Fuck her.

I say you follow your mind, it prob won't work but who are you living for? You or the opinions of everyone else? if it makes you feel good, do it and don't think twice.

If you talk to her like one of your 16 year old friends, then I see no problem. Just make sure she isn't putting on an act for you and she is actually a prostitot.

Hey...fuck off. There's no substitute for ellipses.

...would it make a differnece is i told u she was 13..not 14....?

divide by 2 add 7, i'm 18 so 9+7=16

if i was 26 it'd be 13+7=20

i know th equasion...thats why i was a little unsure and thats why i'm holding back(kinda)

in the end it doesn't matter how much i think i like her....it's not gonna work. She is about to move like 200kms away D:

I just just thinking should i tell her and risk ruining our friendship or keep in contact on MSN and just keep my feelings to myself

I hate that bullshit equation, that's some Sex and the city shit or something. 16 with a 14 year old is fine, 2 years is no big deal.

If she's 13 and gonna move though it's probably best to move on, not worth the time.

i can keep up a long distance friendship easy enough...i have alot of those....but should i tell her before she goes or just keep it inside...even if i tell her i know nothing is gona happen...but it might make me fell better

that's all that needs to be said
you're 16, you obviously want to gain access to her vagina.
normally, 2 years difference is nothing. if it were 15/17 or 16/18 there would be no problem
but at this stage, it's probably only you who wants to have the sex
she'd probably be freaked out by it i think

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Fuck, zach. what are you going to get OUT of this relationship. too young to hold a relationship of the stable or sexy nature. try again

that's all that needs to be said
you're 16, you obviously want to gain access to her vagina.
normally, 2 years difference is nothing. if it were 15/17 or 16/18 there would be no problem
but at this stage, it's probably only you who wants to have the sex
she'd probably be freaked out by it i think

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Fuck, zach. what are you going to get OUT of this relationship. too young to hold a relationship of the stable or sexy nature. try again


I DON'T WANT HER FOR SEX!!!!!

i know..i'm 16, i dunno shit....but seriously i don't want sex from her...

in fact...i have never though about what i wanted from her...i just feel better in her presence. Hold hands, hug, kiss, fuck... all the normal shit in relationships...i dunno what i want from her

She is my best friend but i like her more than i'm letting on...thats all i know...is there an inbetween thing in Best friends and dating?

sure..make fun of me all u want, i'm a dumb teen, i accept that.

I DON'T WANT HER FOR SEX!!!!!

ITT: Lies

I have some standards left...sex with a 13year old would be...ummmmm...wierd

Not for JoePedo...

Not for JoePedo...

Or pedobear XD

Or any sane male.

If you're not gonna fuck her then there ain't a lot of point, she'll get bored with you as soon as she leaves school, maybe even before then; since you ain't gonna fuck her she'll get bored of you quicker as well.

She is my best friend but i like her more than i'm letting on...thats all i know...is there an inbetween thing in Best friends and dating?
Yeah, drunken sex. Booze + balls= Friend trap solution.

Or in your case suicide.

Or any sane male.

If you're not gonna fuck her then there ain't a lot of point, she'll get bored with you as soon as she leaves school, maybe even before then; since you ain't gonna fuck her she'll get bored of you quicker as well.


Yeah, drunken sex. Booze + balls= Friend trap solution.

Or in your case suicide.


yep, yous have convinced me... if there too young to fuck, don't bother.

i should have really thought it out more before asking, but i'm not the best at thinking this stuff through (eg, knew a girl for 9 months who i wasn't sure was flirting..and now shes gone. yeah....i'm good thinking/acting)

I really don't see this being a problem. It will become one when you turn 18, but lets not worry about that right now, 2 years is a long time for teenagers to be in a hypothetical relationship. Go for a younger girl, you'll probably be on a similar level.

The person I'm dating is 4 years older than me and I've debated leaving because I think they're immature! Age isn't always important.

Us guys are rather immature compared to women...in public :)

I've found that in general most women are about 2-3 years more mature. There are exceptions though, for instance;

example-

1) Some girls i know from school are as mature as a 12 year old (and i'm talking about 16 year olds by the way)

2) I have been told by countless guys and girls that I'm alot more mature than most guys and some of the girls (who are on the "average" maturaty level)

In the end, it all comes down to the individuals in question (you and her)

I'm 19, 20 on Jan 3. My girl is 17, 18 on Dec. 20.
We're a good two years apart save a couple weeks.

...where I'm from Two Years is the legal age gap for everyone under 18.

yep, yous have convinced me... if there too young to fuck, don't bother.
That definitely wasn't my point lol.


But yeah, no sex != proper relationship; more the point I was making.

I DON'T WANT HER FOR SEX!!!!!

i know..i'm 16, i dunno shit....but seriously i don't want sex from her...

in fact...i have never though about what i wanted from her...i just feel better in her presence. Hold hands, hug, kiss, fuck... all the normal shit in relationships...i dunno what i want from her

She is my best friend but i like her more than i'm letting on...thats all i know...is there an inbetween thing in Best friends and dating?

sure..make fun of me all u want, i'm a dumb teen, i accept that.

now thats all good, don't worry, i know thats not all you want out of it. but at some point it could be pretty frustrating if you go without.

Age is not a deciding factor in a relationship. Would you be happier if she was the exact same person, but she had "18" written in the "age" field in her forms? What if she had "82" written there? What if you had "82" written there? Why would you even care?
In the end, age is just some bullshit concept we made up. Everyone ages and matures in different ways. People hit puberty at different ages. Judge the other person as if their age doesn't exist - just see them for who they are.
Also, some people try to act "according to their age". Don't do that. Act the way you want to act. Because age is bullshit. It's what you look like and how you feel and how you think that matters.

There is nothing any of us can tell you which is going to change anything. Get with her if you want. Your friends will mock you mercilessly and taunt you for being a filthy paedophile. That's what we did to my friends who did it anyway :D

Weigh up the pro's and cons. And don't get nailed for statutory (If that applies).

Or a 13 year old bisexual.. it's funny how you give the same advice you devoted an entire thread to flaming people for.

nothing to worry about but keep the relationship to yourself

...where I'm from Two Years is the legal age gap for everyone under 18.

There is a legal age gap?

Incorrect. The fourteen year old I dated was quite mature--her previous BF was a physician--bit she died tragically in a dorm fire a few years later. (Wait a minute--now I'm I'm thinking she was 16. Never mind.)

But my current wife got married for the first time at age 14.

Ever hear of "Romeo and Juliet"? She was 14, Romeo 15.

Incorrect. The fourteen year old I dated was quite mature--her previous BF was a physician--bit she died tragically in a dorm fire a few years later. (Wait a minute--now I'm I'm thinking she was 16. Never mind.)

But my current wife got married for the first time at age 14.

Ever hear of "Romeo and Juliet"? She was 14, Romeo 15.

Yeah, but in Victorian times kids didn't have the internet and learned to grow up sociably and responsibly.

Turn on MTV for an hour and see if you see any behaviour that even slightly resembles maturity.

Also, good to have ya in the forum.

Yeah, but in Victorian times kids didn't have the internet and learned to grow up sociably and responsibly.

Turn on MTV for an hour and see if you see any behaviour that even slightly resembles maturity.

Also, good to have ya in the forum.

That's the point, not everyone watches MTV. People grow up in different ways.

That's the point, not everyone watches MTV. People grow up in different ways.

Of course, but there's no substitute for the wisdom that comes from experience.

Hence why so many asian cultures respect the elders so much. Not because they're older, but because they've been around the block a lot more.

You can read whatever you want, but until you've been through love, marriage, divorce, etc, you aren't nearly as qualified as the people who have a couple of laps around the racetrack already.