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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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Old 2008-12-14, 16:47
Aquabania Aquabania is offline
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Default I'm 19, she's 25

So there's this girl in one of my classes (community college) who I sit with and joke around with. We get along pretty well and I find her extremely attractive... I've actually had a bit of a crush on her from day one. Anyway she gave me her number a few days ago and asked me to call her to hang out over the weekend.... So I was wondering if anyone had any experience about an age gap like this.... I mean, she's had all these life experiences, traveling the world etc, I just graduated from high school.
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Old 2008-12-14, 16:52
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Thumbs up Re: I'm 19, she's 25

Confidence is where it's at. Be confident, just because you don't have as much experience doesn't mean that you can't have fun together, right?

I'm 20 and my girl is 24, no big deal.
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Old 2008-12-14, 17:07
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Default Re: I'm 19, she's 25

Depends its either one of two things she thinks your a mature person and likes you on the same level she would like any guy her age and wants to hang out try and try and start some sort of thing which is preety fucking boring actually ...

Or its the other situation where shes just on of those girls that has a thing for young guys and the more you act like a funny don't give a fuck 19 year old the more she likes it, listen buddy your preety lucky if this is the case these girls take control know what they want and make you do it and the more you try and act like you know it all and the world is yours the hotter they get, these are a rare breed but fuck your in for a good time if she is ...

*sigh* to be 19 again
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Old 2008-12-14, 17:12
Jazzy_Ways Jazzy_Ways is offline
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Thumbs up Re: I'm 19, she's 25

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Call her up on it...(PLAYFULLY)"omg your such an old fogie!"
She is 25, so get into a relationship and she will expect sex.

Also, for the hanging out- nothing that seems like a date. That is very important. Clothes shopping could do!
Bring along a female friend (who's in the know). This is called a pivot. She will flirt with you and make her jealous. Don't tell the girl your pivot is coming-make it a surprise! She was thinking it would be all romantic, and you would be hitting on her, and this pivot turns up and wrecks her perception! Make sure the pivot knows when to buzz off later on though:P

Good luck man
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Old 2008-12-14, 17:22
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Default Re: I'm 19, she's 25

Age gap isn't much of a problem if you are on the same intellectual level. I'm 16 dating a 20 year old, so I am in a similar situation.
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Old 2008-12-14, 17:30
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Default Re: I'm 19, she's 25

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Sick
Call her up on it...(PLAYFULLY)"omg your such an old fogie!"
She is 25, so get into a relationship and she will expect sex.

Also, for the hanging out- nothing that seems like a date. That is very important. Clothes shopping could do!
Bring along a female friend (who's in the know). This is called a pivot. She will flirt with you and make her jealous. Don't tell the girl your pivot is coming-make it a surprise! She was thinking it would be all romantic, and you would be hitting on her, and this pivot turns up and wrecks her perception! Make sure the pivot knows when to buzz off later on though:P

Good luck man
possibly worst advice ever

dont call her an "old fogie", seriously dont

and DON'T bring anyone along she has already established she wants to see you you don't need to make her jelous or any of that shit seriously do the complete opposite of what this chump said and your gold
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Old 2008-12-14, 17:37
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Default Re: I'm 19, she's 25

You're a pathetic excuse for a human and once she's gotten to know you she'll realize she can find much more interesting people regardless of where she looks.
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Old 2008-12-14, 19:35
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Default Re: I'm 19, she's 25

just phone, go and chill

AND STOP BEING AN INSECURE TEENAGER....goddamnit..
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Old 2008-12-14, 23:24
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Call her up on it...(PLAYFULLY)"omg your such an old fogie!"
She is 25, so get into a relationship and she will expect sex.

Also, for the hanging out- nothing that seems like a date. That is very important. Clothes shopping could do!
Bring along a female friend (who's in the know). This is called a pivot. She will flirt with you and make her jealous. Don't tell the girl your pivot is coming-make it a surprise! She was thinking it would be all romantic, and you would be hitting on her, and this pivot turns up and wrecks her perception! Make sure the pivot knows when to buzz off later on though:P

Good luck man
You are indeed a shitty new arrival. 6 years can be a weird age gap, especially in cali where the drinking age is 21. You might get left behind when she goes out to clubs and such. That said, ask her out, see if she's down. It could be fun, and you don't know, maybe it'll become a long term relationship.
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Old 2008-12-14, 23:24
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Default Re: I'm 19, she's 25

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So there's this girl in one of my classes (community college) who I sit with and joke around with. We get along pretty well and I find her extremely attractive... I've actually had a bit of a crush on her from day one. Anyway she gave me her number a few days ago and asked me to call her to hang out over the weekend.... So I was wondering if anyone had any experience about an age gap like this.... I mean, she's had all these life experiences, traveling the world etc, I just graduated from high school.
age = experience.

hit it.
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