ah so im coming up on 2 months with my current girlfriend, my usual breaking point in all of my relationships. now my old lady is attractive, she has a great body but most importantly, has an incredible personality. anyways we have a good amount of sex (well fuck every other day like 3 or more times in a sitting plus 30 minutes or so of foreplay) and I myself am a fan of performing many different positions and techniques.

shes always been down to try my positions and fun little tricks, but thing is ive realized lately, that she isnt into getting kinky at all. ive been looking for ways to get her going loca so ive been a lot rougher when we fuck (ive been taking it easy on her, shes not my last girl ) but i can tell she isnt into being thrown around as much as i like pushing her up against a wall and holding her hands behind her back. seriously though i used to be way into knife play and if i ever brought that up now, hahaha id just get stonewalled..

now my main concern is her favorite session is straight up missionary for 20 minutes, then flip sides and keep going. i mean god damn im looking to get buck fucking wild in bed you know? it seems ive tried all the positions and fun things i love but all she wants is basic shit... its depressing.

so basically what im asking is what are some simple ways to spice up my sex life right quick? i know shitty sex is a doomed relationship but what about boring sex? does that just lead to marriage?

thanks guys.



oh and for the record, im a very giving partner and she cums each time, i make sure of it.

Put it in her bum.

i should know better than to post at 430am... and plus i have, she doesnt like it

I was serious.


Maybe tell her to put her finger in your bum?

Okay, that wasn't serious.

hahaha and i was serious when i said ive already put it in her butt and she isnt really a fan. she "prefers vaginal intercourse."

ah i guess i just miss how much of a nympho my old fuck buddy was...
how can i get my new girlfriend to be like my ex whore?

As sick as it sounds, try gradually "retraining" her to make her like the more kinky stuff?

E.g. don't let her cum when you're having vanilla sex, but get her there when you do kinkier stuff?


Alternatively, talk to her about it / deal with it.


Edit: Does she seem open-minded about sex at all? I.e. is she open to the ideas of having kinkier sex, but just genuinely prefers the vanilla stuff - or is she somewhat repressed / has feelings of guilt or something else associated with sex?

If it's the former, all you can do is talk to her about it, and have her do what you enjoy every once in a while.
If it's the latter, well, that's a different question altogether.

Play just the tip with her.

Just tell her you're gonna put the tip in her ass, except when you actually play the game, you put the tip in and then slam the rest of your cock in, exclaiming 'WINNER!' and then, well, there are no real rules for after that...

This New Arrival has my blessing.

Yes it does. My missus and I tend to do the same thing over and again...Me on top, making her cum, me cumming, me having a smoke and going to sleep.

Unless she wears one of her kinky little numbers...That's when we do it all over the place.

Just enjoy what you have, bruv. It could be worse...You could knock up and ugly fat chick on a drunken night and realise she likes to go on top!