damn, haven't been on here in a while. also forgot how crude and ruthless you lot can be :)

okay, so my friend is moving to london in 2 weeks and we decide to have one last night out before he leaves...
s'good fun, we get on well. in one bar a guy in a group we're chatting to is really flirty with me, and my friend gets really flirty and protective too for the rest of the night.
i ended up going back to his, and things get heavy, but just before we do the literal sex bit, he stops me and says he can't because it's not fair on me, he feels too bad to just sleep with me then fuck off to london? he just says he feels bad, so we don't.
this morning he's all cuddly, holding my hand and when i say he should hit me up after he moves, he says "i definitely will, you're a joy to be around" and starts about hoping he sees me more before he leaves and coming back(his fam are from near me too) etc :S

whaaat?! he's said he finds me really attractive, but things never went further a one off kiss before, but now he doesn't want to have sex with me?! or does he really feel bad and have some sort of genuine feelings for me?
is wanting to come back and see me likely to turn into some sort of relationship? depending on how the next few weeks are, is it something i could bring up?
he's 23, graduated with a good job and i'm just an 18 year old student :/ eh

yes, he may have genuine feelings for you. If you're ready for a long term relationship, go for it I guess...

but.. as you said, you're only 18. I'm 18. I want to be young while I can

Reading that gave me a head ache.

The way I see it, you didnt lose out on anything.

If you decide to further this relationship next time you see him then thats that, but for now it was simply a fun night out. Who knows, sex could have ruined the night and changed everything....

Any sane guy who was actually interested wouldn't have cock blocked himself.

it was literally everything BUT simply putting it in, which i don't get. what difference would that have made either way? blahhh

maybe your vagina smells?

no offense, of course.

Were condoms present?

Were condoms present?

no, but given another ten seconds i'd have got one out

no, but given another ten seconds i'd have got one out

hm... it was definitely your smelly vagina.

no, but given another ten seconds i'd have got one out

Hmmm odd well there goes that theory. Isobutane for me to give my accurate and completely professional opinion on this, I'm going to need your measurements in order to see if an average 23 year old English male would be enticed to sleep with you. Weight, height, and bra size please.

Hmmm odd well there goes that theory. Isobutane for me to give my accurate and completely professional opinion on this, I'm going to need your measurements in order to see if an average 23 year old English male would be enticed to sleep with you. Weight, height, and bra size please.

i know i'm not a minger, thanks. i'm "petite", i'm pretty, i have long blond hair and i have really good personal hygiene.

i know i'm not a minger, thanks. i'm "petite", i'm pretty, i have long blond hair and i have really good personal hygiene.

http://img296.imageshack.us/img296/2191/roloffamytk5.png

Something like this?

http://img296.imageshack.us/img296/2191/roloffamytk5.png

Something like this?

i bet her vagina smells like a dead squirrel

http://img296.imageshack.us/img296/2191/roloffamytk5.png

Something like this?

ah exactly like that, spitting image.


gah, totse

ah exactly like that, spitting image.




Well then I have no idea why he didn't want to sleep with you. Maybe there's someone else, maybe he looks at you as a little sister, maybe he had whiskey dick. Seriously though, there isn't enough information for me to really be of any help, especially electronically thousands of miles away. Next time your paths cross, I suggest you bring it up. Simple communication is always the best best.

On another note, do any of you realize how much midget porn I had to sift through to find that god damn picture? I don't think you do.

On another note, do any of you realize how much midget porn I had to sift through to find that god damn picture? I don't think you do.


Damn, that was funny.

Sounds to me like you ran into that rarest of creatures, a decent man. He wants sex with you to mean something and not just a drunken romp.

He also sounds just a little uptight, just a bit. A good cock sucking will probably help there , girl.

On another note, do any of you realize how much midget porn I had to sift through to find that god damn picture? I don't think you do.

You say it like it's a bad thing.

they should colour all of jack's posts a different colour so they stick out more and people read them even more likely

cause as usuall he's right

it was the first time i'd ever seen him out of a suit, and that's because he was naked, so maybe, eh.

thankyou, jackketch, as thinking about it and him being how he is, it's possible that could actually be the case to an extent. maybe i should credit men a little more sometimes

Yea, Jack is probably right. he would of stopped sooner if he wasn't attracted to you.

and he probably wasn't lying about wanting a relationship.. he could of easily fucked you and gone off to London, as you are admitting and as did he. he's a keeper. or w/e.

Isobutane,
Do you really like Org Chem?

i bet her vagina smells like a dead squirrel

get the fuck out of here you worthless smelly-vagina-loving faggot

Just a possibility, but it could be that he was going back to his old girlfriend who does not know about you two, and his conscience got to him, knowing that he would soon be seeing her. That would explain his sudden reluctance to have sex with you. Not saying this is the case, but it's certainly worth considering.

get the fuck out of here you worthless smelly-vagina-loving faggot

Ameritard much?

Dichotomy much?

Aren't you the one with your true love in the army?

Too jung to be tied down anymore?

He really likes you, he didn't have sex with you because he wants the first time he has sex with you to be perfect. He didn't want you to feel used. I'd imagine he's shy and it will take him forever to ask you out.

Well seeing as how I've seen pictures of you, I know you're really pretty unlike some people are saying on here, etc.

To be honest I think he just doesn't want to ruin any kind of "relationship" he might try to have/want by just having one night of blow off sex.

Since I don't know all the facts, I'd just assume he has actual feelings for you and didn't want to just use you for sex. There are some decent guys out there, looks like this was one of them.

There is always the off chance he just wasn't "in the mood" for whatever reason, but given the scenario, I find it highly unlikely.

Also, does this mean you'll start posting again? I miss seeing your posts.