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 #1 
Old 2008-11-27, 23:21
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Default Is an 18 year old dating a 14 year old morally wrong?

Even if the 14 year old is mature for her age and looks 16/17?

What is your opinion/past experiences on this?
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Old 2008-11-27, 23:23
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Default Re: Is an 18 year old dating a 14 year old morally wrong?

It's legally wrong, so don't do it. If her parents slap you with a statutory rape charge you'll be wishing you'd left her alone.

Also, what kind of relationship can you have with a 14 year old? They can't drive or do much of anything. They have curfews. They're barely into high school.

Seriously, date girls closer to your own age. 14-18 is a huge difference.
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Old 2008-11-27, 23:24
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welll durrrrrrrr!!!
dating any girl over the age of twelve is morally wrong.
 #4 
Old 2008-11-27, 23:25
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Default Re: Is an 18 year old dating a 14 year old morally wrong?

but seriously if shes hot then go for that tight ass pussy
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Old 2008-11-27, 23:25
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Default Re: Is an 18 year old dating a 14 year old morally wrong?

If it's a 3 1/2 year gap, i.e. you're both in high school as a freshman and senior, that's not always so terrible. I dated a 17 yr old senior when i was a freshman and it was fine. It depends on the couple, and on your intentions.
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Old 2008-11-27, 23:26
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Eh, what's worse is that it's wrong for you.

In 4 years she's gonna be 18 and she'll be tired as fuck of you, wanting to try new things and shit. And you'll have wasted some very precious years on a girl that wants to see what other penis tastes like. True story.
 #7 
Old 2008-11-27, 23:29
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Default Re: Is an 18 year old dating a 14 year old morally wrong?

Yeah, I see where you all are coming from. And I don't want to be thrown in jail. It just sucks that you can't date someone purely because it's illegal. I guess when you say 14 you think "borderline pedophilia", but she really does look 16.
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Old 2008-11-27, 23:33
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Default Re: Is an 18 year old dating a 14 year old morally wrong?

I guess when you say 14 you think "borderline pedophilia", but she really does look 16.


Don't they all... Roll Eyes (Sarcastic)
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Old 2008-11-27, 23:36
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divide your age by 2 and add 7. if its below that number then its weird, atleast to tell other people.
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Old 2008-11-27, 23:36
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Default Re: Is an 18 year old dating a 14 year old morally wrong?

They have curfews.

WTF ..
Isn't that pretty much directly opposite to freedom of assembly etc .. never even heard of curfews for people not convicted of any crimes here ..
 #11 
Old 2008-11-27, 23:43
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Default Re: Is an 18 year old dating a 14 year old morally wrong?

It's illegal, but it happens more often than you'd think. I'm 18 and I'd probably fuck a hot 14 year old. A lot of people would probably date one too, that I'm not so sure about. At 18 you should be starting your life pretty soon, be it college or a full time job. At 14 you've got another 3-4 years of high school left. Those 2 stages of life don't really mesh well, unless one partner wants to screw up their own life just to date someone outside their age group.
 #12 
Old 2008-11-27, 23:50
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Default Re: Is an 18 year old dating a 14 year old morally wrong?

Totally depends on the people.

For an example silverfuck seems more mature then a lot of people her age. On the contrary I know people who are 23 that are way less mature then her. As long as they are around the same maturity level then I don't really see a problem.

And people bringing up the legal system, remember this, throughout human history the most common age females began reproducing was between 13-15. The legal system you're referencing also considers smoking weed to be immoral. The legal system is fucking retarded.
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Old 2008-11-27, 23:50
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Default Re: Is an 18 year old dating a 14 year old morally wrong?

WTF ..
Isn't that pretty much directly opposite to freedom of assembly etc .. never even heard of curfews for people not convicted of any crimes here ..

In the US a lot of places have curfews based on age group. It's kind of stupid, but if a cop somehow stops you or catches you out somewhere, he'll ID you; if you're underage and out past the curfew, the cop has several options. They can take you in and make your parents come pick you up. Not fun.

Also, her parents might say she has to be home by 10. This is a really common practice. I know a girl who's 25 now, she said when she was 16 or 17 she was dating a 21 year old. Anyway, she went out to drink with some guy she knew from work, and she was 20 minutes late getting home. Her parents grounded her for 20 days. Needless to say, her boyfriend was pissed.

It's really more trouble than it's worth.
 #14 
Old 2008-11-28, 00:00
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Default Re: Is an 18 year old dating a 14 year old morally wrong?

I agree, the legal system IS fucked. I can understand if the law was against 12 year olds with 20 year olds or something. But what if people 4 years apart really like each other?

Whether or not I agree with the laws, I still have to abide by them. Unless of course I want to spend a couple years having sex with someone 4 times my age who has a penis.
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Old 2008-11-28, 00:03
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Default Re: Is an 18 year old dating a 14 year old morally wrong?

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Originally Posted by Misfit
I agree, the legal system IS fucked. I can understand if the law was against 12 year olds with 20 year olds or something. But what if people 4 years apart really like each other?

Whether or not I agree with the laws, I still have to abide by them. Unless of course I want to spend a couple years having sex with someone 4 times my age who has a penis.


The thing is, why would you want to date a 14 year old anyway? Tight pussy comments aside, they really have nothing to offer. They're in a totally different part of their life, just starting high school. 18 year olds are getting done with high school, moving on to college, and basically figuring out their lives. 14 year olds have no idea what they want to do.

Think of all the shit 18 year olds can do: join armed forces, smoke, do porn, drive, vote, drink (in most countries), etc.

14 year olds for the most part can't do shit anywhere.
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Old 2008-11-28, 00:07
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Default Re: Is an 18 year old dating a 14 year old morally wrong?

If it's illegal it might be a better idea not to.
If it isn't illegal where you are DO IT NOW!
 #17 
Old 2008-11-28, 00:09
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The thing is, why would you want to date a 14 year old anyway? Tight pussy comments aside, they really have nothing to offer. They're in a totally different part of their life, just starting high school. 18 year olds are getting done with high school, moving on to college, and basically figuring out their lives. 14 year olds have no idea what they want to do.

Think of all the shit 18 year olds can do: join armed forces, smoke, do porn, drive, vote, drink (in most countries), etc.

14 year olds for the most part can't do shit anywhere.

Pth you're no fun.
Taste the forbidden fruit.
Taaaassssste it!
 #18 
Old 2008-11-28, 00:11
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Default Re: Is an 18 year old dating a 14 year old morally wrong?

The thing is, why would you want to date a 14 year old anyway? Tight pussy comments aside, they really have nothing to offer. They're in a totally different part of their life, just starting high school. 18 year olds are getting done with high school, moving on to college, and basically figuring out their lives. 14 year olds have no idea what they want to do.

Think of all the shit 18 year olds can do: join armed forces, smoke, do porn, drive, vote, drink (in most countries), etc.

14 year olds for the most part can't do shit anywhere.

I know all this. But none of that matters when you like someone. But I understand that if you want a relationship to work you have to take current situations into consideration. That's what sucks so bad.
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Old 2008-11-28, 00:12
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I'm 17 and currently dating a 15 year old.. and I will turn 18 7 months before she turns 16. Her parents are totally fine with me she is mature for her age so I really do not think it's an issue.

18 - 14 though, perhaps a little more weird. Depsite me being a 3 year gap (18-15) technically its 2 and a 1/2 years. 4 is a big jump.
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Old 2008-11-28, 00:34
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Default Re: Is an 18 year old dating a 14 year old morally wrong?

don't let her parents find out lol but I mean I bet she has a tight vag
 #21 
Old 2008-11-28, 00:36
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I lost my virginity to a 14 year old when I was 18.
 #22 
Old 2008-11-28, 00:41
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Default Re: Is an 18 year old dating a 14 year old morally wrong?

Immoral? No. Illegal? No, not if you're only dating. Of course, having sex with her could land you in deep shit-depending on where you are. My 19 year old is sleeping with a 15 year old at the moment...long as she or her parents don't complain he'll probably be alright.
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Old 2008-11-28, 00:43
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Default Re: Is an 18 year old dating a 14 year old morally wrong?

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Originally Posted by jackketch
Immoral? No. Illegal? No, not if you're only dating. Of course, having sex with her could land you in deep shit-depending on where you are. My 19 year old is sleeping with a 15 year old at the moment...long as she or her parents don't complain he'll probably be alright.


pedo enablement.
 #24 
Old 2008-11-28, 00:52
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Default Re: Is an 18 year old dating a 14 year old morally wrong?

Illegal? No, not if you're only dating. Of course, having sex with her could land you in deep shit-depending on where you are.

That pretty much defines it. I met a 13 year old the other day and I'm 18. I was going to date her and not do anything with her sexually at all...but her mom found out about me and flipped shit. But moral of the story, don't have sex and you're good to go.
 #25 
Old 2008-11-28, 01:10
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Default Re: Is an 18 year old dating a 14 year old morally wrong?

"are you really that desperate?"
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Old 2008-11-28, 01:12
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Default Re: Is an 18 year old dating a 14 year old morally wrong?

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"are you really that desperate?"


If you say so.
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Old 2008-11-28, 02:07
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pedo enablement.

Well, at least he didn't give birth a total retard. I say total because I have heard of Jack's son, so I couldn't say that he wasn't just a bit retarded with a straight face.
 #28 
Old 2008-11-28, 02:40
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Default Re: Is an 18 year old dating a 14 year old morally wrong?

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Originally Posted by jackketch
Immoral? No. Illegal? No, not if you're only dating. Of course, having sex with her could land you in deep shit-depending on where you are. My 19 year old is sleeping with a 15 year old at the moment...long as she or her parents don't complain he'll probably be alright.


Not true. Let's say you touch her tits or finger her and mommy finds out and wants to press charges. You'd get some nice indecent liberties with a child, aggravated indecent liberties, or molestation charges. There's a lot of laws in place to make sure people 18+ really think before doing anything to minors.

Even if it were legal, the posts I made earlier basically show the pointlessness of it all. Yeah, it'd be fun to fuck, but there really is very little to no relationship potential. Are you going to graduate, go off to college, and continue dating a 15 year old? Seriously?

I mean if you like her, go for it. I just don't see the point when there's tons of girl out there.

Oh, and I love how everyone says "she's 14/15/16 but she's really mature for her age." Everyone says that, and it's bullshit nearly always. Unless they're working a job to pay for their schooling, taking care of siblings, or doing something extraordinary, they aren't mature for their age. They are 14/15/16 and normal for their age. A mature kid in that age group would be one who wakes up at 4 to prepare food for breakfast and lunch for siblings, bathe them, get them dressed and make sure they get to school, then go to school and come home, make dinner and otherwise look after said siblings.

Maturity comes with responsibility for oneself or responsibility for others. Unless they have way more responsibility than normal, they're normal.
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Old 2008-11-28, 03:10
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Default Re: Is an 18 year old dating a 14 year old morally wrong?

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but seriously if shes hot then go for that tight ass pussy


Hell yeah, man. :D
 #30 
Old 2008-11-28, 03:30
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OP I feel your pain.
20 - 16
Shes asain.

:(
 #31 
Old 2008-11-28, 03:34
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Default Re: Is an 18 year old dating a 14 year old morally wrong?

well, maybe 14 is a bit young, but the age gap isn't really, i've seen a bigger gap, but anyway, but still, depending if it's just dating or "love" really..., has an impact on what MY opinion is
 #32 
Old 2008-11-28, 05:49
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Default Re: Is an 18 year old dating a 14 year old morally wrong?

Not true. Let's say you touch her tits or finger her and mommy finds out and wants to press charges. You'd get some nice indecent liberties with a child, aggravated indecent liberties, or molestation charges. There's a lot of laws in place to make sure people 18+ really think before doing anything to minors.

Even if it were legal, the posts I made earlier basically show the pointlessness of it all. Yeah, it'd be fun to fuck, but there really is very little to no relationship potential. Are you going to graduate, go off to college, and continue dating a 15 year old? Seriously?

I mean if you like her, go for it. I just don't see the point when there's tons of girl out there.

Oh, and I love how everyone says "she's 14/15/16 but she's really mature for her age." Everyone says that, and it's bullshit nearly always. Unless they're working a job to pay for their schooling, taking care of siblings, or doing something extraordinary, they aren't mature for their age. They are 14/15/16 and normal for their age. A mature kid in that age group would be one who wakes up at 4 to prepare food for breakfast and lunch for siblings, bathe them, get them dressed and make sure they get to school, then go to school and come home, make dinner and otherwise look after said siblings.

Maturity comes with responsibility for oneself or responsibility for others. Unless they have way more responsibility than normal, they're normal.

I agree completely.
 #33 
Old 2008-11-28, 06:13
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Pedophiles wouldn't be pedophiles if they actually spent time with little girls. I had to watch my uncle's three nieces one summer, ages 8, 11 and 12. They were the most awful people I've ever spent time with. The world revolves around them, they get bored if you don't give them attention with every breath, and you are just their big toy that they can do whatever they want with.

I want a girl who has worked at least one shitty job, understands that they most likely won't be a fucking movie-star when they grow up, and has had some shitty boyfriends so she doesn't get false hopes. That's a real woman, a woman with perspective. Teenagers have none. They just have pretty little faces, with no substance. If you want a pretty face, just keep jerking off to teenie internet porn.

Nature intended for girls and boys to be ready for sex once they hit puberty and can reproduce. But nature also intended teenagers to be awfully annoying and uninteresting to adults. Pedophiles only think about that first part because they never actually spend time with the kids they lust for.
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Old 2008-11-28, 07:55
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Default Re: Is an 18 year old dating a 14 year old morally wrong?

Not true. Let's say you touch her tits or finger her and mommy finds out and wants to press charges. You'd get some nice indecent liberties with a child, aggravated indecent liberties, or molestation charges. There's a lot of laws in place to make sure people 18+ really think before doing anything to minors.



I said 'dating' which means 'dating' and that IS legal. Taking her for a McShake isn't the same as assault on a minor.....well not legally anyway.
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Old 2008-11-28, 08:12
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yes ....
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Old 2008-11-28, 08:16
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Don't they all... Roll Eyes (Sarcastic)

this, and i wonder whats so mature about this girl. is it the stimulating conversation? her 14 years of worldly experience?. tell yourself whatever you need to to justify it pedo.Roll Eyes (Sarcastic)
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Old 2008-11-28, 08:58
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I lost my virginity to a 14 year old when I was 18.


For me it was the other way around. But her parents got her a b.c. pill prescription when she was 13. Sex with a 14-year-old is really worth a try! Very high energy, and NOTHING droops!
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Old 2008-11-28, 09:45
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NOTHING droops!
That's the important part isn't it. ;)
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Old 2008-11-28, 11:26
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Misfit, your real name wouldn't happen to be Ben would it

Confused
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Old 2008-11-28, 11:40
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Misfit, your real name wouldn't happen to be Ben would it

Confused


Your real name is clitcock.
 #41 
Old 2008-11-28, 12:05
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Default Re: Is an 18 year old dating a 14 year old morally wrong?

as said before.

if it's illegal dont do it! - and i know of no country that allows a 14 to have a sexual relationship outside of marriage (and yes there are countries where a 12 year old can get married... fucked up)

besides that i've dated a 15 year old when i was still 19... it lasted a full 3 weeks before het childish behavior got so far on my nerves that i dumped her ass.

she looked 17/18 easily btw - pretty decent body as well at that. she just was a kid in mind and heart. and that kills ye. sure sex might be nice... then again, a 15 year old? good in bed? slut-o-visum?

in any case... dont do it, not worth the trouble. find a 17-20 year old petite litle thing ;)
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Old 2008-11-28, 15:12
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Default Re: Is an 18 year old dating a 14 year old morally wrong?

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divide your age by 2 and add 7. if its below that number then its weird, atleast to tell other people.


So you're saying to me doing anyone under 10 will be considered weird?
 #43 
Old 2008-11-28, 15:16
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Default Re: Is an 18 year old dating a 14 year old morally wrong?

as said before.

if it's illegal dont do it! - and i know of no country that allows a 14 to have a sexual relationship outside of marriage

Uhm Germany, Bulgaria, most of the former Yugoslavia (if I recall aright). In Germany its 14 and as long as the partner is not over 21...again last time i checked. There's probably a lot more.
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Old 2008-11-28, 15:22
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Default Re: Is an 18 year old dating a 14 year old morally wrong?

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Originally Posted by Misfit
Even if the 14 year old is mature for her age and looks 16/17?

What is your opinion/past experiences on this?


Yes I would really like to know the answer to this too, seeing that there's an 18 year old wishing to date me.
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Old 2008-11-28, 15:26
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I said 'dating' which means 'dating' and that IS legal. Taking her for a McShake isn't the same as assault on a minor.....well not legally anyway.

If you do nothing physical with her, then that's fine. If you touch her at all, say anything sexual, masturbate in her presence, or even show her your dick, you're in a lot of trouble.

Indecent liberties with a child:

Generally, when a person is charged with taking indecent liberties, the liberties must be taken in the physical presence of the child, but physical contact is not required. Exposing one's private parts to a child with sexual intent may constitute the crime. An indecent liberty may consist of communication of indecent language.

The following is an examle of a state statute dealing with taking indecent liberties:

"21-3503. Indecent liberties with a child.

(a) Indecent liberties with a child is engaging in any of the following acts with a child who is 14 or more years of age but less than 16 years of age:

1. Any lewd fondling or touching of the person of either the child or the offender, done or submitted to with the intent to arouse or to satisfy the sexual desires of either the child or the offender, or both; or
2. soliciting the child to engage in any lewd fondling or touching of the person of another with the intent to arouse or satisfy the sexual desires of the child, the offender or another.

(b) It shall be a defense to a prosecution of indecent liberties with a child as described in subsection (a)(1) that the child was married to the accused at the time of the offense.

(c) Indecent liberties with a child is a severity level 5, person felony."

Aggravated indecent liberties is basically the same except it involves sex.


I don't know what the laws are in England, but you really shouldn't make statements about it if you don't know what you're talking about. The statutes I listed are common in the US.

The end result is a felony, and you register as a sexual predator, so then people can find you http://www.familywatchdog.us/

Not worth it. If you're in a country that doesn't give a shit, then go for it if you want. But in a lot of countries it's just not worth the risk.
 #46 
Old 2008-11-28, 16:49
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I don't know what the laws are in England, but you really shouldn't make statements about it if you don't know what you're talking about.

What the fuck are you on? No where in what you quoted does it say that dating is an offence. I said dating was fine and it is. I also said that 'sex' would get you in deep shit. Did you really need to define what 'sex' is? I'd hope that most people here would be intelligent enough to realise that in this case 'sex' meant any kind of sexual act etc
 #47 
Old 2008-11-28, 16:50
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Default Re: Is an 18 year old dating a 14 year old morally wrong?

If you do nothing physical with her, then that's fine. If you touch her at all, say anything sexual, masturbate in her presence, or even show her your dick, you're in a lot of trouble.
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Maybe it's an american thang but far as I know 'dating' and showing her your dick are two different things.
 #48 
Old 2008-11-28, 16:52
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Default Re: Is an 18 year old dating a 14 year old morally wrong?

If you do nothing physical with her, then that's fine. If you touch her at all, say anything sexual, masturbate in her presence, or even show her your dick, you're in a lot of trouble.

Indecent liberties with a child:

Generally, when a person is charged with taking indecent liberties, the liberties must be taken in the physical presence of the child, but physical contact is not required. Exposing one's private parts to a child with sexual intent may constitute the crime. An indecent liberty may consist of communication of indecent language.

The following is an examle of a state statute dealing with taking indecent liberties:

"21-3503. Indecent liberties with a child.

(a) Indecent liberties with a child is engaging in any of the following acts with a child who is 14 or more years of age but less than 16 years of age:

1. Any lewd fondling or touching of the person of either the child or the offender, done or submitted to with the intent to arouse or to satisfy the sexual desires of either the child or the offender, or both; or
2. soliciting the child to engage in any lewd fondling or touching of the person of another with the intent to arouse or satisfy the sexual desires of the child, the offender or another.

(b) It shall be a defense to a prosecution of indecent liberties with a child as described in subsection (a)(1) that the child was married to the accused at the time of the offense.

(c) Indecent liberties with a child is a severity level 5, person felony."

Aggravated indecent liberties is basically the same except it involves sex.


I don't know what the laws are in England, but you really shouldn't make statements about it if you don't know what you're talking about. The statutes I listed are common in the US.

The end result is a felony, and you register as a sexual predator, so then people can find you http://www.familywatchdog.us/

Not worth it. If you're in a country that doesn't give a shit, then go for it if you want. But in a lot of countries it's just not worth the risk.

Dont fuck with the ketch. You wont win
 #49 
Old 2008-11-28, 16:56
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Dont fuck with the ketch. You wont win

He isn't he just misunderstood what i was saying. When I said "dating is fine but sex will get you in deep shit" he thought by 'dating' I meant not just going on dates but also sexual acts like dry humping, petting etc etc which is probably a common understanding of the word but not necessarily true.

I didn't.

Dating is dating, frottage is frottage.
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Old 2008-11-28, 16:58
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Default Re: Is an 18 year old dating a 14 year old morally wrong?

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Originally Posted by Fanglekai
It's legally wrong, so don't do it. If her parents slap you with a statutory rape charge you'll be wishing you'd left her alone.

Also, what kind of relationship can you have with a 14 year old? They can't drive or do much of anything. They have curfews. They're barely into high school.

Seriously, date girls closer to your own age. 14-18 is a huge difference.


agreed.
and not matter how mature you think that she is.... disregard. it isn't true. they just act that way. it is a fucking act.
 #51 
Old 2008-11-28, 17:03
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He isn't he just misunderstood what i was saying. When I said "dating is fine but sex will get you in deep shit" he thought by 'dating' I meant not just going on dates but also sexual acts like dry humping, petting etc etc which is probably a common understanding of the word but not necessarily true.

I didn't.

Dating is dating, frottage is frottage.

Yep, I thought 'dating' included sexual elements. If it's just dates, then there's nothing illegal about it. Oh well, at least the information I posted might be useful.
 #52 
Old 2008-11-28, 17:08
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Dont fuck with the ketch. You wont win

You're a moron and your post contributes nothing to this thread. Congratulations.
 #53 
Old 2008-11-28, 17:10
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Yep, I thought 'dating' included sexual elements. If it's just dates, then there's nothing illegal about it. Oh well, at least the information I posted might be useful.

but when did dating suddenly become 'sexual activities' i mean i always thought dating was deciding who you were going to get sexual with. i thought it went: dating to sleeping with....i.e"im dating right now.." [like checking out your options.] and then "im sleeping with..."
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but when did dating suddenly become 'sexual activities' i mean i always thought dating was deciding who you were going to get sexual with. i thought it went: dating to sleeping with....i.e"im dating right now.." [like checking out your options.] and then "im sleeping with..."

It's a college thing. 10 times out of 10 if you say 'I'm dating ____" it means you're fucking that person. I should have considered the high school definition and dating in the strict sense as well.
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It's a college thing. 10 times out of 10 if you say 'I'm dating ____" it means you're fucking that person. I should have considered the high school definition and dating in the strict sense as well.

im not in high school... this is just how i always viewed it. i guess maybe it is because every person i date or am dating doesn't get sex right away.... they have to earn that. haha [but not saying that that is what you do by the by.]
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im not in high school... this is just how i always viewed it. i guess maybe it is because every person i date or am dating doesn't get sex right away.... they have to earn that. haha [but not saying that that is what you do by the by.]

Oh, i was just saying that there were at least 2 definitions I should have considered; the high school definition and 'dating' without sex. I think they are two points of view that would've been useful to consider.

Making them wait to have sex is not a bad idea at all. It saves a lot of annoyance later on.
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Old 2008-11-28, 18:10
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Oh, i was just saying that there were at least 2 definitions I should have considered; the high school definition and 'dating' without sex. I think they are two points of view that would've been useful to consider.

Making them wait to have sex is not a bad idea at all. It saves a lot of annoyance later on.

and plus it makes the sex better. for sure!!!
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Old 2008-11-28, 18:12
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Oh, i was just saying that there were at least 2 definitions I should have considered; the high school definition and 'dating' without sex. I think they are two points of view that would've been useful to consider.

Making them wait to have sex is not a bad idea at all. It saves a lot of annoyance later on.

You were right to pull me up on it, even if what i said was technically correct, I should have defined the term to avoid anyone thinking I was telling people that everything but actual coitus was cool.
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Old 2008-11-29, 00:54
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You were right to pull me up on it, even if what i said was technically correct, I should have defined the term to avoid anyone thinking I was telling people that everything but actual coitus was cool.

I didn't want to see a "goddamit i'm a registered sex offender now" thread. Plus, I have a relative who is a lawyer, and when I turned 18 she made me read the statutes on indecent liberties, aggravated indecent liberties, age of consent, etc. It's useful for everyone to know what the rules are in their area so there isn't any 'zomg i didn't know.' The "i didn't know she was underage" defense works in 13 states, though, so there's always that lucky chance.
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Yeah dude, it's morally wrong.
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Old 2008-11-29, 08:55
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haha...... you have morals....
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Old 2008-11-29, 09:02
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but seriously if shes hot then go for that tight ass pussy


Do you think the puss of a 14 year old is significantly tighter than that of say, a 16-18 year old girl?
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Old 2008-11-29, 09:04
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Do you think the puss of a 14 year old is significantly tighter than that of say, a 16-18 year old girl?

Depends how many babies that 14 year old has had already (don't forget I live in Norfolk!)
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I didn't want to see a "goddamit i'm a registered sex offender now" thread. Plus, I have a relative who is a lawyer, and when I turned 18 she made me read the statutes on indecent liberties, aggravated indecent liberties, age of consent, etc. It's useful for everyone to know what the rules are in their area so there isn't any 'zomg i didn't know.' The "i didn't know she was underage" defense works in 13 states, though, so there's always that lucky chance.

It's a little scary that it only works in 13 of them!
While obviously ignorance of the law is no excuse, I would have thought that if it could be demonstrated that the offender did not know that the 'victim' was underage it would be hard for them to have possessed intent to commit the offense in the first place.
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If I ever see you I will beat your ass. And if I ever heard my 14 year old sister was stupid enough to date anyone over the age of 16, I will beat his ass.


You are the scum of the earth, I don't care how fucking mature she is, YOU Sir are obviously not. Especially if you feel the need to ask totse. YOU ARE PATHETIC
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Old 2008-11-29, 18:36
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It's a little scary that it only works in 13 of them!
While obviously ignorance of the law is no excuse, I would have thought that if it could be demonstrated that the offender did not know that the 'victim' was underage it would be hard for them to have possessed intent to commit the offense in the first place.

The law doesn't care, unfortunately. If I didn't know killing people was wrong I wouldn't get off the hook for it. The law is supposed to be fair and impartial, so whether or not you knew doesn't really matter across the board, especially since all you would have to do is say "Well I didn't know it was illegal." Either way, always check out their photo id.
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Depends how many babies that 14 year old has had already (don't forget I live in Norfolk!)

Depends on how sexually active the 14 year old's been.

If she's been as sexually active as Silverfuck, I bet the pussy would be like a CAVERN.

lol lol silverfuck are you reading this?
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Old 2008-11-30, 00:42
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Thats really pathetic. I'm 18 (19 in feb) and the lowest I would go is 16. Maybe 15. Ok, Mayble 12. If she looked mature for her age.
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Old 2008-11-30, 01:28
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Depends how many babies that 14 year old has had already (don't forget I live in Norfolk!)

Oh, yes. I didn't take that into account, I guess that's why everyone likes em young.
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Old 2008-11-30, 21:06
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It's really weird how uptight all you are about it, but everyone IRL around me seem to think it's okay and actually encourage me.

Either way, I asked your guys' opinions, you gave it to me so I respect them.

If I liked a 13 year old that would be really pushing it. If any lower then there'd be a serious problem. But us being 3 and a half years apart, in my opinion isn't as bad as you all are making out it to be.
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Old 2008-11-30, 21:47
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It's really weird how uptight all you are about it, but everyone IRL around me seem to think it's okay and actually encourage me.

Either way, I asked your guys' opinions, you gave it to me so I respect them.

If I liked a 13 year old that would be really pushing it. If any lower then there'd be a serious problem. But us being 3 and a half years apart, in my opinion isn't as bad as you all are making out it to be.


Haha O RLY?????

This girl is 14: https://www.totse.com/community/showthread.php?t=2177323

And it's still illegal to touch her.
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Old 2008-11-30, 23:06
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When i was 17 i went out with a 13 year old for 2 months then broke up with her. I knew it was wrong but i figured im not 18 so it cant be that bad. Im 19 and im 20 in December. I was fucking with girls as young as 15 ive had some hot 15 year olds and if your older you usually get a hotter younger girl than a girl your own age. For a while i had this infactuation with younger girls (we call them baldies). My friend and i made this video it pretty much sums it up http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QXqFamTxhI8 I loved fucking younger girls because there small and you can fuck the shit out of them and there easy. I would fuck these girls but NEVER under any circumstance date them. I met a girl who was 15 this year and she had a 16 yera old friend i got with the 15 year old and made her my chicken head for a few months then dropped her my friend who is 21 got with the 16 year old then after a few months they started officially dating i think that is so drawling. Do not do this to yourself its so stupid and you could get in serious trouble over some young ass bitch. They can be friends with benefits or a one night stand thats it. I decided when i turned 20 the lowest i was gonna go was 16 but i already bumped it up to 16, my last 15 year old was in september and i just copped some dome. A few months ago i had a girl add me on myspace and she started talking to me and saying how she wanted to fuck she was 13 about to be 14 i always said never any lower than 15 but i couldnt stop myself from at least talking to the girl. I comtemplated fucking this girl and asked some of my friends if i should i decided fuck no that bitch isnt worth the risk. If it was legal though i definently would have railed that bitch. The past few months ive been really starting to hate younger girls sure there cute and you can fuck the shit outta them but they dont know how to fuck you get an older girl she will be fucking you and you cant have a conversation with them there fucking stupid and they have no life experience, have curfews, get grounded there little fucking girls still who just want to fuck an older guy. Its alright if you want to fuck them i still think it isnt a good idea but if you want go for it dont fucking date them though. Now ive been going for older girls or girls closer to my age the last 2 girls i fucked with were 24 and 17, i now date the 17 year old and im happy. The moral of the story is older is better.
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Old 2008-11-30, 23:57
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When i was 17 i went out with a 13 year old for 2 months then broke up with her. I knew it was wrong but i figured im not 18 so it cant be that bad. Im 19 and im 20 in December. I was fucking with girls as young as 15 ive had some hot 15 year olds and if your older you usually get a hotter younger girl than a girl your own age. For a while i had this infactuation with younger girls (we call them baldies). My friend and i made this video it pretty much sums it up http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QXqFamTxhI8 I loved fucking younger girls because there small and you can fuck the shit out of them and there easy. I would fuck these girls but NEVER under any circumstance date them. I met a girl who was 15 this year and she had a 16 yera old friend i got with the 15 year old and made her my chicken head for a few months then dropped her my friend who is 21 got with the 16 year old then after a few months they started officially dating i think that is so drawling. Do not do this to yourself its so stupid and you could get in serious trouble over some young ass bitch. They can be friends with benefits or a one night stand thats it. I decided when i turned 20 the lowest i was gonna go was 16 but i already bumped it up to 16, my last 15 year old was in september and i just copped some dome. A few months ago i had a girl add me on myspace and she started talking to me and saying how she wanted to fuck she was 13 about to be 14 i always said never any lower than 15 but i couldnt stop myself from at least talking to the girl. I comtemplated fucking this girl and asked some of my friends if i should i decided fuck no that bitch isnt worth the risk. If it was legal though i definently would have railed that bitch. The past few months ive been really starting to hate younger girls sure there cute and you can fuck the shit outta them but they dont know how to fuck you get an older girl she will be fucking you and you cant have a conversation with them there fucking stupid and they have no life experience, have curfews, get grounded there little fucking girls still who just want to fuck an older guy. Its alright if you want to fuck them i still think it isnt a good idea but if you want go for it dont fucking date them though. Now ive been going for older girls or girls closer to my age the last 2 girls i fucked with were 24 and 17, i now date the 17 year old and im happy. The moral of the story is older is better.


Lol..

Anyway, all the "fucking" aside. The question is quite simple. If you were 18, and genuinely liked a 14 year old, would you date/sleep with her? Or is there too much of a risk factor?

I know heaps of people who have had sex with 14/15 year olds and none of them are in jail.
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Old 2008-12-01, 00:16
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need pics.
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Old 2008-12-01, 01:14
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I don't think there's anythg wrong with that, Im 21 and I'd fuck a 14 year old, as long as her dad or brother didn't find out, or she grassed me up.

Best to not be a virgin either, if shes had sex before, then why not again?

EPHEBOPHILIA FTW
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Old 2008-12-01, 01:20
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Depends on how sexually active the 14 year old's been.

If she's been as sexually active as Silverfuck, I bet the pussy would be like a CAVERN.

lol lol silverfuck are you reading this?

Haha, I guess you didn't hear me complaining about how my boyfriend won't have sex with me. It's been at around 2 months since I have had sex properly. :(.

And I haven't been 14 in years.
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Old 2008-12-01, 01:33
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The funny thing is I'M the virgin and she isn't.
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Old 2008-12-01, 01:48
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It's been at around 2 months since I have had sex properly. :(. [/I]

Tragic.

Wanna hook up? ;)
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Old 2008-12-01, 01:49
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Tragic.

Wanna hook up? ;)

It doesn't get more appealing every time you ask.
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Old 2008-12-01, 01:50
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It doesn't get more appealing every time you ask.

I was more joking this time.
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Old 2008-12-01, 01:51
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To answer your question:
Yes, I'm 18 and I would fuck a 14 year old (whether I genuinely liked her or not). Probably wouldn't date one...well maybe.

Just go for it, most guys would.
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Old 2008-12-01, 03:29
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Lol..

Anyway, all the "fucking" aside. The question is quite simple. If you were 18, and genuinely liked a 14 year old, would you date/sleep with her? Or is there too much of a risk factor?

I know heaps of people who have had sex with 14/15 year olds and none of them are in jail.

no i wouldnt
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Old 2008-12-01, 03:40
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18 divided by 2 is 9. 9 plus 7 is 16. Therefore, you cannot rightfully fuck a 14-year-old.
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Old 2008-12-01, 06:11
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18 divided by 2 is 9. 9 plus 7 is 16. Therefore, you cannot rightfully fuck a 14-year-old.


I believe that settles the matter.
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Old 2008-12-01, 06:52
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Yes I think that is kind of loser-ish to answer your question.

But once when I had just turned 17 there was this girl I met and I made out with her that night and she was only 14 but was about to turn 15 in a month. Everything about that would have been fine except for 2 things: 1. I was a senior she was a freshmen, and 2. she looked pretty young for her age. So the next day I was pondering what to do and decided to break it off cause she wasn't interesting really either.

So its up to you man if you wanna be desperate go ahead. We've all done things were ashamed of.
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Old 2008-12-01, 09:44
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If I were desperate I'd go for a fat or ugly chick.
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Old 2008-12-01, 14:10
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If I were desperate I'd go for a 14 year old.

C whut I did thar??
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Old 2008-12-01, 14:24
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welll durrrrrrrr!!!
dating any girl over the age of twelve is morally wrong.


LMAO!!

No, but seriously, OP. I give you the green light, 18 is just a number. KEEP IT SECRET, though. You don't understand how much shit this can cause if it gets open.
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Old 2008-12-01, 14:47
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The thing is, why would you want to date a 14 year old anyway? Tight pussy comments aside, they really have nothing to offer. They're in a totally different part of their life, just starting high school. 18 year olds are getting done with high school, moving on to college, and basically figuring out their lives. 14 year olds have no idea what they want to do.

Think of all the shit 18 year olds can do: join armed forces, smoke, do porn, drive, vote, drink (in most countries), etc.

14 year olds for the most part can't do shit anywhere.

Am I the only one on totse with "young/older together fantasies?" OMG, I can list off at least 4 13-15 year olds that I would fuckin love to get inside.

Relationship, absolutely not. But sex? *touches self and moans*
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Old 2008-12-01, 18:59
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Am I the only one on totse with "young/older together fantasies?" OMG, I can list off at least 4 13-15 year olds that I would fuckin love to get inside.

Relationship, absolutely not. But sex? *touches self and moans*

No, but I'm too old for that and I get girls 18+. I don't need to fuck impressionable children to satisfy my sexual desires.

And age is not just a number. You're an acolyte, though, so I can't expect much from you.
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Old 2008-12-01, 21:23
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LMAO!!

No, but seriously, OP. I give you the green light, 18 is just a number. KEEP IT SECRET, though. You don't understand how much shit this can cause if it gets open.

I've decided to not go any further with this. I don't want to get into any trouble and everything everyone's saying makes sense. I always thought 14 was a bit too young, even 15 is youngish.
 
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