Hey guys, first poster here, thanks for taking the time to read.

My girlfriend and I were putting up the Xmas tree the other day in the living room, and she took a break to check her email/put on some tunes (also in living room, close to tree), while I kept putting up lights. We were conversing during this time and I looked behind myself, a quick glance at her computer screen (of which she was checking her email) and saw a couple emails from Adamandeve.com (subject lines: Thank you for your order/Thank you for creating an Adamandeve account).

At first I didn't think much of it. We have been together very happily since June of 08'. She is 22 and I am 29 and I am the 2nd person to have ever had sex with her. I am much more experienced than her but when we DO have sex, it's very awesome (different positions, dirty talk, etc) and she knows what she wants and always tells me after wards how great it was. My concern lies in what happens after sex though.

When we finish, she goes and cleans up and always comes out of the bathroom saying shes still soaked, which is fine by me because that means she way turned on. But I'll talk to her hours later and she'll say she's still soaked, and after working 10 hours I'm not always ready to just lay down the pipe when I get home. We have sex about 5 times a week (sometimes twice in one session), but some nights I'm just too tired. She always understands and respects this, but will always tell me the next morning she wishes we would have had sex (in the sweetest voice and pouty lips).

Here's where I think I may benefit from some advice.

I'm thinking the Adamandeve thing - she bought herself a toy. I've never been with a girl who used toys, weather on herself or with/on me. I've never fantasized about it and I am truly, at a loss as to what kind of emotions I should be feeling. One minute I feel good that she's exploring herself sexually/privately, and then the next minute I'm feeling like what she gets from me isn't enough.
(yeah goddamit, inadequacy). Another part of me wonders if I would be willing to try toys with her.

Obviously she doesn't know I saw the email and she hasn't mentioned anything of it, so do I leave it to her privacy or do I bring it up that I casually saw it? She otherwise has never told me that she owns toys.

Yes, I know, it could be alot worse, but thats why im not asking for sympathy. Just trying to learn without prying.

Thanks for your time.

If you don't feel emotions, those are the ones you shouldn't feel. Who cares? Keep doing your thing.

You'll be fine, Shouldn't be anything to worry about. No toy can replace human touch.

Five times a week is pretty weak. If she has an active sex drive then you're just depriving her of sex. She probably doesn't want to hurt your feelings by letting you know that a plastic stick is replacing you for part of the week. Either way if she does have one then it's justified and there isn't anything wrong with it. If it's bothering you so much you need to bring it up and see what she how she reacts. Worst case scenario she tells you how she really feels.

This thread was lol.

Would you prefer a fake pussy or real pussy?

Do you think she prefers a dildo over real dick?

It's not a big deal. You said it yourself: you can't put out as much as she wants you to. If she wasn't having sex with you as much as you wanted, you'd probably get some porn and wank, am I right? You should be praying that the toy doesn't turn into another man, if you catch my drift.

Just thank God that you didn't see an account for an online dating site.


Though, I would talk to her about it. Casually of course. Ask her why she's interested in that sort of thing. Perhaps the two of you could use the product(s) together?

Just get it out in the open so it's not some awkward curiosity.

MIGHT just be a negligee to surprise you with. Don't jump the gun.

hate that word.