Alright, a lot of you know about this russian chick....we were both really really in love and I guess she took it REALLY hard when I found out she was pregnant. I was devastated, destroyed man...and she said she fell to pieces, and 'will pick the pieces back up' etc etc. Well, I met up with her today...and she's engaged. I held it together well, congratulated her but I just can't let this happen. I was in love with this girl for 2 fucking years and never got with her. She VERY strongly doesn't believe in abortion, and once she's married she is the kinda of person that doesn't believe in divorce...she'll make it happen. I'm so fucking heartbroken I'm not thinking right right now at all, I don't know what the fuck to do. I know that she still REALLY really loves me, I'm almost positive more than the dude she's engaged to. How do I go about getting her to call off the marriage? I just can't let this happen, for my sanity.

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what a faggot

Shut the fuck up In Bloom.

Nobody fucking cares about you anymore. Just incase you weren't aware, we were laughing at you, not with you.

Well aware. So just to clarify are you a girl or guy, because you seem like you're a girl.

I only want to know for the sake of making sexual jokes at your expense.

Time to move on.

Doesn't sound like there's much you can do. Sounds like her confusing fucked up lifestyle is just bleeding into your own making you fucked up and confused.

I understand you love her and she does you, but how can that work if she's pregnant and is getting married. Just call it off for the sake of your own mental health and well being.

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what a faggot

no wonder people hates acolytes.faggots like you are always screwing up moments.

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I just fucked a toaster!

Fixed, dumbass

I've been in the position of loving a girl that was with someone else. Even though it hurts you have to forget about it. All feelings will go away with time. You may still think about it but they do away for the most part. Find someone new

Sounds like she's made her decision man. Maybe she has a sister?

Mate, try to look at this rationally (hard as FUCK to do when you're in love, sure).

Say you do get her to break off the engagement. What then? The girl's still pregnant with someone else's child. What then?

Was in love.

I don't see this having a happy ending unless you forget about her. Or fuck her and move on, maybe you'd feel better about the whole deal if you finally got with her.. Either way, move on.


-F☺rd

No, but her mom is better looking than she is . It was the way she told me...it brought tears to her eyes when she told me, then she looked away real quick. Bleh, it's not like I've really had feelings...I felt like everything was healed up until I heard she was engaged. I know she doesn't love this dude like she loves me, the whole situation is really twisted. This dude is a toothless fucking mechanic at that what the fuck . All while she was dating him she kept telling me I just want to be YOUR girlfriend...when I said we couldn't be friends anymore (when she got pregnant) she fell to her knees and begged me not to do it, saying 'I didn't do anything...' blah blah blah. FUCK, I KNOW that I can get her to call off any wedding plans, I'm almost positive at least, this wasn't that long ago that she was on her knees begging me. I think I'm extremely sadistic, and the whole thing was an experiment to put this girl through sheer hell by making her fall in love with me (hey, I didn't plan it that way, but once I knew she was I just decided to torture THE FUCK out of her by bringing other chicks around all the time and making awkward situations...hahahahaha), she still says she loves me after every conversation we have. I just know man, it was all basically to make her feel like shit at the time, but I was heartbroken when I was doing these things too. I'm not exactly the most same person alive; she understands that :p. But GODDAMN, this can't be happening. The ring wasn't even gold . Her fucking baby is due on my 21st birthday FFS, and when she found out she was due on my birthday she said 'awww we're having a little Clover (insert my real name there though).

Also, when I first met her I was a virgin. A few years ago, and it was just magical. I felt like anything was possible with her, but now sex has turned raunchy as fuck, there's no magic it's just pleasure fucking and that's it. I know I'll never feel the same with anyone else, and I don't believe she will either.

So, let's say I can't let this go and I MUST try and get her to at least call off the marriage for now. Tell him she's not ready, SOMETHING. I need her to give me a chance, I really do. At the same time, she might just think about all the hearbreak I've caused her, and despite how much she loves me will refuse to do something. I donno, all I know is that we were completely inseperable for years; she'd spend more time with me than her dude. I'm not at all afraid of a challenge, this is a huge challenge but I think I can pull it off. I was simply writing this to have it written it and maybe see what you all have to say about it, but I'm going to try and get her and the baby. I know I can take care of her better than anyone else; nobody knows her the way I do.

Mate, try to look at this rationally (hard as FUCK to do when you're in love, sure).

Say you do get her to break off the engagement. What then? The girl's still pregnant with someone else's child. What then?

Was in love.

I don't see this having a happy ending unless you forget about her. Or fuck her and move on, maybe you'd feel better about the whole deal if you finally got with her.. Either way, move on.


-F☺rd

Yeah, if I can't do it then I at least KNOW that it would be VERY VERY easy for me to fuck her. Then I could text her bf/(husband?) something like 'HEY I FUCKED UR BITCH U FAGGOT HAHAHAHAHA FUCK YOU! He tries to talk shit about me all the damn time so that she'll stay away from me because he knows if I get her drunk it's all over.

Man. I feel for you... Ouch .:(


So, she's staying with this guy; Because she's pregnant and doesn't believe in abortion?

Maybe she really loves you inside... But shes concerned for her child. Do you think you could look after it?
Marry her?

Do you love her that much.

No, but her mom is better looking than she is . It was the way she told me...it brought tears to her eyes when she told me, then she looked away real quick. Bleh, it's not like I've really had feelings...I felt like everything was healed up until I heard she was engaged. I know she doesn't love this dude like she loves me, the whole situation is really twisted. This dude is a toothless fucking mechanic at that what the fuck . All while she was dating him she kept telling me I just want to be YOUR girlfriend...when I said we couldn't be friends anymore (when she got pregnant) she fell to her knees and begged me not to do it, saying 'I didn't do anything...' blah blah blah. FUCK, I KNOW that I can get her to call off any wedding plans, I'm almost positive at least, this wasn't that long ago that she was on her knees begging me. I think I'm extremely sadistic, and the whole thing was an experiment to put this girl through sheer hell by making her fall in love with me (hey, I didn't plan it that way, but once I knew she was I just decided to torture THE FUCK out of her by bringing other chicks around all the time and making awkward situations...hahahahaha), she still says she loves me after every conversation we have. I just know man, it was all basically to make her feel like shit at the time, but I was heartbroken when I was doing these things too. I'm not exactly the most same person alive; she understands that :p. But GODDAMN, this can't be happening. The ring wasn't even gold . Her fucking baby is due on my 21st birthday FFS, and when she found out she was due on my birthday she said 'awww we're having a little Clover (insert my real name there though).

Also, when I first met her I was a virgin. A few years ago, and it was just magical. I felt like anything was possible with her, but now sex has turned raunchy as fuck, there's no magic it's just pleasure fucking and that's it. I know I'll never feel the same with anyone else, and I don't believe she will either.

So, let's say I can't let this go and I MUST try and get her to at least call off the marriage for now. Tell him she's not ready, SOMETHING. I need her to give me a chance, I really do. At the same time, she might just think about all the hearbreak I've caused her, and despite how much she loves me will refuse to do something. I donno, all I know is that we were completely inseperable for years; she'd spend more time with me than her dude. I'm not at all afraid of a challenge, this is a huge challenge but I think I can pull it off. I was simply writing this to have it written it and maybe see what you all have to say about it, but I'm going to try and get her and the baby. I know I can take care of her better than anyone else; nobody knows her the way I do.



Yeah, if I can't do it then I at least KNOW that it would be VERY VERY easy for me to fuck her. Then I could text her bf/(husband?) something like 'HEY I FUCKED UR BITCH U FAGGOT HAHAHAHAHA FUCK YOU! He tries to talk shit about me all the damn time so that she'll stay away from me because he knows if I get her drunk it's all over.

Cool. Go for it man. Hope it works out okay.

You should fight him to the death.

Lol. Yeah, man this kind of love doesn't come at all but once in a lifetime. I got emotional when she got pregnant and told her 'I'm not gonna be shit to your fucking kid! FUCK YOU!' That's what I think it is, she really think I very strongly will not touch her now that she's got a kid; I couldn't blame her, I told her that. But my feelings are so fucking strong I would die for her without a split second thought. I can't even describe how fucking in love/protective I am over her. There's no words to describe it.

Tell her everything because if you don't you'll regret it for the rest of your life. If she says she loves you more than the other dude, push her down the stairs. I'm not joking.

Lol. Yeah, man this kind of love doesn't come at all but once in a lifetime. I got emotional when she got pregnant and told her 'I'm not gonna be shit to your fucking kid! FUCK YOU!' That's what I think it is, she really think I very strongly will not touch her now that she's got a kid; I couldn't blame her, I told her that. But my feelings are so fucking strong I would die for her without a split second thought. I can't even describe how fucking in love/protective I am over her. There's no words to describe it.

You told her this recently?

ASSHOLE, nothing's changed. She is still pregnant with another man's child. You're just jealous now.

Break off the wedding, then what? You're back to when you were fucking other women to make her feel bad.

You don't love her. You love that she loves you.


Either man up, propose to her. Or let her marry her trashy mechanic and wish her the best. You've caused this girl enough fucking trouble.

Being heartbroken isn't an excuse to be a selfish prick.

-F☺rd

Yeah, if I can't do it then I at least KNOW that it would be VERY VERY easy for me to fuck her. Then I could text her bf/(husband?) something like 'HEY I FUCKED UR BITCH U FAGGOT HAHAHAHAHA FUCK YOU! He tries to talk shit about me all the damn time so that she'll stay away from me because he knows if I get her drunk it's all over.

This makes me inclined to agree with Ford. I really hope this is just you ranting to get some feelings off your chest, and not something you would ever consider doing to someone you cared about.

If you do think she needs to call it off and give you a chance, you need to speak your mind directly to her and then give her time to think about her decision. And only talk to her about it if you're willing to be serious with her. Going to the guy to break it off is probably a bad idea if you want to stay on good terms.

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Hey look, an attention whore.
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Seriously, pack up your stupid shit and take it to HB. They'll appreciate you more, and laugh all the more harder at you for your antics.

But more on point, that fucking sucks. If you're serious about this and not trolling, I can't even imagine how much that must hurt. But you can't let your pain own you. No matter how much it hurts you've got to keep going and eventually you'll be happy that you didn't let something like this destroy you. :)

You told her this recently?

I tell her about every day.

ASSHOLE, nothing's changed. She is still pregnant with another man's child. You're just jealous now.

Break off the wedding, then what? You're back to when you were fucking other women to make her feel bad.

You don't love her. You love that she loves you.


Either man up, propose to her. Or let her marry her trashy mechanic and wish her the best. You've caused this girl enough fucking trouble.

Being heartbroken isn't an excuse to be a selfish prick.

-F☺rd


Some of what you said is true possibly, but I know one thing: I've loved this girl with every ounce of my soul for years. I'm not trying to be a selfish prick, but fuck yeah I'll admit I'm very pissed off/jealous whatever. I just haven't had any real opportunities to really talk to her recently like I want, I've gotta go find her with whatever she's doing, and I've only got 1 day a week. If she comes over, it's for 5 minutes. And it's all because I told her I didn't want to be friends, told her to gtfo of my life etc etc. I just need her to come over when I've had a few drinks or something, loosened up because I haven't really opened up to her in a few months.

But more on point, that fucking sucks. If you're serious about this and not trolling, I can't even imagine how much that must hurt. But you can't let your pain own you. No matter how much it hurts you've got to keep going and eventually you'll be happy that you didn't let something like this destroy you. :)


I wish I was trolling :(

It won't 'destroy' me, I've dealt with severe hardcore mental pain all my life though :\.

I wish I was trolling :(

It won't 'destroy' me, I've dealt with severe hardcore mental pain all my life though :\.

Then get drunk and hang with your friends. Go bowling. Do random shit. Prank calls, vandalize, drag race your cars. Go to a party. If you keep your mind off the hurt, eventually you'll be able to distance yourself from it. And from there, you can own it.

Then get drunk and hang with your friends. Go bowling. Do random shit. Prank calls, vandalize, drag race your cars. Go to a party. If you keep your mind off the hurt, eventually you'll be able to distance yourself from it. And from there, you can own it.


I don't allow myself to have fun like that; I work on my projects ALL DAY EVERY DAY. Real men are loners anyway, all my friends are my business partners. I like what I do though, and to have fun I only really do drugs :(. I have a pretty goddamn good life though :D. It'd just be better with...her :(.

I don't allow myself to have fun like that; I work on my projects ALL DAY EVERY DAY. Real men are loners anyway, all my friends are my business partners. I like what I do though, and to have fun I only really do drugs :(. I have a pretty goddamn good life though :D.

Ha, fine then. Take out all your business friends for a night of heavy drinking, eating, cigar smoking etc. Write it off as "team-building."

It'd just be better with...her :(.

Try to lose that attitude. Get angry. If you're a loner, why the fuck would you need her? Just think like that.

If you spend a few weeks falling into a world of full fledged emotional pain, the moving on part should come somewhat easier afterwards.

Godspeed

I've been in pretty full fledged emotional pain for about a year; I just hide it well.

I've been in pretty full fledged emotional pain for about a year; I just hide it well.

Got some sand in your vagina?

You're usually a pretty cool guy and I think fairly highly of you from what I have seen you post on totse.

In my opinion, if you're actually in love with her, and I mean it, and not just in love with the fact that she loves you and will give you the attention you want from her, then I say go for it. If you really love her enough to make yourself look like a HUGE dumbass (and you will, rest assured) in front of her, possibly her boyfriend/husband, and quite possibly look and seem like a dumbass to her friends and family, then go for it.

You'll probably have more people talking shit to you for it afterward, but if you really love her then the least you need to do is let her know that you do love her.

Can you accept the fact that she is going to have another man's baby? If you can and plan to raise it, then I say go for it.

If you really love her, then you'll be prepared to spend the rest of your life with her, and her baby.

Well aware. So just to clarify are you a girl or guy, because you seem like you're a girl.

Oh come on.

Yeah, I'm not worried at all about A impressing a toothless mechanic, B I don't care to impress her friends (the little she now has because of her BF/husband), but I know her deepest and darkest secrets. If I spill to her I can rest assured that she wouldn't tell anyone. I know some pretty fucking crazy shit about her too, y'know. Not that I would ever spread anything but it's a mutual understanding that we don't say our business in front of others. I'm positive she's not gonna dump him now and come jump on my cock; I know this isn't going to happen. But, all I want is a chance to be close to her like I used to be; I know if this happens, my chances are really fucking great. I know we both care about each other to a level very few others do, and I'd be so heartbroken for so, sooooo fucking long if I never even get a chance to be with her. I'm completely fine with raising her upcoming baby daughter (she was given an exact date as to when she'd have the baby: my birthday, january 4th. She's due on my 21st birthday :D). We just share a bond that I never believed could exist. My life was so much better with her. Her last boyfriend before this one, whom she broke up with years ago still calls her CRYING; she seems to make dudes really fall in love with her, but I don't think she's ever felt the same about any other dude either. And I'm not just tooting my own horn, I mean she got on her knees and begged 'please don't do this to me' uncontrollably crying. But, there's always that chance she's only gonna think about that shit. I am pretty sadistic, and I always emotionally abused the girl to the point of crying ALL THE TIME. It was a game to me at one point, even though I felt the exact same way about her. Christ I'm one fucked up asshole. I don't deserve her; I hope she feels differently, but I don't know. I just don't know.

Heyyyy. Now that I shot some heroin and smoked a bowl (I dug up all my crack resin too :D), I really don't give a fuck! But I really gotta stop falling back on these drugs...they're not good to do when ur depressed anyways. I can control it perfectly fine when I'm not :o. Not so much when I'm depressed :o.

But I really gotta stop falling back on these drugs...they're not good to do when ur depressed anyways. I can control it perfectly fine when I'm not :o. Not so much when I'm depressed :o.

Sounds like someone needs to shoot some more heroin.

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what a faggot

Says the guy who posts his cock on TOTSE and asks for opinions...Nice going mate.

I say let her do her thing mate. She's engaged and you don't have to look after the kid. Be careful next time.

youll survive just hang in there

Well aware. So just to clarify are you a girl or guy, because you seem like you're a girl.

I only want to know for the sake of making sexual jokes at your expense.

Carefull dude, I heard Chichi's husband is some sort of proffesional fighter.

She said she would give me a chance to work things out. I'm so fucking happy I actually cried. MAN, I fucking knew she loved me :D. She told me she believes in us with everything she's got, she would always forgive me but I had to promise I'd never hurt her again. MAN...I just feel like I've got a new lease on life now. Corny, yeah but still.

Clover, you should just totally pull a me. :D

Wuts a 'you'?

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Well, I met up with her today...and she's engaged. I held it together well, congratulated her but I just can't let this happen. I was in love with this girl for 2 fucking years and never got with her.

Kill her, if you can't have her, no one can.