How much time should there be before dates? I know the Bro Code says three days, but I was wondering personal preferences.

Does it depend on your interest level? How desperate you want to seem? A couple days... a week?

10 - 15 years

Its all about trial and error my friend. You will figure out a style for you

Around once a week I would've thought?

What is "Dates"?

The time between dates is 24 hours.

If you want to be cool and you don't want to get messed around then three days wait is standard. He should do the asking. When you get older and you know what you're doing, you figure out you can't wait that long anyway, so just rip his clothes off on the spot.;)

Depends on how good the date was, how much you want the person, and how much you're willing to break the 'unwritten rule' of waiting.
1day to a week.

3 - 7 days.

depends on how casual it is. if you guys were friends before hand and were talking on myspace often and shit as friends for a while prior, i think its okay to myspace her/text her casually not being direct to another date just small talk. if you don't really know eachother and you don't talk aside from making plans and going on dates in between time i'd say is like 6 days or so, a minimum of 3 if you're impatient.

Really, it depends on the GIRL'S interest level. If you go by some fucking code and she's really into you, she might just lose all interest in you. Now if she's obviously not interested and you leave a bombardment of voice messages every day for a week after the date, that's where you go wrong. Go by feel man. Not some code. Trust your instinct.

Really, it depends on the GIRL'S interest level. If you go by some fucking code and she's really into you, she might just lose all interest in you. Now if she's obviously not interested and you leave a bombardment of voice messages every day for a week after the date, that's where you go wrong. Go by feel man. Not some code. Trust your instinct.

Lol at you assuming a straight guy would call himself "InimitableBallerina". :D

She's a girl.

Bro Code
I stopped reading when I read that.

Going based on the title, it will probably be about a week if it's a first date. Call her Friday after work and get something set up for the weekend.

I stopped reading when I read that.

Going based on the title, it will probably be about a week if it's a first date. Call her Friday after work and get something set up for the weekend.

Nah man, I'm a girl but I have read the Bro Code that my guy friend gave me.

I am doing the asking though... he seems interested, justa little timid. I know... I know... I really should date people with balls but he does most of the talking during the date, keeps me laughing, and knows how to have fun. I asked him to hang out with me after break, so when I get back on Sunday is when I should call I guess. We went out last week... Thursday I think it was. I waited three days though... I asked him to hang out again on Sunday before I left.

Lol at you assuming a straight guy would call himself "InimitableBallerina". :D

She's a girl.

Makes about as much sense as someone calling themselves "In Bloom"...

It doesn't matter for girls.

Depends on how good the date was, how much you want the person, and how much you're willing to break the 'unwritten rule' of waiting.
1day to a week.
This

I don't think it matters. If you want to see someone, see them.

Who the fuck cares? You ask the most retarded questions.

And Bro Code? You need to stop hanging around fratboy douchebags who still think they're in high school.


*ObZ

When I really like someone and they like me, we usually end up hanging out like everyday or every other day...