totse.com | Girlfriend doesn't like it from behind.

Discordia · #1 2008-12-07, 03:00

To make a long story short and to the point, my girlfriend hates having sex with me behind her, she says it doesn't feel good, and that it "pinches." I dont have some giant mutated dick but she is a little on the not-a-hallway side but my question to you totse; is she just putting on a facade or can it really hurt to have sex with a guy behind the girl, why does it happen, and how can we fix it? Its getting frustrating because its my favorite and she won't go for it

Thanks guys

colorsoc · #2 2008-12-07, 03:10

Deliberately make ever other position more painful, as to make doggy the most pleasing. That or learn to enjoy another position for her sake.

Rykoshet · #3 2008-12-07, 03:40

You're shit out of luck. You're hitting her cervix, and she doesn't like it. Either don't go all the way in or keep put a hand on your shaft so when you thrust you don't go all the way in.

Other than that, you can't fix it.

coastal progress · #4 2008-12-07, 03:47

Most dicks are curved different ways, making different angles better at hitting the G-Spot. If she complains, then it's probably better to try some other positions. May I suggest: http://www.str8up.com/members/15546/...position_1.png

Affect · #5 2008-12-07, 04:18

Go slow. Froggy style, doggy laid down is amazing. A sexy ass to look down on, and bury your cock in. I've had multiple complaints of pain from doggy though. Froggy wasn't an issue with these same girls.

WritingANovel · #6 2008-12-07, 04:25

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Originally Posted by Discordia View Post

To make a long story short and to the point, my girlfriend hates having sex with me behind her, she says it doesn't feel good, and that it "pinches." I dont have some giant mutated dick but she is a little on the not-a-hallway side but my question to you totse; is she just putting on a facade or can it really hurt to have sex with a guy behind the girl, why does it happen, and how can we fix it? Its getting frustrating because its my favorite and she won't go for it

Thanks guys

Depends...

Do you think she's the type who lies?

Affect · #7 2008-12-07, 04:30

It's a lot easier to bash cervix in this position when going deep.

Discordia · #8 2008-12-07, 05:09

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Depends...

Do you think she's the type who lies?

Not really, but theres also a whole backstory with an abusive ex who forced her to do all sorts of things, doggy being one of them, etc.

Affect; you're right, thats my favourite

We tried it with her lying on her stomach, but even just getting my head in, she said it hurt too bad and we moved on to a different position.

I suppose its just something I'll have to live with, we always have great sex anyhow, but I just felt like we were missing out a bit, maybe if she gets drunk enough not to feel it it will be ok

WritingANovel · #9 2008-12-07, 05:13

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Not really, but theres also a whole backstory with an abusive ex who forced her to do all sorts of things, doggy being one of them, etc.

Affect; you're right, thats my favourite

We tried it with her lying on her stomach, but even just getting my head in, she said it hurt too bad and we moved on to a different position.

I suppose its just something I'll have to live with, we always have great sex anyhow, but I just felt like we were missing out a bit, maybe if she gets drunk enough not to feel it it will be ok

Not sure how well this is going to work but you can try local anesthetic.

Discordia · #10 2008-12-07, 05:28

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Not sure how well this is going to work but you can try local anesthetic.

but then it wouldn't be any fun for her, and thats lame as hell.