Alright So im dating this girl will call her c..well i go see her about every weekend and i talk to her on tha phone all week...well when i go see her two of my other friends go with me to see there gfs, its kinda like a gathering of couples....well
when me n my friends go see our gfs on tha weekend we all talk an stuff well sumtimes c will give my friends hugs and call them her brothers and smack them and punch them which in my view i see it as flirting and it makes me mad i really love this girl and the other day i was at a party and i told her tht it mad me angry when she did tht she stopped for tha night but tha next morning she did it again...but she really likes me alot from whats she says and her whole myspace is about me i just wanna know what tha hell should i do in this situation is it
just me being jealous an overprotective? i really need some information on wat to do its driving me nuts!!!!! so totse i ask for any help you can give me!!!

Talk to her again about it.

Maybe she was too drunk and didn't realise it was a big deal to you so she hasn't remembered.


Start the conversation with something along the lines of - "this is important to me, I really like you and want to make this work between us, and make it last. I would stop doing anything you don't like me doing so I'd appreciate it if you listened to me and showed you are willing to do this for me."

well she is bipolar i think and so am i shes hard to get tha point through to......and i cant have more stuff like this making me mad at this point in time i am having tha most troubles ive ever had...

Snap! I'm bi-polar too haha.
I'm sure if you sat her down in a quiet setting and said sincerely that it is a big deal she will get the point. If she doesn't then she's ignorant, and bi-polar is not an excuse.

yea well imma have to try it i really wanna be with her for tha rest of my life.....and yes bipolar is not an excuse....what should i do if she doesnt listen....should i just say f**k it an forget about it??

If she doesn't listen then she probably doesn't feel the same way, unfortunatly.
Don't just listen to me though, take more opinions into account aswell

I will thnks for your advice this has been aggravating me ever since it happened tha first time....and im glad ive got to talk about it and hopefully i get some more opinons....

Settle down man. She sounds almost obsessed with you. Your friends have girlfriends and they're your friends for Christ's sake. Do you really not trust them?

You're both bipolar? I'm finding it hard to determine whether that's the truth or whether you're both part of the "it's hip to be bipolar" scene. Do you have medical certification or are you just a couple of moody-ass teenagers as I suspect?

yea i trust them....and yes i have medical certification tht i am but i dont know about her i was on medication from age 4 till 17 and im probably gonna be put back on medication here soon

You are so wise.