So, over the summer me and my boyfreind of 2 years took a break, in that time, I dated a boy I had known since childhood, he was a really great guy, and everything was good, but I realized that I truly loved my boyfreind of 2 years, and chose to be with him.

Understandably, this absolutely wrecked guy 2, and I felt horrible, but our relationship had only been less than a week, and I felt he should have gotten over it faily quickly.

All this has been 6 months ago, and hes had a new girlfreind for about 4 months, shes beautiful and they get along great, i truly do wish them the best.


Here is the issue, my best freind is living with guy 2's girlfriend, who I get along with. But, everyone feels like they are on pins and needles around me and guy 2. To the point where I get alienated from parties and get togethers and such because people know he will be there.

A few weeks ago we ended up at a party drunk together, talked a long time, and I thought we got it all worked out.

I really just want to know if anyone has any advice on how to keep from losing my freinds because of misconceptions they have about me and guy 2 being around eachother.

yousssss a hoe

Make sure that you and guy 2 make it well known amongst your friends that everything is normal. Like you said, it was only a week. That's worth barely more than a grade 4 relationship. If no one can get past that, you need new friends.

He refuses to make it known that we are okay because he is still pissed about the whole thing.

I guess that really means we arent okay.

I probably do need new friends.

What a bitch. You should set him on fire.

What kind of guy goes crazy after a week's relationship? Did you just eat & watch movies together or did you give him the best darn lovin' since he blackmailed his sis about her using the folk's wheels when they were out?

Bingo

We didnt sleep together. We've known eachother since we played little league together. In high school I got really into the party scene and he got really into the drug scene and our paths never crossed til this summer.

Honestly, If i wasnt so crazy about my boyfreind, I would be with guy 2, we did have a hell of a connection, but I digress....

It was less than a week, and hes got a gf whose at least 3x prettier than I am.

Got the personality of a retard though.

She giggles constantly, drinks too much, and refers to him as "boyfreind", never by his name.


OH and yeah, shes his best freinds ex of like 2 years, and him and his bestfreind are ok!

So why the fuck cant we be ok?

What the fuck did you expect?

You're a selfish bitch and you deserve every bit of his anger. I hate manipulative bitches like you.

When you "dated" him for a week, did you really let him know that you didn't actually intend to break up with your boyfriend? I'm guessing that the answer is no because no one in the right mind would humor a bloodsucking slut like you.

Men aren't your tampons, lady. You don't just use another human being for your personal closure or entertainment and then discard them when they no longer suit your needs.

Probably friends on the other side or something. Maybe dated in a past life?