I met this girl on the net about 2 months ago and we finally met last week had sex... etc

Thing is her pics looked totally diff when I saw her I didn't really feel to attracted to her but shes a really nice and cool person to talk to and a really good friend.. shes just fun to be around.

the next few days after we had sex she texted me multiple times saying that im perfect she cant stop thinking about me etc.. I basically felt bad didnt want to hurt her feelings but now I really like hanging out with her and found out we have lots incommon.

So does the relationship have a chance I think her face is pretty but it wouldn't hurt if she could loose some pounds Sorry about the emo/bad grammar I am really drunk and bored

If there is no honest physical attraction this relationship is doomed to fail.
Others may tell you that 'love is all you need' etc etc..
not true, physical attraction is a big factor as well.

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Ok eventually you're either gonna have to talk to her/dump her about this << OR >>

If you think you'll be more attracted to her after she has lost weight then try something like this >>

Tell her you're concerned about her health and yours or something and that you should both go on a fitness course for a while and start maintaining a more healthier diet/lifestyle.

One of my friends tried something similar to get his gf to lose weigh, so it could work if you do it right. Just an idea... <<

damn I really dont want to hurt her shes going through alot rite now her dad passed away about 4 months ago. She told me that im special and no one has cared about her as much as i do :S

Mind if I join, or is it a 'New Arrival'-only thread?

My other totse account was compromised honesty... who the fuck cares about post count. If you're posting on totse 247 you're in no position to make fun of anyone.

Anyway back to the topic..

Oooooh! Zap!

But, yeah - dude - just play it by ear. You said she was a cool girl and easy to talk to. Why not just see where the ride takes you?

This.

And as long as you don't find her physically repulsive, a good personality will keep you satisfied a hell of a lot longer than just a pretty face.

I joined/registered mid '07 around, just never posted, lurker since '05 until now :P

Googled 'how to make a bomb' or some shit a few years back and it brought me here...

Anyway, TGB, just as the others said - see how it goes.

Is there any way you can all of a sudden be like "I'm a really active guy, and I could see my self dating you but for us to work you'd have to take an interest in my hobbies, ie. get active as well" and get her to shed some pounds while working out with you? I'm sure you could use it as well. Hmm? If her face is pretty and she only needs to lose some weight, she's totally redeemable. If she had an ugly face and a good body...there's no fixing that.

Take her on as a project. Exercise together and make her skinny. It could be epic. You'd end up with a hot girl who still has the confidence of a fat chick. Pure win.