I need some advice here... I'm able to 'get off' through stimulation of the clitoris, but I have never been able to achieve an orgasm through penetration of any sort (sex has never done it for me). I'm wondering if it's just not possible for me, or if there's a certain technique to it. So, i would appreciate it if you guys could enlighten me... what do you do/use to make your toes curl?

There is a technique that I know off you see it allot in Japanese movies they know what there doing. I cant really explain it all too well kinda have to show how too do it.

http://thepiratebay.org/torrent/3703837/ This is were I learned some of my skills women I am with are never disappointed

I don't know how it is for other girls, but I know that in my own experience it's something you can learn how to do. When I first started having sex I could never, ever have an orgasm without direct clitoral stimulation. However my boyfriend and I desperately wanted me to be able to have an orgasm from sex, so I started 'practicing,' getting myself almost to orgasm from clitoral stimulation, and then switching to the g-spot alone to try and learn how to orgasm that way. I couldn't do it the first, or even the tenth time, but at some point it started getting easier and I've been able to have g-spot orgasms on my own, but I'm not at the point where I can do it with him yet. My advice would be to get to know your body, spend some time exploring what feels best and developing a technique that works for you and developing those muscles to work in a different way than they're used to, and then translate that knowledge into something you can apply when with a partner.

HAHA, your boyfriend is made of fail.


but on topic, which is more pleasurable clitoral orgasm or gspot orgasm?

HAHA, your boyfriend is made of fail.


but on topic, which is more pleasurable clitoral orgasm or gspot orgasm?

He's not made of fail at all. Most girls can't get off from penetration in the first place, and it's a really specific technique that I can't properly communicate to him.

And to answer your question, they're totally different so you can't really compare. A clitoral orgasm is more localized I guess you could say, while a g-spot orgasm is a deeper, whole body sensation.

Hm.. looks interesting. Will definitely show this to my boyfriend :)

Just out of curiosity.. how far in do you go?

Fishhook fingering seems to work well.

why dont u get an electric toothbrush then stick it in, pressing the brush against the upper wall of your vag

i am serious too, my mom seems to like it

HAHA, your boyfriend is made of fail.


but on topic, which is more pleasurable clitoral orgasm or gspot orgasm?

I've always found g-spot orgasms easier and far more intense. Also found g-spot stimulation more enjoyable then clitoral. I think that's odd from what I've heard other say however.

My girl says that feels really 'intrusive', and prefers a circular rubbing motion on her gspot.

Most women I know use my cock to hit it.

Just out of curiosity.. how far in do you go?

I'd estimate about an inch or two.

My girl says that feels really 'intrusive', and prefers a circular rubbing motion on her gspot.

So true. The 'come here' motion that guys are taught is actually rather painful.

I find that the come hither motion works, you just dont need to go in as deep or press as hard as some people think (this may be the painful part) The G spot is only a few inches in and feels a bit rougher than the rest of the vagina, so you can feel around a bit, lol. Get into a good rhythm and try sticking with it for a little.

I think clitoral is just better overall. Personally I can get off several times with absolutely no penetration, but everyone is different. Perhaps your boyfriend could work on some moves where he is penetrating and rubbing against your clit at the same time?

I'd estimate about an inch or two.



So true. The 'come here' motion that guys are taught is actually rather painful.

If done right it's actually really good. Don't curve the fingers up back to the palm, just mute the movement and it is unbelievably fucking good.

Speaking of, with my gf, when i rub her off, that goes as such, but she has never hit orgasm, can somebody explain the feeling to me? because she she shakes and shudders softly, then usually asks me to stop because the feeling is too intense, is this orgasm?

No, she's too afraid to 'let go' because she feels she's going to pee her self. She has to let go and relax and just go with it. "Open the flood gates".

I want to go into business with your Mom selling her tooth brushes to Japanese men via vending machines.

I want to go into business with your Mom selling her tooth brushes to Japanese men via vending machines.

Get on the stock market so i can invest. ;)
Japanese has big wallets and wierd fetishes :)

I want to go into business with your Mom selling her tooth brushes to Japanese men via vending machines.

I have 8 tooth brushes in my room that I've used for that if you would like. Then I discovered the rabbit.

I have 8 tooth brushes in my room that I've used for that.

Ewww...for serious?

I have 8 tooth brushes in my room that I've used for that if you would like. Then I discovered the rabbit.

Reminds me of this thread: https://www.totse.com/community/showthread.php?t=2093805

I have 8 tooth brushes in my room that I've used for that if you would like. Then I discovered the rabbit.

They will have to be DNA tested first to see if they are yours, Also if you could provide pictures (for totse) on the use of said tooth brushes it would be appreciated: )

Here's something that might help. When in missionary (assuming your with a partner) have your guy lift you up so you are almost vertical. This lets him thrust into you from a downward angle. Now you push your body down towards him while he is thrusting and he will naturally be forced to do the opposite, push upwards. This will create tension, which if done right will help stimulate the G-spot by forcing his penis to slide against the top of the vaginal wall, where the g-spot is.

Or you could just do reverse cowgirl.

You want to know how to hit your OWN g-spot!?!? Explore for fuck's sake. Explore, die or
google
google
oh god the googles

Thanks man, I've seen an extract on here years ago and been looking for the whole video.

Thanks man, I've seen an extract on here years ago and been looking for the whole video.

The seeders are shitting out on that one. I'm having better luck with the one at puretna.com

I have 8 tooth brushes in my room that I've used for that if you would like. Then I discovered the rabbit.

i heard the rabbit is fabulous. please tell me.

The seeders are shitting out on that one. I'm having better luck with the one at puretna.com

95% done, I was getting some good speeds a few hours ago.

95% done, I was getting some good speeds a few hours ago.

When it's done, mind giving it a short review? I have limited bandwidth :(

When it's done, mind giving it a short review? I have limited bandwidth :(

http://www.redtube.com/15878

Here's an extract from that video that I mentioned above.

So it'll be hard to review it. I mean, it either works for your girl or it doesn't, I suppose.

My girl wont let me go near her after she's come. Too sensitive. Err...does that mean I can't ever get her to do that? Because that looked pretty fun.

Heh, it's finished downloading, I'm watching it, and 7 minutes in he says "A trick that I've discovered is when you play with a woman's clitoris, and she has an orgasm, very often, she'll ask you to stop touching her, because it becomes too sensitive."

Heh, it's finished downloading, I'm watching it, and 7 minutes in he says "A trick that I've discovered is when you play with a woman's clitoris, and she has an orgasm, very often, she'll ask you to stop touching her, because it becomes too sensitive."

....go on?!?

....go on?!?

you are no virgin. lil aussie boy.

what do you do/use to make your toes curl?

wow i thought it was just me, when i orgasm my toes do crazy shit.

you are no virgin. lil aussie boy.

Yes I am. :) :)

wots a vajina?

See?

just because you are illiterate does not make you a virgin.

WELL IT SHOULD!!!

WELL IT SHOULD!!!

arquin you wanna fight cause i am willing to bring the thunder mang.

oh snap

http://www.redtube.com/15878

Here's an extract from that video that I mentioned above.

So it'll be hard to review it. I mean, it either works for your girl or it doesn't, I suppose.

i am so fucking jealous of that chick right now.

....go on?!?

Basically he says once she starts to orgasm, he stops and just leaves his finger lying there without any pressure.

The majority of the video he stresses the importance of the girl having a sense of humour (otherwise it's hopeless, he says, since if she doesn't have a sense of humour she probably has some deep issues that'll keep her from relaxing and just enjoying it), he teaches how to massage her properly to get the stress out of the body (over the course of several weeks, once or twice a week max), and explains some other stuff in the process. Haven't watched it till the end yet, the video is 36 minutes.

he teaches how to massage her properly to get the stress out of the body (over the course of several weeks, once or twice a week max)

I want a lady's opinion on this.

Instead of going through the weeks and weeks of stuff, can I just ask her if she was able to have continuous orgasms with past partners? Or is that inappropriate? Because then she already knows how and it's just a matter of showing me what works for her.

I want a lady's opinion on this.

Instead of going through the weeks and weeks of stuff, can I just ask her if she was able to have continuous orgasms with past partners? Or is that inappropriate? Because then she already knows how and it's just a matter of showing me what works for her.

Fuck yeah. Communication makes sex so much better. You shouldn't pose it as a question. Tell her "I'd love to try and give you continuous orgasms, have you ever had them before?" If she says no to try and make you feel special, like you're king of fuck mountain and the first man to ever hit a G-spot, just tell her you'd like a little direction because she knows her body better than you and tell her to take control and direct you when you're going at it.

Worst case, of all the things that have worked in the past, keep trying then till they work.