"cheating" implies something secret and wrong.


so let me state what i condsider cheating:

-Her having sex with someone without me knowing it before hand.

...other then that... nope, everything is a-ok (preferably girls though - my man-ego is a man-ego.)

I have 3 simple rules:

- Don't do it away from your SO if you won't do it with them there.

- Read the menu all you want as long as you don't order (look but don't touch).

- If you admit to fucking up forgiveness is possible; if you hide what you did it's just more dishonesty and is unforgivable.

First rule answers the question I think.

RDP

Currently, I'm a nazi. I'm super loyal and expect the same from my girl. So cheating is anything that hurts my feelings that involves another dude. Harmless flirting is okay in a group environment. But things like chilling with a single male, alone. Not cool. Although if she was friends with him before we got together, what ever. She can stay at his house if she wants. Any touching beyond socially acceptable norms. But the biggest one is: Don't touch dudes, and don't hang out with them alone. If you do this you're basically guaranteed not to slip up. I would never hang out with just a girl and my self if I had a girlfriend.

After my current relationship, I'm going to make sure to keep my guard up and not get attached. I'll consider it cheating if she fucks some one else and doesn't use a condom, fucks some one the same day she sees me or blows off plans with me for some one else. And it's only fair she expects the same from me.

*has no faith in women*

Yeah I'd consider cyber sex as cheating.

I would break up with my boyfriend straight away if i found out anything like that.

I would feel heaps neglected and unwanted if they wanted some pedo over the internet than me.

I wouldn't consider cybersex cheating. Stupid, but not cheating.
If there was a relationship with the person, I'd be upset. Probably not as much as if it were in real life.

For IRL cheating, I'd forgive them if it was with a celebrity. As long as they provided details. How they met, what they're like off camera/other, what they're like in bed, pictures of their goodies, a chunk of their pubes, and a set up for myself if possible.

Edit: Only if it was a good celebrity. No Kathy Griffin or lesser Baldwins.

I have no problems with her doing physical stuff with people, as long as she does it safe (she doesn't, but i wouldnt mind) it's the emotional part wich i see as cheating. So no cybering, no seeing guys more then me exept for if it's family or they happen to live way closer. No sex with people with any emotional attachement to. But if she screws somebody once just cause he's hot...hell, go for it