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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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Old 2008-12-07, 10:47
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Exclamation Should I go for it?

My girlfriend has a friend that we've started hanging out with frequently in the last couple weeks. Her and I are not that close, but the last few days we've been sending each other innocent, flirty texts and hanging out a couple times by ourselves. I'm pretty sure she's interested, but I haven't made any moves because I'm not too comfortable cheating on my girlfriend, and I didn't know if she was either. Then tonight as I was texting her, the subject comes around to sex, and she drops the bomb and says that she's "insanely turned on by the idea of rape." While I've had some girls tell me freaky stuff before, this was by far the freakiest. Luckily, I managed not to lose my cool, and I just carried on the conversation, which jumped straight into cheating on significant others. However, I'm still on a testy level about cheating, and of course she's not going to come straight out and tell me to fuck her. She has a boyfriend after all, and women are supposed to play hard to get and all that rot. From there, it was basically blah blah blah, and then goodnight.

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Cute, flirty friend of mine says she is "insanely turned on by the idea of rape." Should I help her fulfill her fantasy?

- Tom
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Old 2008-12-07, 10:50
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Your call.
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Old 2008-12-07, 10:51
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My girlfriend has a friend that we've started hanging out with frequently in the last couple weeks. Her and I are not that close, but the last few days we've been sending each other innocent, flirty texts and hanging out a couple times by ourselves. I'm pretty sure she's interested, but I haven't made any moves because I'm not too comfortable cheating on my girlfriend, and I didn't know if she was either. Then tonight as I was texting her, the subject comes around to sex, and she drops the bomb and says that she's "insanely turned on by the idea of rape." While I've had some girls tell me freaky stuff before, this was by far the freakiest. Luckily, I managed not to lose my cool, and I just carried on the conversation, which jumped straight into cheating on significant others. However, I'm still on a testy level about cheating, and of course she's not going to come straight out and tell me to fuck her. She has a boyfriend after all, and women are supposed to play hard to get and all that rot. From there, it was basically blah blah blah, and then goodnight.

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Cute, flirty friend of mine says she is "insanely turned on by the idea of rape." Should I help her fulfill her fantasy?

- Tom
Well you're a prick.
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Old 2008-12-07, 10:55
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Your call.
I forgot to mention that I'm worried about some sort of legal bullshit. If she goes batshit nuts for some reason and tries to press charges, could I bring some sort of copy of the text or subpoena the cell phone company for my defense? Would her statements be a valid legal defense for rape charges? We're also both 17 years old, so there's no age issues.

- Tom
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Old 2008-12-07, 10:55
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Well you're a prick.
I know...

- Tom
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Old 2008-12-07, 10:59
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I forgot to mention that I'm worried about some sort of legal bullshit. If she goes batshit nuts for some reason and tries to press charges, could I bring some sort of copy of the text or subpoena the cell phone company for my defense? Would her statements be a valid legal defense for rape charges? We're also both 17 years old, so there's no age issues.

- Tom
Dude, keeping records of that stuff just goes without saying, you never know when you'll need it.
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Old 2008-12-07, 13:07
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Threeway!
Now!
Go fast!
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Old 2008-12-07, 13:15
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My girlfriend has a friend that we've started hanging out with frequently in the last couple weeks. Her and I are not that close, but the last few days we've been sending each other innocent, flirty texts and hanging out a couple times by ourselves. I'm pretty sure she's interested, but I haven't made any moves because I'm not too comfortable cheating on my girlfriend, and I didn't know if she was either. Then tonight as I was texting her, the subject comes around to sex, and she drops the bomb and says that she's "insanely turned on by the idea of rape." While I've had some girls tell me freaky stuff before, this was by far the freakiest. Luckily, I managed not to lose my cool, and I just carried on the conversation, which jumped straight into cheating on significant others. However, I'm still on a testy level about cheating, and of course she's not going to come straight out and tell me to fuck her. She has a boyfriend after all, and women are supposed to play hard to get and all that rot. From there, it was basically blah blah blah, and then goodnight.

TL/DR:

Cute, flirty friend of mine says she is "insanely turned on by the idea of rape." Should I help her fulfill her fantasy?

- Tom
and to actually contribute, ive been with a chick who wanted a rape fantasy. amazing. slam against walls, biting, knives... doesnt get much better bredrin
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Old 2008-12-07, 13:21
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Your girlfriend probably put the girl up to this to test your loyalty.

You're in trouble.
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Old 2008-12-07, 14:31
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Your girlfriend probably put the girl up to this to test your loyalty.

You're in trouble.
That's what I'm thinking.
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