I have been in 2 relationships in my life (im 19). The first one I simply wasnt ready for, I was young and immature. This first girl is still to this day a very good friend of mine and one of the greatest people I have ever met. She was the kind of girl I could be stranded alone on a island with and be happy for the rest of my life. She helped me grow up and be an all around good person. She is just an all around great girl, I could write on about her for days..

My second girlfriend was a fucking psycho. We went out for over a year. Weve been through pretty much every bad thing you could imagine in a relation ship. Everything from getting in physical fights to cheating to her getting pornographic pictures done to her dropping my name to the university of san diego for cocaine abuse. She was fucking crazy.

Now I have the image of my 2 ex's in mind when I read a girl. I cant ever find a girl who is like my first ex, and im scared of falling for a girl who is like my second ex. Because of my second ex every girl seems shallow, psychotic, compulsive liar (well.. alot of them are). When I read a girl they always draw back to my second ex and I get turned off. I have yet to meet a girl that comes anywhere close to my first ex. I have "hooked up" with countless girls, but they are all just shallow sluts that just look really good with make-up. I cant find a girl who is as beautiful on the inside as she is on the outside.

I miss just laying in bed with someone who loves you just as much as you love them. I miss falling asleep together on the phone. I miss not having to cook. I miss not being able share every single thought and emotion that is going on in my mind. I miss always having someone there.

meh.. im just drunk and lonley.. :(

I know the feeling man, to the letter. 'Cept I dated more girls. It's hard but you just gotta keep putting yourself out there, talking to girls who look interesting in interesting places or doing interesting things. Don't give up, decent girls exist.

fat chicks?

Well, at least you are a radical wanker.

troll?

troll?

Aren't you a hideous chinese bitch? Can I see your picture?

What prevents you from re-establising a relationship with the former of the two females?

So you're looking for a girl that you are compatiable with and that's beautiful on the inside and outside... well sorry to tell you but these types of girls aren't that common. Although they ARE out there. So like what was already said, you just gotta keep putting yourself out there in situations where you can meet new girls. If you just follow the same old routine everyday and never meet anyone new, how are you gunna expect to find that dream girl?

Find a hobby or something to keep you busy... maybe something to impress a girl with on a first date... who knows.


You'll find her one day... just try not to reek of desperation.

You and me both mate - unfortunately in my case the only girl I have even a vague interest in thinks I'm weird. And so, in alcohol we trust.

Why don't you just have your first ex help you find someone? I mean, she is your friend and obviously understands who you are. I'm sure she has the capabilities to read women better than you do.

My second girlfriend was a fucking psycho. We went out for over a year. Weve been through pretty much every bad thing you could imagine in a relation ship. Everything from getting in physical fights to cheating to her getting pornographic pictures done to her dropping my name to the university of san diego for cocaine abuse. She was fucking crazy.



Holy Shit! Thats awesome yet fucking nuts in a cool sort of way. I wish I met a gf that drove me so nuts I wanted to throw them through a wall.

Sounds like good advice. Why'd you break up with her anyway? Can you get back together?

Aren't you a hideous chinese bitch? Can I see your picture?

Hahahaha, give it up man.

Hahahaha, give it up man.

The worst part is, there are 6 pictures in the &T gallery. All it takes is a little searching.

And so, in alcohol we trust.

nice.

This, time heals all things....Once you find a new someone you will become unattached to the old someone.... I knew a guy who was in his 3rd year univ, still hung up on his high school x, till he found another girl...she all of a sudden wasn't so important!

this made me lol.

I had a similar problem. Only my 3rd and last gf was the crazy one and was just as crazy but not in the same way. I'd say build up confidence and ask a girl out that you like. I am sure you probably like more than one girl right now. If not just start talking to the girl you like and maybe she won't think you are weird.

My first introduced me to my second ex. So there goes that idea. Me and my first ex are just friends now, I cant really see us going out again and were both happy with the way things are.

I just want an honest, kind, sexy, and non-slutty girl. Why cant all girls just be those things?

sexy and non-slutty girl.


If a girl knows she is sexy then she is going to act... well you know.