Aight so I'm a HS junior
Was going to have sex for the first time late in July
Basically met this girl at the mall through a friend who was hooking up with her, I flirted with her because my friend joked around how I was still a virgin

Long story short we end up hanging out that night, as I went over to her house and we cuddled, n she didnt wanna get physical but we just cuddled then eventually I must've charmed her or something because i started rubbing her pussy through her short shorts and she was eating this up so eventually she was like "are you sure you wanna lose it to me" n I was like sure, you're really important to me blah blah blah. Now as we were on the couch with me playing with her pussy I was hard as fuck like ready to fuck right then, but it took like 20 minutes for her to warm up to the idea that we'd fuck and when we snuck off to the bathroom to like actually fuck I got limp quick and we didn't end up fucking... now she was sexy as shit and I was hard in the couch, so I didn't understand what had happened but I didn't think too hard about it

Anyways moving on in August (like a month later) this other girl and I talked and decided we should have a sex at least once before she left (she was moving to a different state very far away). Now she came over we did shit and then I still had a tiny difficulty getting hard, but got through it got hard and fucked her a few times that night. Technically I was a virgin and I had lost my virginity so I was happy, but since the progression was:

Sex Attempt 1 => Failure // Limpness
Sex Attempt 2 => Worried about failure // A little limp, but then managed to get hard and fuck her, so Success.

So should I be afraid to try and fuck more girls that cross my path? I'm terribly afraid for another "number one" to happen and not manage to get an erection.

inexperienced...
that is all.

hahahahahaha:)

*lawls at irony of your username*

You'll get better at it. Just keep trying.

Worst case scenario, you're still having a lot of sex.

hmmmm ^^ that is kind of funny. :)

lol @ first part.

3rd time = win

Viagra or a good mental state.

Make a choice.

Just don't worry so much about it.

And you went limp and that was all? Didn't even try to get hard again? That's kinda...Stupid.

Try not to worry about it and just keep at it. A lot of us go through the first time limpness. Girls should be more understandable. We're supposed to be understanding whenever they are inexperienced, but us guys are shunned if we're limp. The more you do it, the easier it gets.

Happens to everyone, relax. If you can't get hard then maybe get her to suck you off for a bit and if that doesn't work then eat her out and try rubbing your dick until you get hard. Most of it is nerves.

This is what helped me during the first few times I had sex...

FUCK IT! Literally and metaphorically!

Don't worry about it too much man...My first time I was terrified and I ain't afraid to admit that. I'd never done it before and this girl was a goddess (I mean it) who I wanted to impress but I just went in thinking "Cool...Let's do this. Fuck the consequences of my actions!"
Turns out she enjoyed it and I just kept going with that mentality all throughout. Apart from once...

The one time I thought too much about it and got shit scared again (I had feelings for this girl, which brought up feelings of inadequacy for some reason) I couldn't get it up. And when I did, I shot after about 2 minutes. She said it was okay but we all know it was NOT okay.

My advice is just chill out...Let it happen...Don't think about things too much, man.
All you should be thinking about is condoms and how you want to end it (doggy style and shooting on her back, kneeling her down and giving her a mouthful or just pumping until you fill that johnny up like a water balloon!)

Chill little man!

You sound so much like me it's scary.

hahahahahaha:)

*post*

hahaha thanks to all
some of these answers were both helpful and quite funny

Most peoples first times are equally if not more awkward.

Also I must have read that wrong, I completely thought that you were fucking the couch for the first half of the story.

well u got the pussy didnt u
also if u get soft just start givin oral and odds are ur gonna get hard as a fuckin rock and then u fuck and she starts :o and if ur catchin my drift there
ok so from here on out im editing if u cant tell
so if ur wondering how i no this(cause im 13) its cause of the porn i watch
cause they dont get hard as soon as the porno starts
no they start by fingerin the chick
cause after a while u wont get hard by thinking about fucking a chick
but u no u just gotta think about bustin a load in her face if that dont work
thats worked for me every time...dont ask
thatll never get old
i no its pretty disturbing to talk about
especially with a young teen
but just think of 8=====>~~~~~~~()=
haha itll never get old trust me
but in the end tryin to stay on the topic
u probably just got limp cause of waitin for 20 minutes
also its ur first time if a chick expects perfection on the first time then guys are fucked

It happens to all guys at some point, especially earlier on. I remember I went home with this gorgeous latina and I could not for the life of me get hard. It was hilarious and terrible at the same time. After a little while I calmed the fuck down and we had sex, and I came in like 4 minutes. Disappointing for both of us. She didn't want to have sex again, and I was like fuck it. I got a taxi and went home.

When you're nervous, you'll perform poorly. Best thing to do is stop overanalyzing and just let your dick do what it was meant to do.

I cannot believe your post was this bad even after editing it. Learn how to write properly in paragraph form or go back to 4chan.