I am so confused.

Long story short, I have realized that maybe I am more lost than I ever was.

I don't have a problem with girls in the least but I find it hard to find any sort of mental attraction to any of my so called friends.

Right now I am living with my friends family, in their basement. I get paid 340 a week, and most of it goes to weed.

I work a lot, and am pretty social active for someone with depression and anxiety. I have learned to deal with shit.. Smoking helps that alot.

But I can't figure it out. I like girls, but none of them seem to be anything I would want to spend time and work on.

There may be a few, but I really don't see a point. I'm rather smart, unusually smart.

My grandma always tells me I am too smart for my own good. And I know I am because it usually gets me in to trouble.

So basicly what is the point of having an actual relationship as opposed to having a bunch of friends that are girls?



Here is an example

Girl" she is 17. she is cool, cut, and can talk shit to me on a regular basis. We hang out, smoke, chill, everything is cool.

Except her boyfriend is useless, and I mean completely useless. He is a bum, which contributes to her bummyness of me, which piss's me off. I want to tell her, but today was his birthday, and I didn't want to fuck it up. She knows this too, but she choses to ignore it for some reason. She is better than him.

I wouldn't be so mad, but it's principal. I should not have to have his girl ask me to buy her shit when he is right next to me, it happens almost everyday, and I woul;dn't have a problem if she was sucking my dick. She isn't

And what confuses me is she will talk to me a lot more different than him, but not just that when we hang out together with out him, it's like she is my girlfriend, and she dosen't ask for shit.


A few days ago I gave her 20 dollars. The next day I got it back from him for weed.

I WAS REALLY PISSED that she asked for money, and then gave it to him and he wanted weed from me.

I didn't say anything, as I only lost 1 gram on the deal, but ITS THE FUCKING PRINCIPAL.

other than the fact that she is 17, and I provide her with shit, Why is she not on my sick. I mean I know she likes me as we talk a lot when he is not around, but WHY IS SHE NOT ON MY DICK?!?!?!?!

What?

other than the fact that she is 17, and I provide her with shit, Why is she not on my sick. I mean I know she likes me as we talk a lot when he is not around, but WHY IS SHE NOT ON MY DICK?!?!?!?!

Probably because of that mentality.

Probably because of that mentality.

no, not really. I have a lot of friends that are girls that I can fuck around with, but I don't aheve a girlfriend.

You know that we don't like "WTF" titles... but as its you I'll let it slide.

Except her boyfriend

which ain't you. End of discussion.

And why do women do anything? You seriously want to try and understand the female mind??!

You sound like a massive tool. Just so you know.

Maybe it's something to do with that.

You know that we don't like "WTF" titles... but as its you I'll let it slide.



which ain't you. End of discussion.

And why do women do anything? You seriously want to try and understand the female mind??!

No, I know that, and I am not a tool.

I just wonder what the fuck goes through these girls minds.

I mean she owes me something like 50 dollars. I wouldn't have a problem with it, and she is only one of a handful of girls I have issues with their boyfriends.


Not like I want to date them, but these girls can do so much better.

I think the problem I have is I am way to nice to girls as far as appeasing them.

the girl I am using is an example. And only because she seems to get the best of me.

her and this other girl.

Jealous much? :p

I just wonder what the fuck goes through these girls minds.


You and every other male on the planet since we all came down from the trees.

If you find out please let us know.

Weed is fucking you're head up. Quit it, get gym membership instead, take up a sport.

I play soccer, but its fucking 45 degrees here.

You mug, bushy.

She's not doing anything for you. She's actively taking from you and giving to a useless wanker who you don't even seem to like...And you're losing out on the deal!
You're losing out monetarily, emotionally and mentally. Why keep giving this parasite anything if you're not getting anything back from her?

Looks like there's nobody to blame here other than yourself. Go get that gym membership Nitronick speaks of and get your head together.

my whole point is it isn't her, its all girls.

I mean I get along with most girls REALLY well.

But, its an all too familiar story.

I've never really found anyone I was really happy with, that was an equal.

I dunno, I was just pissed when I posted it because I had to go get alchohol for their party, and even though I made like 50 bucks.

GIRLS LIKE ME! girls want to go on dates, but something is amiss. I am not sure what.

It's you, im afraid. Get off weed, grow some balls and get something to focus on. You play soccer right? So get as good as you can at it, getting fitness and skill at the sport up then you'll realise women aren't everything you need.

You're smart enough to see everything, but not smart enough to act on it.

Do yourself a favour and live for yourself, and I'm sure your issue will sort itself out.

1) stop Weed. it fucks up your mind. and dont whine, just flush the crap down the drain. quit smoking to wile ye are at it.

2) get your head out of your self-centered ass.

3) find a girl....

fuck it, do step one and 2 first then come back.

No, I know that, and I am not a tool.

I just wonder what the fuck goes through these girls minds.

I mean she owes me something like 50 dollars. I wouldn't have a problem with it, and she is only one of a handful of girls I have issues with their boyfriends.


Not like I want to date them, but these girls can do so much better.

I think the problem I have is I am way to nice to girls as far as appeasing them.

the girl I am using is an example. And only because she seems to get the best of me.

her and this other girl.

Don't attempt to appease girls. Appeasement is what gave Hitler a head start before WWII.

Bushy have you shown her your awesome pieces? All the colourful pipes and shit? I bet that will make her wet


Aren't you a fair bit older than 17? Like man, up your standards a bit. She's using you for money because you've always been a sap for the flavour of the moment. I'd put my attention else where and I'd assume she'd suddenly be more interested.

You know that we don't like "WTF" titles... but as its you I'll let it slide.



which ain't you. End of discussion.




This!!!

First of all, lawl@ "why is she not on my dick"

Secondly, if you are indeed as intelligent as you say you are, then yes it can be difficult to find a girl that's like, on your mental level. My only advice is that you keep trying and try to go to a university to find a girl because girls there tend to be smarter than average.