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 #1 
Old 2008-12-06, 01:45
maskedstranger maskedstranger is offline
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Default ....did I just commit statutory?

So my buddy was having a party. I went. I dint drink (I had to drive home). Started talking to this girl who kept drinking and drinking and drinking. She was pretty interesting, and good looking too. It started getting a bit loud and I couldnt hear what she was saying, so I said "lets go to another room".

I had no intention of fucking her. Im not one of those "fucking a drunk girl" types, but she was definitely someone I wouldnt mind calling the next day for a date. So long story short we're talking about stuff (random really, it was like she was jumping from one topic to another) she kept grabbing me and touching me as we're talking. Plus shes good looking, so naturally I pop a chubby.

Somehow the conversation goes on to the male penis. And she asks me what mine looked like. I told her, jokingly, Ill show her if she shows me her tits. I dint think she would do it. Sure enough, shirt comes off.

Ill skip over the details, but she gave me head. I told her we shouldnt (after all, shes drunk) but she she made it very clear that she is holding my balls in her hand, (and the guys would agree with me, that you dont say no to a girl whos so intent on doing something that shes threatens to squeeze your balls into submission...) so I just sat back and enjoyed it.

Than I got her number and I left.

About a half hour ago I get a call from one of my friends, asking if I got lucky, I said no. She said why not, she saw me with some girl. I told her the story. She asked me who it was, I said Amy,

She got dead silent on the other line, and described her (dirty blonde hair, blue eyes, red shirt) I said yeah. Again, silence....and than she said "Dude, shes like 16"



So totse, what the fuck did I just do?

Im 22. I thought everyone there was from UMASS. Besides she dint look young. So now im feeling all guilty and shit. Do I call her? explain the situation saying it was a mistake? Does she get pissed at me and call the cops or something? If I dont call shes ganna feel used or something. Besides even if I call her, then what? Even better question was what was she doing at a college party?

advice???
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Old 2008-12-06, 01:50
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nuremburg
Default Re: ....did I just commit statutory?

how interesting could a drunk girl be?Roll Eyes (Sarcastic)

anyway, legally i would say if you were prosecuted you could make a good defense case based on the fact that she was at a college party where there was alcohol. also i talk to your friend or else she going to tell everyone your a pedo.

if it makes you feel any better i dont think your a pedo. just dont let it happen again.:)
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Old 2008-12-06, 01:59
fat_thighs fat_thighs is offline
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By law, yes you committed rape. In many states, a drunk person who is talked into sex by a sober person is considered rape. Lots of girls win lawsuits after regretting drunken sex. There are lawyers who specialize in that kind of case. On top of that, she was 16, so you best call that girl and make sure she's cool with what happened. It was consensual, but that doesn't matter. The laws can work against you.

Just call her and make sure she's happy, but make it clear that you should just be friends or something. I wouldn't mention the words "underage" or "rape" to her. Don't call up all nervous or mention the "I could go to jail for this" situation. Just call like it's a normal courtesy: "hey what's up, how are you, i had fun" etc. Hopefully she'll be the one to say that she doesn't want to hang out again, but if she does, fucking do it. Just get lunch or something non-sexual, talk about it, and remain friendly.

It wasn't rape morally, but legally it certainly is.
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Old 2008-12-06, 02:04
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nuremburg
Default Re: ....did I just commit statutory?

ask her if she remembers what happened first, is she doesnt know dont tell her.


yeah, im just chock full of bad advice.
 #5 
Old 2008-12-06, 02:22
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Default Re: ....did I just commit statutory?

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Originally Posted by jewishnazi
ask her if she remembers what happened first, is she doesnt know dont tell her.


yeah, im just chock full of bad advice.


could a girl really forget giving a blowjob? i mean, you have to be completely conscious of that shit.

heh, did she swallow?
 #6 
Old 2008-12-06, 02:26
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nuremburg
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could a girl really forget giving a blowjob? i mean, you have to be completely conscious of that shit.

heh, did she swallow?

well, she was drunk......
 #7 
Old 2008-12-06, 02:31
maskedstranger maskedstranger is offline
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Default Re: ....did I just commit statutory?

Yeah i called my friend, she made a few pedo jokes but she knows im not. She wont tell anyone while I try to sort this out.

And no, she dint swallow.
 #8 
Old 2008-12-06, 02:34
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Default Re: ....did I just commit statutory?

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Originally Posted by maskedstranger
Yeah i called my friend, she made a few pedo jokes but she knows im not. She wont tell anyone while I try to sort this out.

And no, she dint swallow.


She shouldn't want to tell anyone because it makes her look like a skank. What a skank.
 #9 
Old 2008-12-06, 03:44
pink smoke pink smoke is offline
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Default Re: ....did I just commit statutory?

Dude, just forget about it. She was at a college party, you assumed she was at least 18. I'm sure she won't press charge, if she even remembers.
 #10 
Old 2008-12-06, 03:44
pink smoke pink smoke is offline
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She shouldn't want to tell anyone because it makes her look like a skank. What a skank.

Exactly.
 #11 
Old 2008-12-06, 03:53
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Originally Posted by pink smoke
Dude, just forget about it. She was at a college party, you assumed she was at least 18. I'm sure she won't press charge, if she even remembers.


21 actually.
 #12 
Old 2008-12-06, 04:01
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She gave you her number.

Fuck her over and over again, dummy
 #13 
Old 2008-12-06, 04:01
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Default Re: ....did I just commit statutory?

Statutory rape is a strict liability offense, meaning you are guilty, regardless of intent or lack of knowledge [of her age]. It is your obligation to find out her age before you fuck her.

Just hope cops don't find out.
 #14 
Old 2008-12-06, 04:21
Da Black Ice Da Black Ice is offline
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Default Re: ....did I just commit statutory?

Age of consent is 16 in Massachusetts.
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Old 2008-12-06, 04:23
pink smoke pink smoke is offline
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21 actually.

Well yeah, but I mean, a shitload of freshmen were probably there, too. But I guess if he were to defend himself, it would legally make sense to assume 21.
 #16 
Old 2008-12-06, 04:35
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nuremburg
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what state are you in OP?
 #17 
Old 2008-12-06, 04:49
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Default Re: ....did I just commit statutory?

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Originally Posted by Da Black Ice
Age of consent is 16 in Massachusetts.


Doesnt matter.

If a 19yr old fucks a 17yr old, it's still rape.
 #18 
Old 2008-12-06, 05:07
coastal progress coastal progress is offline
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Make sure no pictures or solid evidence exist. Then, it never happened. Anyone who brings it up is to be shot on site.
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Old 2008-12-06, 05:16
kev19x kev19x is offline
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Default Re: ....did I just commit statutory?

Didn't she squeeze your crotch.I think she raped you.
File a police report before she does and your in the clear.
 #20 
Old 2008-12-06, 05:20
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Default Re: ....did I just commit statutory?

Quote:
Originally Posted by maskedstranger
So my buddy was having a party. I went. I dint drink (I had to drive home). Started talking to this girl who kept drinking and drinking and drinking. She was pretty interesting, and good looking too. It started getting a bit loud and I couldnt hear what she was saying, so I said "lets go to another room".

I had no intention of fucking her. Im not one of those "fucking a drunk girl" types, but she was definitely someone I wouldnt mind calling the next day for a date. So long story short we're talking about stuff (random really, it was like she was jumping from one topic to another) she kept grabbing me and touching me as we're talking. Plus shes good looking, so naturally I pop a chubby.

Somehow the conversation goes on to the male penis. And she asks me what mine looked like. I told her, jokingly, Ill show her if she shows me her tits. I dint think she would do it. Sure enough, shirt comes off.

Ill skip over the details, but she gave me head. I told her we shouldnt (after all, shes drunk) but she she made it very clear that she is holding my balls in her hand, (and the guys would agree with me, that you dont say no to a girl whos so intent on doing something that shes threatens to squeeze your balls into submission...) so I just sat back and enjoyed it.

Than I got her number and I left.

About a half hour ago I get a call from one of my friends, asking if I got lucky, I said no. She said why not, she saw me with some girl. I told her the story. She asked me who it was, I said Amy,

She got dead silent on the other line, and described her (dirty blonde hair, blue eyes, red shirt) I said yeah. Again, silence....and than she said "Dude, shes like 16"



So totse, what the fuck did I just do?

Im 22. I thought everyone there was from UMASS. Besides she dint look young. So now im feeling all guilty and shit. Do I call her? explain the situation saying it was a mistake? Does she get pissed at me and call the cops or something? If I dont call shes ganna feel used or something. Besides even if I call her, then what? Even better question was what was she doing at a college party?

advice???


you did good.. a lot of guys would have just fucked her
 #21 
Old 2008-12-06, 05:30
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Default Re: ....did I just commit statutory?

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Originally Posted by kev19x
Didn't she squeeze your crotch.I think she raped you.
File a police report before she does and your in the clear.


Your bad grammar made that post fifty times funnier.

Also, I approve of that situation.
 #22 
Old 2008-12-06, 05:35
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Default Re: ....did I just commit statutory?

16's pretty legal. I mean, if you talked your way through it, you could even make 14 legal (it was just 2 years ago).

In Canada the cops would give you a high-five. And then smoke a joint with you.

Doesnt matter.

If a 19yr old fucks a 17yr old, it's still rape.

WRONG BITCH. USA has some under 24 it's ok rule or something like that.

It's a lot more complex than just simple numerology.
 #23 
Old 2008-12-06, 05:37
Crunchie_bar Crunchie_bar is offline
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Default Re: ....did I just commit statutory?

Morally she was in the wrong but to be safe just go and talk to her as friends.

If your lucky she might have a hot, legal friend :)
 #24 
Old 2008-12-06, 05:59
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Default Re: ....did I just commit statutory?

Quote:
Originally Posted by kev19x
Didn't she squeeze your crotch.I think she raped you.
File a police report before she does and your in the clear.


This.Mad
 #25 
Old 2008-12-06, 06:12
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Default Re: ....did I just commit statutory?

Morally she was in the wrong but to be safe just go and talk to her as friends.

If your lucky she might have a hot, legal friend :)Then she will get butthurt and report you for rape after she finds out you're fucking her best friend.
 #26 
Old 2008-12-06, 18:06
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Talk to her and maybe go for another round of drunken sexcapades. It's the only way to go.
 #27 
Old 2008-12-06, 20:07
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I gotta start hitting up some UMASS parties.......
 #28 
Old 2008-12-06, 20:35
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Default Re: ....did I just commit statutory?

16's pretty legal. I mean, if you talked your way through it, you could even make 14 legal (it was just 2 years ago).

In Canada the cops would give you a high-five. And then smoke a joint with you.



WRONG BITCH. USA has some under 24 it's ok rule or something like that.

It's a lot more complex than just simple numerology.

Unfortunately you're wrong. If you're over 18 you can't do anything with minors in a lot of states. 16 is the age of consent in a lot of states, meaning people under 16 fucking can get prosecuted. The OP needs to read up on laws in his state.

What is almost certain, however, is that 22 and 16 is highly illegal, and if she presses charges the OP would be fucked, even if she loses. Having that charge on record is bad news.

Best bet is to not contact her, delete her #, and forget the whole thing ever happened. There's no evidence to convict you unless people saw you or your friend talks about it. Next time, make sure the girl is 18. Obviously she was underage, drinking at a party. 13 states allow for you to "not know" she was a minor. That might be the case, but you should always always cover your ass by lying about your name, giving out a fake #, and not having witnesses to what you're doing, or just find out if she's 18 or not. Obviously the first option is a little paranoid, and it's far better to look at her ID or something if you can manage.
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Old 2008-12-06, 20:45
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Default Re: ....did I just commit statutory?

your bad grammar made that post fifty times funnier.

Also, i approve of that situation.

qft1!1!!!
 #30 
Old 2008-12-06, 22:16
maskedstranger maskedstranger is offline
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Default Re: ....did I just commit statutory?

The age of consent is a moot issue here. Im not an idiot. I know its 16 here, but regardless an "adult" and a "minor" can not engage is sexual activities.

The issue here is whether I call her up and explain, and hope to remain friends, though im not sure how good of "friends" we would be because of our age difference. Its not like we can go out to a movie or something without her parents asking "oh and how old are you?" or do I just hope to never run into her again, which would make me feel like "one of those guys"...



Ok so I found out the story regarding her. She is actually 17 (turned last week). Shes the sister of some dude at the party, hes on the rugby team. Turns out shes grounded for doing something. And their dad made her brother watch her. He wanted to go to the party. So he takes her with him.
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Old 2008-12-06, 22:20
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It's simple. You don't call her.
 #32 
Old 2008-12-06, 22:36
LoD LoD is offline
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In the UK it's not illegal :D
 #33 
Old 2008-12-07, 02:24
kevdude61 kevdude61 is offline
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Pics or didn't happen...
 #34 
Old 2008-12-07, 02:41
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As long as her parents don't find out you'll probably be fine. You know she's gonna be bragging to her friends though, so hopefully no one who would feel the need to do something about it finds out.
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Old 2008-12-07, 02:45
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Originally Posted by jator
As long as her parents don't find out you'll probably be fine. You know she's gonna be bragging to her friends though, so hopefully no one who would feel the need to do something about it finds out.


people brag to their friends about giving drunk blow jobs?Confused

people are pretty fucking ambitious these day arent they?
 #36 
Old 2008-12-10, 08:25
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I live very close to UMASS buddy and I am very versed on MA state law. To answer your question yes you committed statutory rape in the state of massachusettes. Even if she was 18 it is still rape belive it or not. In our state even if a female has had ONE beer she is unable to consent to sexual activity and it is Rape in the first degree. And no, not knowing her age is not an excuse. If prosocuted you will go to jail and will have to register under Megans Law for the rest of your life. End of story.
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Old 2008-12-10, 08:57
k4aic k4aic is offline
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its her fault for getting drunk at a college party...she wanted it ...dont worry;)
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Old 2008-12-10, 09:05
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Quote:
Originally Posted by fireman93
I live very close to UMASS buddy and I am very versed on MA state law. To answer your question yes you committed statutory rape in the state of massachusettes. Even if she was 18 it is still rape belive it or not. In our state even if a female has had ONE beer she is unable to consent to sexual activity and it is Rape in the first degree. And no, not knowing her age is not an excuse. If prosocuted you will go to jail and will have to register under Megans Law for the rest of your life. End of story.


What if you're drunk and she isn't, did she rape you

If not that's pretty fucking hypocritical
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Old 2008-12-10, 09:19
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she said "Dude, shes like 16"

Im 22.

*CALLS THE BACON*

/THREAD

haha but seriously if she was at a college party, chances are she was looking for some penis, and you my friend were the lucky guy to give it to her
*high five*
don't worry about it
smoke weed
and be happy
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Old 2008-12-10, 09:56
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You're a fucking lucky bastard, I would kill to get down with a 16 year old, that shit is hot hot hot.
 #41 
Old 2008-12-10, 09:58
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Originally Posted by BlackSails
You're a fucking lucky bastard, I would kill to get down with a 16 year old, that shit is hot hot hot.


QFT!!!!!!!

OP's a cocksucking bitch for not drilling a hole in that drunken temptress...fucking should go eat a dick to drown his sorrows.
 #42 
Old 2008-12-10, 10:09
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I come from a land down under
Default Re: ....did I just commit statutory?

could a girl really forget giving a blowjob? i mean, you have to be completely conscious of that shit.

heh, did she swallow?

I went to a party once and a drunk girl gave head to this guy infront of the whole party. She didn't have any idea why everyone was so angry at her in the morning. Telling her was definately lulz.
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Old 2008-12-10, 10:11
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Quote:
Originally Posted by BlackSails
You're a fucking lucky bastard, I would kill to get down with a 16 year old, that shit is hot hot hot.


THIS.

*high five*
 #44 
Old 2008-12-10, 11:57
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Turns out shes grounded for doing something. And their dad made her brother watch her. He wanted to go to the party. So he takes her with him.

So, it's her brother's fault you got your dick sucked...problem solved.
 #45 
Old 2008-12-10, 13:44
maskedstranger maskedstranger is offline
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update:

Problem solved.

end of thread :)
 #46 
Old 2008-12-10, 17:06
J. Harley J. Harley is offline
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Unfortunately you're wrong. If you're over 18 you can't do anything with minors in a lot of states. 16 is the age of consent in a lot of states, meaning people under 16 fucking can get prosecuted. The OP needs to read up on laws in his state.

What is almost certain, however, is that 22 and 16 is highly illegal, and if she presses charges the OP would be fucked, even if she loses. Having that charge on record is bad news.

Best bet is to not contact her, delete her #, and forget the whole thing ever happened. There's no evidence to convict you unless people saw you or your friend talks about it. Next time, make sure the girl is 18. Obviously she was underage, drinking at a party. 13 states allow for you to "not know" she was a minor. That might be the case, but you should always always cover your ass by lying about your name, giving out a fake #, and not having witnesses to what you're doing, or just find out if she's 18 or not. Obviously the first option is a little paranoid, and it's far better to look at her ID or something if you can manage.



Actually, in Kentucky anyway, if the girl is 16 and the guy is 18+ is still consensual. I know this from past expierence. I fucked a 16yr old when I was 18, her parents found out and tried to have me arrested for statutory, but the POLICE told them that as long as she consented, there was nothing they could do.
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Old 2008-12-10, 17:49
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Quote:
Originally Posted by maskedstranger
update:

Problem solved.

end of thread :)


That sounds like this: http://youtube.com/watch?v=F0KmNVZs-VI
 #48 
Old 2008-12-10, 22:36
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Default Re: ....did I just commit statutory?

What if you're drunk and she isn't, did she rape you

If not that's pretty fucking hypocritical

Actually yes it does go either way male to female or female to male in the state. I am not sure how the judge would rule if the adult male was drunk and the underage femaile was not.
 #49 
Old 2008-12-10, 22:47
Patrick Bateman Patrick Bateman is offline
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I go to school in Fitchburg. Let's hang out sometime. Which UMASS do you go to?
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Old 2008-12-10, 22:50
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Actually yes it does go either way male to female or female to male in the state. I am not sure how the judge would rule if the adult male was drunk and the underage femaile was not.

So you can legally get drunk and go rape someone?
 #51 
Old 2008-12-11, 02:42
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just dont do anything, just let time pass. Dont sweat it, whats done is done, there is no going back.
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Old 2008-12-11, 04:43
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You rapist.
 
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