We've been dating for a few months but it starting to feel like I don't enjoy being around her as much as I used to. I would rather go hang with the guys and do fun stuff than watch a movie with her. Its weird because she isn't doing anything to turn me off, I just don't like being in a relationship. Especially since I could have more fun hanging out with my guy friends (no I'm not gay). I still have sexual desire, but my desire for a relationship is going away. And I feel bad because she still really likes me.

Should I just break it off and tell her that nothing is wrong but its not making me happy? I still like her and would like to be friends, but I don't like having to go out with her when my other friends are doing something fun that I would much rather do, but I won't blow her off.

It would make me feel awkward though breaking up because we've never had a big argument or anything nothing significant has gone wrong, I just don't like the whole relationship aspect.

Tell her this.
Do what you do with your friends with her.

There.

Why don't you tell her that you need to spend more times with your friends? If she takes it like a bitch THEN dump her.

You want to break up with a girl who really likes you JUST so you can go out and party with your friends and get anonymous, drunken pussy?

I seriously hope you die. You and everyone else like you.

That's a little harsh, yeah?

He never said anything about wanting to get drunken pussy, but even if he did, is it fair to either of them if he isn't fully committed to the relationship, regardless of what the reason may be?

Embrace being young and doing this while you still can, save the serious relationships for later.

OP, break up with her, no matter how hard it may be. Life is too short, and if you're not happy being tied down, then fuck it. It's only been a couple months, not like you're married.

That's a little harsh, yeah?

And so is what he's doing.

And so is what he's doing.

But if he's not happy, what's the point?

Being gay is pretty difficult for your father, but is it going to stop you?

But if he's not happy, what's the point?

Being gay is pretty difficult for your father, but is it going to stop you?

Being gay is pretty difficult for your father, but is it going to stop you?

cocaine's a helluva drug.

I know where your coming from, i reckon you should probably just end it, unless you plan on continuing your relationshi[ indefinately. All (good?) things come to an end.

This. Do stuff that you find fun with her, don't do cliched things just because they're somehow "right". Obviously, do things she enjoys too. If you absolutely hate what she likes doing, and she hates your ideas of having fun - maybe this relationship wasn't such a good idea.

Quit sitting around watching movies with her and actually do something fun.

You may find yourself having fun.

If you don't, then abort mission.

I know that this relationship is bound to fail sometime, I definitely don't want to marry her and spend the rest of my life with her. But I figure why not enjoy it while I can.

Actually she is not being a bitch at all when I tell her I'm hanging out with friends. To me at least: Either she complains to her friends, or her friends realize I'm not doing something with her that night and make it their own business to give me shit about it.

Basically what happens is I have 2 main groups of friends. Group A which has my girlfriend and some mutual friends of ours (I don't really like the other people, these are the ones who give me shit - which is explained later). Group B is my guy friends, she knows some of the people but isn't friends with them. With group B my guy friends we usually drive/walk around and smoke pot.

What I try to do is hang out with my girlfriend on a Friday or Saturday, which could be a date or with the group A. I think this is working out well and I don't see why it should be a problem. But then people give me shit because "I got stoned instead of being with my gf." But I want to be with both groups and its hard when other people bitch about me being a bad boyfriend.

Should I just tell them that this is what I'm going to do. If she has a problem she can talk to me about it, and I am not going to choose between the groups/her. If she doesn't like it she can break up. Cause say we go on a date Friday, people expect that we will both go out with the big group the next night on Saturday. When on Saturday I want to see my other friends.

What I really want to say is that I don't want a full relationship were we do everything together. I want to have fun with a little bit of everybody. But other people don't like when I do this, acting like having other friends is bad. I want to add that group B is SO much more fun to be with cause we go out and do things. When I'm with group A its really boring because we just sit around and watch movies. I used to be fine with this when I had a crush on my current GF but since I already have her I realize I don't like that group at all.

When I do hang out with group A with my Gf they give us shit for being an awkward couple, which we kind of are. But this is part of what makes me not want to hang out with group A as a whole.

Group B sounds like a lot of fun!

The truth= Win