So I'm new here to totse.. Hello hello! So, now that we're through with introductions.. I can't orgasm. I'm not talking during intercourse or anything of that sort. I never have, period. I know that there are other women out there who can't, but I've yet to meet one. What I'm curious about is the women who have finally managed to orgasm after many years of frustration over not being able to. What do you think was really keeping you from climaxing? Would you identify with it being physical developement or a mental block of some sort?

just keep experimenting. I remember when I was younger i thought it was all about going inside and therefore didnt figure out how to make myself orgasm for a while. I also remember that when i DID have my first, i stopped as soon as it started because I didn't know what was going on but then after a while i started to know exactly what I like...

My point: Experiment, happy orgasming :D

I had a friend who was like that, she said that she got so worked up in the moment about getting off that she didn't get off. Heh. Thinking things like "will this be the time?". She tiold me that the first time she got off she was just sitting watching TV and started to rub. She started watching again half way through and because her mind wasn't worried about getting off she got off. I'm not sure if this is making sense but in short. Don't worry, keep playing around until you find what you like.

- ♫.i.b.y.v.n.t.h.♫
http://www.nocleanfeed.com/

this is going to sound ridiculous, but I hate touching myself. I find I get no pleasure from it at all and I don't find any appeal in it even in the slightest. WHAT THE HELL. Does anyone sympathize with this? Probably not..

That sounds like me a few years ago and i was like "WTF is all the fuss about?" but seriously, just keep trying.. what do u do atm? as in what have you been trying..?

That sounds like me a few years ago and i was like "WTF is all the fuss about?" but seriously, just keep trying.. what do u do atm? as in what have you been trying..?

I don't know, I've tried various methods like vibrating objects or rushing water, the typical stuff. I can't lie that I did enjoy that, but after a while it doesn't get me anywhere and my mind wanders, I just get bored and stop. But I mean manually I can't get ANY pleasure. I have not the slightest idea how to touch myself and I generally don't have the incentive either.

I don't know, I've tried various methods like vibrating objects or rushing water, the typical stuff. I can't lie that I did enjoy that, but after a while it doesn't get me anywhere and my mind wanders, I just get bored and stop. But I mean manually I can't get ANY pleasure. I have not the slightest idea how to touch myself and I generally don't have the incentive either.

start off just with your fingers; its just easiest and to tell you the truth i've never orgasmed using another object (including a penis) but i think that also comes from practise :p.
start VERY slow playing with ur clit, if something suddenly starts feeling good, keep doing that but also keep experimenting.. you WILL get it

the female orgasm...so fucking mysterious.

http://img210.imageshack.us/img210/8307/controllingat1.jpg (http://imageshack.us)

Luckily I'm pretty pro at this. You just gotta turn the big red knob all the way clockwise. Once you've got that set you have to hold the yellow button down while you press up, up, down, down, left, right, left, right on the purple d-pad. That usually activates teh cheats and makes you orgasm.

On a more serious note aren't you a girl and shouldn't you know where your key spots are? If you don't know how the hell is anyone else going to fucking know.

On a more serious note aren't you a girl and shouldn't you know where your key spots are? If you don't know how the hell is anyone else going to fucking know.

that's definitely not the issue. it's hard to describe it, but it's way more complicated than that
I would think that should be fairly obvious
I'm not asking girls to tell me how to masturbate. I'm asking girls about their personal struggle with not being able to orgasm as such is a common instance. Although it's not as if men really ever encounter this issue.

that's definitely not the issue. it's hard to describe it, but it's way more complicated than that
I would think that should be fairly obvious
I'm not asking girls to tell me how to masturbate. I'm asking girls about their personal struggle with not being able to orgasm as such is a common instance. Although it's not as if men really ever encounter this issue.

Quoted for sexual education.

that's definitely not the issue. it's hard to describe it, but it's way more complicated than that
I would think that should be fairly obvious
I'm not asking girls to tell me how to masturbate. I'm asking girls about their personal struggle with not being able to orgasm as such is a common instance. Although it's not as if men really ever encounter this issue.

You might be circumcised, in which case or only option would be tantric sex...

You might be circumcised, in which case or only option would be tantric sex...


Well first off, my brother isn't even circumcised.. they didn't have the heart to do that to him.
Also, isn't the standard of female circumcision not having a damn clit? Wouldn't I be like, "OH GUYS ALSO I DON'T HAVE A DAMN CLITORUS, DIDN'T REALISE THAT UP UNTIL NOW/DIDN'T THINK IT WAS RELEVANT"
Who the fuck in North America of all places could be circumcised and NOT know it? Who the fuck in North America could practice female circumcision totally unbeknownst to their child?

PLUS, you quoted me saying that I'm not asking for people to tell me how to have an orgasm, but for their personal struggle with not being able to have one.. and then you proceed to tell me my options to have one, and a totally ridiculous reason of why I can't.

Axiom, you are a WINNAR!!

I knew a girl who never had an orgasm in her life.

She killed her self. Apparently orgasms are pretty important.

Marilyn Monroe?

Edit: never mind, she apparently managed to have one according to google..

Well let's just assume that was correlational instead of causal because I can't imagine ever killing myself for not being able to orgasm

Well first off, my brother isn't even circumcised.. they didn't have the heart to do that to him.
Also, isn't the standard of female circumcision not having a damn clit? Wouldn't I be like, "OH GUYS ALSO I DON'T HAVE A DAMN CLITORUS, DIDN'T REALISE THAT UP UNTIL NOW/DIDN'T THINK IT WAS RELEVANT"
Who the fuck in North America of all places could be circumcised and NOT know it? Who the fuck in North America could practice female circumcision totally unbeknownst to their child?

PLUS, you quoted me saying that I'm not asking for people to tell me how to have an orgasm, but for their personal struggle with not being able to have one.. and then you proceed to tell me my options to have one, and a totally ridiculous reason of why I can't.

Axiom, you are a WINNAR!!

Want to hear my new theory? - you have trouble relaxing...

well first i just want to ask you about how often you have sex?
just to help get an idea of how i should answer this properly. for me, i mean the times i didn't get off were when he didn't push hard enough, and although i asked, sometimes it just wasn't enough. i guess for a quick suggestion, although you probably have already done this, is to get rough or a bigger size... also what about positions? are you pretty conservative with it or do get creative?

It's all in your mind. Women are all capable of orgasm. We all have a g-spot. You're not really circumscised, I take it. Even if you were you could still orgasm. You just need to be with the right partner. Someone you trust and feel fully relaxed with. And the orgasms will just follow.

Also, it really amazes me how orgasms can just creep up on you out of nowhere! When you're not expecting it and he says something sexy/dirty that turns you on. Good Luck.

Oh, and you have to post your first one!
;)

PLUS, you quoted me saying that I'm not asking for people to tell me how to have an orgasm, but for their personal struggle with not being able to have one.. and then you proceed to tell me my options to have one, and a totally ridiculous reason of why I can't.



...why don't you want to know how to have one? i would have thought learning how to pleasure yourself would be a hell of a lot more useful than getting a bunch of girls on S&A on totse who can't orgasm (good luck, we're all nymphos on here :)) to whinge about how they can't get off?? what is the POINT?

Want to hear my new theory? - you have trouble relaxing...

As previously stated, I am not asking for theories on why I can't/things to try/whatever, but rather other people's experiences with this issue. I know I wandered off into that topic because someone had asked me, and I did respond. So I can see how that could cause confusion. But my point still stands.

Ok let me give this a try. Do you have a man? If so get him to perform oral on you, have him stimulate you g-spot while licking your clitoris, but not the whole time. Have him mix it up with stuff like blowing and circling with his tounge. Also try a dildo and add in a vibrator, fuck yourself while holding the vibrator on your clit. Just thought I would add that but im a guy so what do i know.

Oh your not looking for things to try? My bad im sorry rule out what I posted.

...why don't you want to know how to have one? i would have thought learning how to pleasure yourself would be a hell of a lot more useful than getting a bunch of girls on S&A on totse who can't orgasm (good luck, we're all nymphos on here :)) to whinge about how they can't get off?? what is the POINT?

Okay, it looks like I just can't fucking win with this one, can I? First someone tells me that I am the only person who can understand why I can't and how to, and that asking other people is stupid. Then when I say that the whole point of this thread was not for that purpose but my curiosity of other women's experiences, someone else pops up to say WHY DON'T YOU WANT TO?

When have I ever implied that I don't want to?
Just because I haven't orgasmed doesn't mean that I don't enjoy sex :p I would describe myself as a bit of a nympho myself really. I just don't like masturbating. It doesn't appeal to me. Sex on the other hand is great and I enjoy it very frequently. :D

Maybe if you read my original thread post clearly and slowly we wouldn't have encountered this problem?

well first i just want to ask you about how often you have sex?
just to help get an idea of how i should answer this properly. for me, i mean the times i didn't get off were when he didn't push hard enough, and although i asked, sometimes it just wasn't enough. i guess for a quick suggestion, although you probably have already done this, is to get rough or a bigger size... also what about positions? are you pretty conservative with it or do get creative?
Oh we get creative :p
My sex life is excellent. I feel that I have a mental block, just for me to get that out in the open. I just don't really know how to overcome it. But I don't expect anyone to tell me some magical trick to make it happen. As stated in my original post, I'm curious guys

Aha, okay, I will be sure to notify the interwebz of my orgasm, and I will scream it from the rooftops! :D aha thanks

Okay, it looks like I just can't fucking win with this one, can I? First someone tells me that I am the only person who can understand why I can't and how to, and that asking other people is stupid. Then when I say that the whole point of this thread was not for that purpose but my curiosity of other women's experiences, someone else pops up to say WHY DON'T YOU WANT TO?

When have I ever implied that I don't want to?
Just because I haven't orgasmed doesn't mean that I don't enjoy sex :p I would describe myself as a bit of a nympho myself really. I just don't like masturbating. It doesn't appeal to me. Sex on the other hand is great and I enjoy it very frequently. :D

Maybe if you read my original thread post clearly and slowly we wouldn't have encountered this problem?

In a word.. no. i DIDNT ask why u don't want to orgasm, i was merely pointing out the irony of posting on S&A on a site like TOTSE where the vast majority of users are male (thus cutting out many people who would be able to contribute to this thread) and those rare-ish females that visit here are mostly up-front about their sexuality and the like and the sort of contribution you so desperately seek is most likely not to be found here. The general totsean public were trying to help you in the only way we could as none of us have been/are in your situation.

Ahh, it's cool man, no worries. I just didn't really like someone making the suggestion that my clitorus was absent..

Just for the record everybody.. I've tried it all.
It's not a physical thing.


Also I am kind of lame because now there are just multiple posts of me replying to multiple quotes because I'm too lazy to throw them all in to one.

In a word.. no. i DIDNT ask why u don't want to orgasm, i was merely pointing out the irony of posting on S&A on a site like TOTSE where the vast majority of users are male (thus cutting out many people who would be able to contribute to this thread) and those rare-ish females that visit here are mostly up-front about their sexuality and the like and the sort of contribution you so desperately seek is most likely not to be found here. The general totsean public were trying to help you in the only way we could as none of us have been/are in your situation.

AND I QUOTE:
"...why don't you want to know how to have one?"
*hits head into wall repeatedly*
Listen, again, my original post is asking women who HAD difficulty orgasming to tell me about their experiences with this issue, and I HAVE gotten contributions from women who can relate or stories of people who know people who have dealt with this situation, both are what I am looking for. It is ironic that you are telling me I will not get any contributions AFTER I have.

EDIT: The true irony is that you are one of the people who had replied with your experience, which was what I was looking for in the first place. And then telling me I will not get such a response.

Alright I can see how this thread kind of derailed, I responded to some questions that allowed it to take it into a different direction, and upon it being pointed out, it does make more sense in that context than to be asking the rare ladies such as myself. I just didn't really feel like I needed guidance on how to masturbate but rather how other women overcame what I feel is a mental block, and I did get a response that I wanted, so huzzah! From now on you can just take this thread into whatever direction you want. Go for it. I'd rather that then continually try to clarify myself..

AND I QUOTE:
"...why don't you want to know how to have one?"
*hits head into wall repeatedly*
Listen, again, my original post is asking women who HAD difficulty orgasming to tell me about their experiences with this issue, and I HAVE gotten contributions from women who can relate or stories of people who know people who have dealt with this situation, both are what I am looking for. It is ironic that you are telling me I will not get any contributions AFTER I have.

EDIT: The true irony is that you are one of the people who had replied with your experience, which was what I was looking for in the first place. And then telling me I will not get such a response.

Despite already replying to your apology over email which you sent rather than publicly proclaiming you were wrong which is such a steryotypical female thing to do, I had not yet read this post. Now I'm just pissed off.

Let me get something straight with you, sweetheart. I'm on S&A to give advice, share stories and join in flaming trolls and arrogant acolytes.

I said "why don't you want to know HOW to have one" not "why don't you want to have one" there is a (but slight) difference in that - some people want to have an orgasm but don't want to have sex/masturbate for various reasons. Not wanting to know HOW to do so doesn't make much sense to me but means you may want to stay in your situation and/or figure things out for yourself.

I contributed the most relevant experience I had with this sort of thing, and the reply I got was that "No-one's replying to my thread properly, whinge whinge fuckin' whinge." So I assumed that I had made an innocent mistake in misinterpreting your original request. So i pointed out a possible flaw in your plan - the audience was seemingly inappropriate for this if what I said was irrelevant. You then proceeded to basically call me an idiot.

so my advice to you, "New Arrival" for your survival on totse? PAY SOME FUCKING ATTENTION to who is trying to HELP, what innocent MISINTERPRETATION is and don't flame those who make the mistake of helping you. Actually, just get the fuck off my totse.

Despite already replying to your apology over email which you sent rather than publicly proclaiming you were wrong which is such a steryotypical female thing to do, I had not yet read this post. Now I'm just pissed off.

Let me get something straight with you, sweetheart. I'm on S&A to give advice, share stories and join in flaming trolls and arrogant acolytes.

I said "why don't you want to know HOW to have one" not "why don't you want to have one" there is a (but slight) difference in that - some people want to have an orgasm but don't want to have sex/masturbate for various reasons. Not wanting to know HOW to do so doesn't make much sense to me but means you may want to stay in your situation and/or figure things out for yourself.

I contributed the most relevant experience I had with this sort of thing, and the reply I got was that "No-one's replying to my thread properly, whinge whinge fuckin' whinge." So I assumed that I had made an innocent mistake in misinterpreting your original request. So i pointed out a possible flaw in your plan - the audience was seemingly inappropriate for this if what I said was irrelevant. You then proceeded to basically call me an idiot.

so my advice to you, "New Arrival" for your survival on totse? PAY SOME FUCKING ATTENTION to who is trying to HELP, what innocent MISINTERPRETATION is and don't flame those who make the mistake of helping you. Actually, just get the fuck off my totse.
Um. Look above you. I publically agreed with you.
I just said I am not looking to argue. So I'm not going to. I wrote you the apology when I realised that the person I was insulting was actually the person who originally replied to me, and I felt dumb. So I sent you an apology? Again, with my post telling people I wasn't trying to ask for people to tell me how to masturbate, because that's what he was summing up my thread as, you took it as me insulting you, which was not what I intended because I found your contribution at the beginning interesting and appreciated it.

First off, perhaps you should chilllllll. Smoke some weed or something, damn.

But I was in your position awhile ago. I tried it, and I never understood what was so great.

But if you make sure you're really wet, it makes it a lot easier. Lick your fingers, or use lube.

And explore. When you find your clit, and rubbing it kind of feels good, rub in fast, tiny circles, applying pressure.

Like someone said before, you probably won't know you had one the first time. I didn't either - I stopped and thought that I stopped before it happened.

Just keep trying. Set a block of time when you're alone, lie down, and for god's sake, relax.

BTW, sorry for offering advice, it's in my nature - don't yell at me, please.

Despite already replying to your apology over email which you sent rather than publicly proclaiming you were wrong which is such a steryotypical female thing to do, I had not yet read this post. Now I'm just pissed off.

Let me get something straight with you, sweetheart. I'm on S&A to give advice, share stories and join in flaming trolls and arrogant acolytes.

I said "why don't you want to know HOW to have one" not "why don't you want to have one" there is a (but slight) difference in that - some people want to have an orgasm but don't want to have sex/masturbate for various reasons. Not wanting to know HOW to do so doesn't make much sense to me but means you may want to stay in your situation and/or figure things out for yourself.

I contributed the most relevant experience I had with this sort of thing, and the reply I got was that "No-one's replying to my thread properly, whinge whinge fuckin' whinge." So I assumed that I had made an innocent mistake in misinterpreting your original request. So i pointed out a possible flaw in your plan - the audience was seemingly inappropriate for this if what I said was irrelevant. You then proceeded to basically call me an idiot.

so my advice to you, "New Arrival" for your survival on totse? PAY SOME FUCKING ATTENTION to who is trying to HELP, what innocent MISINTERPRETATION is and don't flame those who make the mistake of helping you. Actually, just get the fuck off my totse.

FUCKING YES.

Thank you, twulz.

YOU'RE ALL ASSHOLES! No but seriously, this just got a little out of hand. I think it's pretty funny that I come off as angry as I apparently do? I think things just got a little lost in translation. I did get angry with a few people who I felt like made some pretty ridiculous suggestions (i.e. no clit... classic) but seriously, it's not worth getting all worked up over.

FUCKING YES.

Thank you, twulz.

I don't think you read my post, post that post.

...post.

Listen, I stand by my apology despite your reaction as it was sincere and I just wanted to diffuse the situtation..
apparently my efforts did the opposite. If I must apologize twice, then fine. I don't see any problem with that. Let us all move on with life now.

I don't think you read my post, post that post.

...post.

Oh I read it. I just agreed with her because it seems as if you don't understand the ways of the forum. Regardless of what you say.

You asked a question. We, as Totse members, answered your question, and offered advice. The person saying you were circumsized probably thought you were a guy. Because...OH YEAH, 99% of Totse are dudes.

I'm just saying, don't bitch at people for trying to help. If you don't agree with them, fine. You can even say "hey, you're wrong". But being all sarcastic and bitchy isn't gonna help you. Especially at a mod. He (or she) has been here longer than you, sweetie.

So yeah, they are the "winnar".

You have potential - don't disappoint us.

I just read that.

Agreed.

Also, I find it funny how fast this thread died. It probably would have lasted longer.

Hope you finally orgasm.

Oh I read it. I just agreed with her because it seems as if you don't understand the ways of the forum. Regardless of what you say.

You asked a question. We, as Totse members, answered your question, and offered advice. The person saying you were circumsized probably thought you were a guy. Because...OH YEAH, 99% of Totse are dudes.

I'm just saying, don't bitch at people for trying to help. If you don't agree with them, fine. You can even say "hey, you're wrong". But being all sarcastic and bitchy isn't gonna help you. Especially at a mod. He (or she) has been here longer than you, sweetie.

So yeah, they are the "winnar".

You have potential - don't disappoint us.
...but I specified myself as a woman?

...but I specified myself as a woman?

Well, then they were probably being sarcastic, or funny.

That kind of humor is something you're gonna encounter a lot in the Temple. And people asking for tit pics.

Get used to it. Embrace it. Make mean jokes yourself, try it, it's fun.

Well, then they were probably being sarcastic, or funny.

That kind of humor is something you're gonna encounter a lot in the Temple. And people asking for tit pics.

Get used to it. Embrace it. Make mean jokes yourself, try it, it's fun.
But when I make mean jokes I get called sarcastic and bitchy.. :(

But when I make mean jokes I get called sarcastic and bitchy.. :(

It didn't seem as if you were joking.

You seemed angry.

Perhaps the difficulties of being sarcastic on the internet.

I apologize.

But anyway...

This thread ended a long time ago. I predict it will be locked soon.

my ex wasnt able to orgasm either. she didn't really have any idea why either. i can imagine how frustrated that is.
i love where this thread took a turn. pink smoke.. even if the guy thought she was a dude.. how would being circumcised make orgasming a challenge? a thread of not being able to orgasm would make you assume its a chick. she didn't ask for advice. you make absolutely no sense whatsoever. epic fail.

BTW, sorry for offering advice, it's in my nature - don't yell at me, please.
pretty sarcastic and bitchy for someone who says don't be sarcastic and bitchy.

Um. Look above you. I publically agreed with you.
I just said I am not looking to argue. So I'm not going to. I wrote you the apology when I realised that the person I was insulting was actually the person who originally replied to me, and I felt dumb. So I sent you an apology? Again, with my post telling people I wasn't trying to ask for people to tell me how to masturbate, because that's what he was summing up my thread as, you took it as me insulting you, which was not what I intended because I found your contribution at the beginning interesting and appreciated it.

Also, people generally aren't just going to 'drop it' if you ask them to. I'll drop it if you just let this be the last post on this subject. Full stop, period, etc.

I was just pissed off that you apologised in private - make a public mistake? make a public apology.

I want you to learn from this experience.

/superbitch mode

...but I specified myself as a woman?

Honey, I've been saying that for over a year - this is the first thread where someone's called me 'her'.

pretty sarcastic and bitchy for someone who says don't be sarcastic and bitchy.


I wish I knew how to close this.
Thanks I guess.

I wish I knew how to close this.
Thanks I guess.

no problem. your still kind of a bitch though. jk

Honey, I've been saying that for over a year - this is the first thread where someone's called me 'her'.
it was particularily important here.

it was particularily important here.

All the better that someone got it right :)

All the better that someone got it right :)
your still a bitch too.

your still a bitch too.


haha from the evidence in this thread? yeah.

look at any of my other posts in any other threads? ...no I'm actually quite tame because no-one's belittled me for helping them

haha from the evidence in this thread? yeah.

look at any of my other posts in any other threads? ...no I'm actually quite tame because no-one's belittled me for helping them
dude. this is a forum where being a troll isnt even a bannable offence. she apologized. how often do you run into that here? be humble and accept. your acting like a cunt.

dude. this is a forum where being a troll isnt even a bannable offence. she apologized. how often do you run into that here? be humble and accept. your acting like a cunt.

*Chuckles*

More proof why Jeff needs to close the fucking registration.

dude. this is a forum where being a troll isnt even a bannable offence. she apologized. how often do you run into that here? be humble and accept. your acting like a cunt.

seriously this is derailing so far off of topic it's ridiculous.
can someone close this please? I don't know how.. maybe the moderator I so rudely insulted? lol

dude. this is a forum where being a troll isnt even a bannable offence. she apologized. how often do you run into that here? be humble and accept. your acting like a cunt.

hey, I ended it with her, you wanna start? Yeah actually, apologising for misunderstanding is actually quite common - you may not have seen due to your 'new arrival' status but nobody hears about it because its quickly delt. Any offensive material stated after said apology is edited out to prevent further disputes. I don't have a problem with you. Learn the ropes here quietly without making a stir and we'll all be fine :) *tilts hat*

dude. this is a forum where being a troll isnt even a bannable offence. she apologized. how often do you run into that here? be humble and accept. your acting like a cunt.

Have you met In Bloom?

I foresee a great friendship.

Have you met In Bloom?

I foresee a great friendship.

haha yeah, call HIM a cunt and he might send you a pic of his mutilated dick with your name on it. Happy Xmas!

haha yeah, call HIM a cunt and he might send you a pic of his mutilated dick with your name on it. Happy Xmas!

Post a pic of your face. I'll print it out, gizz on it, then take a picture of that and send it back to you.

Post a pic of your face. I'll print it out, gizz on it, then take a picture of that and send it back to you.

That was quick, "jizz" is spelt with a "j" btw. and awww you're so sweet! You wanna think about ME when you're masturbating?

Wait CAN you masturbate? don't you have an epic scab preventing such an act?

For the love of god and all that is holy.
Close this.
Delete it.
Make the lunacy stop.

That was quick, "jizz" is spelt with a "j" btw. and awww you're so sweet! You wanna think about ME when you're masturbating?

Wait CAN you masturbate? don't you have an epic scab preventing such an act?

Nope I can still whack it. In fact I just finished whacking. I just can't retract my foreskin when I whack it. I also can't squeeze the head much either but I can still get off through shaft action.

And yeah you're right about the spelling of jizz... I should know that by now... I just woke up and I'm still a lil hazy.

And yeah you're right about the spelling of jizz... I should know that by now... I just woke up and I'm still a lil hazy.

Oh whats this new arrivals and acolytes? An apology for a minor mistake? on TOTSE!?

In Bloom, you may be a bit of an attention whore but you at least know how totse works. Thankyou for that :)

Oh whats this new arrivals and acolytes? An apology for a minor mistake? on TOTSE!?

In Bloom, you may be a bit of an attention whore but you at least know how totse works. Thankyou for that :)

Wow. The maturity.
It overwhelms me. I apologize and then you just continue to antagonize me.
Well, no longer will I waste my time with this, I suggest you do the same

Wow. The maturity.
It overwhelms me.
Well, no longer will I waste my time with this, I suggest you do the same

It's holidays, I'm watching TV and I'm a woman so I can multitask... I quite like educating the new totse members because it won't drag out the annoyance, I can get it all out of my system right now :)

Oh we get creative :p
My sex life is excellent. I feel that I have a mental block, just for me to get that out in the open. I just don't really know how to overcome it. But I don't expect anyone to tell me some magical trick to make it happen. As stated in my original post, I'm curious guys

Hey, you posted this as a question that can be answered many different ways, you have to expect that someone is going to give you some advice on how to get an orgasm. if anything soak it up. regardless if you asked about the 'magic trick' you are still going to get people giving you that answer that is just totse. but on the other hand all i can say is that it must basically suck that you can't get off.
how many partners have you had?
i guess you should just not be so concerned with it. hoping and hoping that it will come. just relax. i am sure it will come eventually. if i don't think about anything but the pleasure i get off everytime.

EDIT: i just read the entire post after i posted this. so i repeated some things. ah well. it can't hurt to hear them again. and a little extra advice doesn't hurt either. but i will have to say that i read your apologies as well...
just note that i came back and edited this. aight aight.

Get fisted. FTW!