Fuck do I hate my family. My dad is a 42 year old faliure mechanic who can barely pay for his 4 kids, and my mom is a 40 year old who works 15 hours a week. Just now I asked for my mom to take me to the mall, she said no I'm busy as she flipped backed the The View hoping the commercial break was over. She said I'm not only working for you and I told her she doesn't do ANYTHING for me, which is the truth. I give that cunt at least 40% of my check every 2 weeks and she just bitches at me more. The only thing my parents paid for that I have is my matress. Not even the bed, just the matress. They don't do shit and they don't know anything. When it was just me and my sister life was so much better, they both had decent jobs and it was peace and quiet. Now my mom has a shitty part time job and my dad works 12+ hours a day, and there is always a baby crying. I can barely save any money either, since my mom is always asking me to pay for some stupid shit and giving me guilt trips, and I have to pay for my phone bill, lunch money, clothing, and pretty much every living necessity that was handed to everyone else on a silver platter. I wish I could live alone.

in before some 20 year old motherfucker says 'fucking ungrateful teenager scum', or compares me to some 4 year old sudanese refugee who had to take care of a 7 child family

So you pay for rent, food, electricity, water, internet, car payments?

Harden the fuck up.

Harden the fuck up.

this and move the fuck out

Harden the fuck up.

This. You'll be free soon, make the most of it while your stuck there.

while I didn't read the entire post of op, I just want to say one thing:

I hate my mother, with all my heart.

Like, seriously.

today I got an email from my brother, in which he said my mom wanted me to call home.

know what I said? I said, "tell her to fuck off, i aint calling her".

i hope she cries. i really, really, really do.

cunt

Your dad works 12+ hours a day.
That's a long day of work--give the guy a fucking break.

Seriously, take the following to heart:

Ignore your family as you deem necessary. Don't even interact with them, unless it is necessary. Work hard in school, the very hardest you can. Do extra assignments, study, brown-nose the teachers, etc. Then, apply for university. Get a degree that has lots of job opportunity (Pharmacy).

Make something of yourself, and secure your financial independence. Get kids, raise them to appreciate education, responsibility, open-mindedness. Better society by doing this. Then, as your kids are gone and your body ages, move to the third world and devote yourself to helping the unfortunate.

Want to avoid your family for the rest of your life? Do that.

But your parents aren't emotionally or physically abusive, so don't bitch so badly about them.

Having a family > Not having a family

Not true at all.

Boo-frickin-hoo, you couldn't go to the mall - how about you get off your own god damned ass and get the bus or walk FFS?

Either move out/quit being a whiny little bitch - the choice is yours.

Not true at all.

Valid.

I suppose that what I mean to say is that if I had a choice to have grown up with a single family instead of having been switched from place to place and family to family after having been abandoned, I'd prefer first one.

Is it too much of a stretch to say that the vast majority of people who have/live with their real families have better lives than those who don't? Not every time, but just on average?