So I hooked up with this cute girl, and have been dating for about two months. We are both still in highschool. She has an awesome personality and great looks. Bad thing is she lives kinda far away so i don't really see her much.

Anyways... the thing is: we haven't been talking much and lately she tells me she is unsure how she feels about us. She still likes me but she doesnt know to what extent.

Im not the best looking guy, and i don't want to lose her. What should i do/say before it's too late?

just be how you normally are, only she can decide if she likes you or not.

What he said, This is NOT something you should be worrying about, chill relax be confident and you'll be fine

How far away exactly do you guys live from eachother? Also, post pics of yourself. No I won't make fun of you, I just want to see if you actually are as unattractive as you think so you are, or if you're just a whiney self conscious bitch.

Anyway, if you aren't living TOO far away from eachother I would suggest going over to her place. Don't make it romantic or anything, so no flowers or chocolates. But just go over to hers and chill, watch movies, you know, something like that. By the end of the day/night you should be able to tell if she actually likes you or not. You can talk about it all with her. Kiss her, fuck her.

But don't do the gay over the phone shit with her. It's harder to tell if she's lying to you over the phone. If she looks down when you ask her a question then chances are she's not being honest. I understand you don't want to lose her, but seriously, there are so many other women out there. And besides, you can't get her to like you if she doesn't anymore. Move on m'good sir, just keep going.

I know, but it feels like we are on the verge of break-up.

btw, feel free to flame and all that because i am a new arrival

we live about... an hour...? close to that... and ill post as soon as i get a camera, but as for her i can get some pics

Well too bad, You don't ever get what you want in life, but you can take what's available to you.

Why does so many new arrivals ask to be flamed.
From what I understand the flaming only comes if you ask a stupid question or give a stupid answer.

And there is no point changing yourself to hang onto her it will just make you miserable as was mentioned, How far away is far away?
Ride a bike, catch a bus show you want to spend time with her and dont mind the extra effort.

Because in doing so it doesn't happen ;D

Fuck you, it'll happen just as much so long as you're a dick about it. Don't think that you won't get flamed because we feel sorry for you. We still all fucking hate you.


Anyway, an hour really isn't that long. To get to my boyfriend's house it often takes me 1 1/2 hours and I still do that at least once a week. Stop bitching and trying to avoid seeing her. If you can't be arsed putting in a little extra effort to go see her then obviously you don't care about her enough. Leave her, she doesn't want you and you don't want her. End of story

She will break up with you, I'm sure of it.

When girls start to say they don't know how they feel, or say they're "confused" or "unsure"...Any of that shit, it's never good.

This is what my girlfriend started saying before she broke up with me.