the problem is, I have none.

my GF of 6 months was being hit on by this guy that is at her university, for the past 2 weeks. i found.

i'v seen his facebook, he's not AMAZING looking but he's ok.

the thing is, he's rich rich rich, his family is rich also, he does stuff like one weekend in paris, next weekend LA.

I love my gf so much, the thing is, I feel like she deserves all the good things in life, all the things I cannot hope to provide for her, for a few years at least.

she is a 9/10
i would say I'm a 7.5/10
i would say he is a 7/10

looks wise.

she told me he has been phoning her all the time, and all his friends, which are rich also tried to persuade her. on top of being rich, he is also very nice, very well spoken and very stylish. ( I hate him so much!)

I told her to chose, and she said she chose me and today he rang her and she told him that she chose me. I don't know whether she REALLY wants to chose me or whether she wants to live up to the stereotype of the "really really nice girl" and also doesn't want to hurt my feelings

I'm fucked aren't I?

LOL

No shit she chose you. Women always do that, they tell you they choose you and the next thing you know the phone's up her ass.

Women typically go for the more established man with the ability to provide more money, clothes, food, comforts, etc. You can't really blame them, it's an evolutionary trick. Unfortunately that means until you can match up things occasionally take a turn in this direction.

After 6 months she had to say "I choose you"?

Dump her.

not really...imma girl and really do not care that much about money...yea sure can buy you things, drugs, booze, nice ass rides, but really...its not everything. I rather be piss poor and living under a bridge with my bf than be with some asshole rich dude who knows he could get whatever whenever due to him having the monies...

honestly, if she went with him, he would make her very happy for like a month and then fuck her up her ass and leave her naked and bloody on a streetcorner somewhere. it's how they roll. she'll probably go with him, you can at least take solace in that though.

if it was anyone else i would. but I have to show mercy. I've made mistakes that hurt her in the past

+ on top of that, I'm seriously punching above my own weight, she's "tiny but perfect in every detail" and she is extremely well off and she buys me loads of stuff all the time.

I'm not going to dump someone that is marriage-worthy.

edit: I plan to go with some friends and beat the crap out of him and make him apologise to my gf, then apologise to me, and apologise to my friends for giving up their time on camera, then post the video to youtube and give her the URL for a christmas present (cause it's all i can afford practically)

will this make her love me more?

I'd chill out about it. Unless she was seriously considering this dude then it's no big deal. If she was then dump her ass right now.

She's already fucking him.

If she'd leave you just because you don't have as much money as someone else, then you don't want her anyway.