I'm like...Confused about shit. With my relationship and shit. And I've been drinking. So anyway, I'll try to explain. Here goes...

*Falls over*

Okay, so as some of you know, my girlfriend is really...Uhh...Well, popular amongst the other guys. She's the kind of girl who will go and cheer someone up if they look sad, she's really funny and cute and PERDY. And ughhh. She's pretty much amazing in everyway, which means most other guys would pretty much kill to have my position. Anyways...

I know she loves me, but I don't know why. I'm not a really nice person, I'm a fuckup at school, I'm only slightly more attractive than other guys and I drink/get high almost every day. The only thing I've got going for me is I'm sort of more intelligent than most guys my age, and not in the conventional sense. I mean I'm socially aware and philosophical...And my IQ is like 130 and what not...But on top of that, I'm like...SUPER ADHD and I don't even know basic timetables. :o

She, on the other hand, would never hurt a fly, is very good at school, totally gentle and loving and...Yeah, amazing *gets butterflies*.

Before we were together (it's been two and a bit months now), we liked eachother a lot but neither of us knew. And it's been this way since we were about 12. GAHH IT'S WEIRD.

So my question is: If she could have any guy she wants, and I'm not exactly perfect for her...Does that mean our relationship is really strong, or she just hasn't realized yet and is probably going to get over me as soon as she does?

I know this is a long post for something so trivial, but I think some of my good E-friends will help me out, because I'm kinda troubled by this.

:(

quit being insecure?

Vaginas are vaginas, don't associate emotions with females, it never goes well.

quit being insecure?

Easier said than done.

If she could have any guy she wants, and I'm not exactly perfect for her...Does that mean our relationship is really strong

Nah it means she's cheating on you behind her back. KILL THE BITCH.

But seriously chichi, you think you're not perfect for her, but has she ever said that? If she's with you, not the other boys, maybe she does think you're perfect and that's all that matters, not your little delusions of how she perceives you. It's just your insecurities toying with you.

Damn it...

How do I stop being so fucking insecure? Why am I like that?

Should I tell her how I feel?

You feel that way because you're an emotional, bi curious teenager going through puberty? Perfectly normal dude.

Aaaand about telling her, I'd suggest no. She does want some semblance of a man, insecurity is not an attractive trait. Just let her know that she's important to you, you adore her, that you'll continue to adore her and make sure to appreciate her. Keep her around with your actions.

You're insecure that she'll get over you and leave you right? How is telling her you're afraid of that going to help? Just treat her like she deserves and keep doing what you're doing and make sure she has a REASON to stay with you.

...and stop thinking about wang.

Just go with the flow. The relationship obviously won't last anyway - Trust me, it won't. So take advantage of all the good times now and quit ya worryin! :p

Speaking of sexual expieriences this reminds me of the time where my good old uncle Rupert soiled his trousers.
I awoke at 10:30 am to the ringing of my phone.

I answer the phone and hear the sound of frantic uncle Rupert sounding panicked and in a psychotic state. I hung up and headed over ASAP.

When I walked into his house the strong bitter scent of human feces hit me. The sour spoiled taste of it filled my mouth and throat and I gagged and vomited.

The Stench was horrible. So.... So.... Horrible.

I went to see what was wrong with uncle Rupert. He was laying on the floor, naked wearing nothing but a pair of shit diarrhea stained woman's panties.

It turned out he was just sleepwalking and had a wet dream due to his fingers being covered in cum.

I went home and masturbated all night to it.

Loser

Grow a Pair

Thanks again arquin. I basically never make any decisions about my relationship without your input. It's kind of fucking...Weird.

:o

Nah it means she's cheating on you behind her back. KILL THE BITCH.

But seriously chichi, you think you're not perfect for her, but has she ever said that? If she's with you, not the other boys, maybe she does think you're perfect and that's all that matters, not your little delusions of how she perceives you. It's just your insecurities toying with you.

I agree with Arquin, chichi i talk to you, and your special. <3
If i was 14-16 and lived near you, i would totally rape you.
Srsly.
but even more Srsly, you must have something that no one else has, or act in a way she likes.. Maybe she just likes you for you..? Because your different, and arent a fucking sheep.
(Baah Baah)

I love you Chichi <3

I love you Chichi <3

Was that your official 'coming out'?

Need your age and girls age to comment on this.

I'm 13 she's 12.

i think you should tell her how you feel. she would help your insecurity by telling you that she does think that you are perfect. she stays with you because she thinks that you are great just the way you are. and im sure you make her happy, and that is all she wants.

12 and 13? Shit son.

She obviously likes you, else she wouldn't be going out with you.

And if something bad happens, don't freak out. It's not like you are going to spend the rest of your life with this girl, and you two probably won't ever have sex either.

Just relax.

more intelligent than most guys my age.....and I don't even know basic timetables. :o



^ made me lawl

12 and 13? Shit son.

She obviously likes you, else she wouldn't be going out with you.

And if something bad happens, don't freak out. It's not like you are going to spend the rest of your life with this girl, and you two probably won't ever have sex either.

Just relax.



^ made me lawl

lolololol.

We're both fifteen and we've done it you tool. :p

lolololol.

We're both fifteen and we've done it you tool. :p

I don't say this to be condescending, but at 15, damn near everyone is insecure. When I was 15, I was frustrated, confused, frightened, angry, etc. The important thing to understand here is this: If she is a monogamous person, she isn't going to cheat on you. It's that simple. If she's a good one, she'll try and work out any problems that come up in the relationship...and if they can't be fixed, she'll break up with you, but she won't cheat. People cheat when they have neither the balls to break up or fix a relationship; they fear losing a person's affection, but know there's a problem, so they try to get what's missing elsewhere. If she isn't like that, you've nothing to worry about.

Arggghhh.

so everyone is this insecure lol?

I would say so.

13 to 16 is pretty fucking awkward years for many teenagers.

Most teenagers are, be thankful you have a halfway decent mind and s and a to turn to.

I fucking hate your emo bullshit chichi, and yes I'm writing in this thread when I could of just left it alone and decided to "say something nice or nothing at all", not bothering to reply. If it were not for the utmost need to reinforce how gay you come off in every thread and reply you make. For the very reason that you can't give advice to a "drunk" blog post about your insecurities with some 12 year old girlfriend that hangs out in the cool crowd bla bla bla. Seriously, just fucking grow a pair already. I normally wouldn't care about this type of down syndrome nonsense coming from a 13 year old except that your bi-sexual and dick sucking ramblings are fucking everywhere.

Fucking THIS!

QFMFT

I can't belive you're cheating on Goku with another woman.

Leave Chichi Alone, who the fuck gives you the right to judge people?

So.. your flaming him for being active and liking cock? ._.
Not many people have an issue with chichi, hes a generally nice guy.

Go fucking play in HB, dont pollute a perfectly good thread/forum

Leave Chichi Alone, who the fuck gives you the right to judge people?

This is the internet I need no right to judge anyone, and if he didn't make it so easy to flame him I probably wouldn't do it. Moreover, if pre-teen catharsis is your idea of a good thread then I pity you.

This is the internet I need no right to judge anyone, and if he didn't make it so easy to flame him I probably wouldn't do it. Moreover, if pre-teen catharsis is your idea of a good thread then I pity you.

this.

this.

This.

This.

and that...
has anyone helped to solve the issue.. or what?

and that...
has anyone helped to solve the issue.. or what?

What?

What?

que?
did you get anywhere with your thread, like did your question get answered

Yeah, I guess I'm just insecure.

I'm just going to suck it up and wait for the whole teenager emo drama thing to subside.

well that won't come until you are about 18 or something like that.

well that won't come until you are about 18 or something like that.

Meh...Only three years.

yeah everyone is a bit insecure, unless they dont care about the person. just the fact that you are means that you care about her obviously. it takes time to grow out of it, as you can only be fully secure when you trust someone 100%, and that will happen over years not months.

Meh...Only three years.

a lot can happen in three years.

Meh...Only three years.

It actually occurs they day you wholeheartedly accept that human beings are naturally irrational, fearful, hateful, selfish, corrupt, evil, etc and make the decision to dedicate yourself to a distinct goal and purpose you can focus yourself into in order to overcome these natural flaws within yourself. Up until then, you're a slave to insanity. You ever met a 50 year old that still tries to party with the high-school kids? Ya know, he has a dead end job, drinks a lot, smokes pot daily, doesn't have any close friends, tells stories from 30 years ago. He never grew up. He's still stuck in the same mess every teenager enters in to when their ego really wakes up. He never chose something to give him self to...he never had a reason to grow up. Willful serving of a cause is the only freedom a human being has from blind servitude of insanity.

a lot can happen in three years.

Damn right

Damn right

It's funny because I know what you are talking about.

I'm 13 she's 12.

You are a fucking liar, get out of here you emo shitbag.

You are a fucking liar, get out of here you emo shitbag.

There should be a poll in S&A regarding which one of us should leave.

Good luck faggot.