If you where in Australia > Tasmania > Hobart > Hobart Aquatic Centre...

Then yes it was.... And I'm glad some one noticed

Hope you havn't fapped yourself to much over it.

And why are do people feel they have scored a king hit by calling someone a fag sure back in the 60's in would have shocked and been a bit iffy but these days come on!!!

No such thing as straight and Bi and Gay....

Just trisexuals...especially on &t

**And I can assure you I am not gay I just don't see a problem with people who are..Although I am a trisexual...I will try anything that is offered once
 #53 
Old 2009-01-05, 23:29
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Did you run off to Australia with your boyfriend yet?


Hah, not yet, we're leaning more toward New Orleans right now. Too indecisive. In anycase no matter where I go, I'm going to have to live in Oakland for 2 months first so I can make enough money to get out of California. Being poor sucks.
 #54 
Old 2009-01-05, 23:47
VenaticalOne VenaticalOne is offline
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Okay, I'm going to have a try of your failpsychiatry.

Could it be that you're mad at me for having a girlfriend when you don't, and you don't like how I rub it in your face by saying I touch her all time? Is it possible that you came up with an explanation in your head for being more sexually successful than you, that explanation being that I'm really insecure faggot trying to show off?

Your insecurity is showing. http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/6/6f/Sigmund_Freud-loc.jpg



Oh, and since I take it you failed to comprehend my hint, I'm bisexual. :o

you are dumb.

homo.
 #55 
Old 2009-01-06, 00:22
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Istanbul, Turkey
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This.

The epitome of being a pussy is altering your behavior (especially behavior that doesn't affect anyone but the two consensual parties involved) because other people don't like it.

O rly?

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