I have this really strange problem where I am seasonally active in pursuing the opposite sex. It's not a huge problem or anything but it does prevent me from hooking up with a girl from time to time. I'm the only person I know of who is like this but for some reason during Fall and Winter time I hardly talk to any girls and it seems like I distance myself from them whenever they become sexually attracted to me. This applies to everyone because I often spend most of my time in isolation during these seasons and I hardly ever socialize. But then I do a complete 180 during Spring and Summer times where I actively seek women and tend to hang out with a lot more people. The desire for sex is still strong during Winter but the drive to actually get any is in complete hybrination. But it feels more like an uncontrollable thing to purposely mess up relationships rather than a lack of drive. I mean even when I come across a girl who is practically throwing herself on me I act cold and neutral. Does anyone else get this or am I the only one who goes through this?

Anything else change during that time?


If not, maybe you have S.A.D.

Sun makes you happy.
Happy makes you confident.

Probably has something to do with mammals generally mating in the springtime.

Meh, it's nothing stranger than female menstrual cycles being in sync with the moon phases...

I'm the same way man. For the most part. All my breakups happen in the wintertime too. For example my last girlfriend I started dating in May and then here at the end of November its all over.

I notice this shit with a lot of my friends too.