Hola totse. I have been reading the threads in S&A avidly for almost a year now and finally decided to make an account.

Anyways, I'll try to keep this short. You see, as of late, I've had a question that's really been itching at me and as I've waited for a similar one to come up on &totse, but alas, nothing. I hate to start another "omg i like this girl and im stupid and dont know what to do. help me totse!!1!" thread, because I know how tedious they can get. On to my question...

Well, as always, there's a girl. She's a year younger than me and she is absolutely gorgeous. Perfect 10 without a doubt. Blonde hair, blue eyes, you know the deal. She contests for the most beautiful girl I have ever seen real life or media [T.V., movies, etc.] My problem is this: I have fallen in love. I know it sounds creepy, but it's true. I've had stupid crushes on girls before but nothing ever like this. I think about her everyday and just can't get her off my mind. It's into the stages where I don't even think about banging her, I imagine her being my girlfriend. So that's become my goal. The real main issue with this is that I've never talked to her before. I have a few buddies that are semi-close to her but none that talk to her on a regular basis. If I can find a way to bridge the gap, I'm sure I can close the deal. And it's not as simple as just going up to her and talking to her. I hate to give in to the highschool bullshit, but I'm 16 and not ready to commit social suicide. I really needed to get this out to somebody. This shit is really eating me up inside. I've started to see a whole new side to myself that I've never seen before and I'm confused. Any and all advice is appreciated.




P.S. I already tried huffing raid and molotoving everything, so don't bother.

For when the going gets rough.

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in all seriousness though, ive too been bitten by that very same love bug.
The best advise i can give you is really think it over would you rather take your chance and approach this girl, or end up never knowing what could have been. Just be brave for half an hour and the rest comes easy trust me man. Take your chance now before its too late, because that time comes fast approaching.

Do a barrel roll.

Within the next week make a conscientious effort to do one of 2 things.

-Talk to her and bag her
-Forget her completely

Otherwise this dilemma will continue to waste all your time.

Wiseness.

You're "in love" with someone you've never talked to...


Hmmm...


Okay...


Get the fuck out.

Within the next 24 hours, repost this message in 24 threads on Totse. Do this, and tomorrow the love of your life will kiss you! And if you fail, you will get abducted by a pterodactyl instead.


But seriously, you've got two options:

1). You approach her, and ask her out.

2). You forget all about her, and decide to become the kind of person that doesn't get in this sort of situations. By that I mean reinventing yourself. And not the kind of thing you do over a week either. Long term. Get a longterm goal; start working out; develop a kind of confident persona; learn how women work. Start practicing, with girls you don't even really like - so that when you get into a situation like the one you are now, when you meet a girl you really like, you don't end up scared and not knowing what to do.

In truth, the best you can do, is go with 1 then 2. Who knows, maybe she's been fancying you all along and would jump at the fact of you talking to her. Do that, if just for the peace of mind. But you'll have to do 2 anyway, if you don't want to get into shitty situations like that in the future.

Here we go again...

OH SNAPZ

No.

Good advice, he knows his shit.

I would suggest talking to her. You'll probably realize she's a dumb hoe and forget about this whole thing.

Dude, it IS a fucking crush. Your infatuated with her. How the hell could you love her if you never talked to her?