Guys and gals, I need help.

See, I'm allright at talking to girls and can get the to laugh and have a good time but man, do I suck at closing. And by closing I mean going in for a kiss. I'm shit at it :D

Case in point. Last night, met a girl (thought she was graaaand) and we went back to mine. House was empty.

So we're sitting on the sofa (couch, whatever) and I'm just like.....ok.....right...um...soooo, what do I do now? And we just sat there for a bit. I couldn't think of anything else to say so I said I was nervous. After a minute or two I turned away and just told her to kiss my cheek, which she did, and I told here to do it again and then again and when she did the 3rd time I turned around and kissed her. I was fine after that, but it wasn't exactly smooth up to that.

I just need some advice, tips etc

tl;dr Need tips from how to go from talking to kissing

if you think she's interested, just say to her, "do you want to kiss me?" leaves it open ended for her, and you get your answer without making an arse out of yourself and going in for a kiss she might not be into.

"Let me whisper you a secret."

That will get you close to her face, but kissrape is up to you at that point.

Awwwe, that's really cute. It's refreshing when I guy comes along who isn't full of himself and thinks everything with a vagina wants to be ravished by his tongue.

Don't worry about it, you'll get better in time. Don't force the kiss along, it'll happen.

Hmmmm That's kind of a weird way to go about getting a kiss...

Asking a girl to kiss you on the cheek? More than once, ehhh... No.

Just do what one of the previous posters said: Ask, "Do you want to kiss me?" If you're ballzy, go in for the kiss before she can answer you. If not, just wait, and, unless she is a lesbian, she'll say yes. There ya go, problem solved.

Put your hand on her leg and say something to her, see how she reacts...if she doesn't get up and walk away or move her leg away or anything just go for it.

Just do what one of the previous posters said: Ask, "Do you want to kiss me?" If you're ballzy, go in for the kiss before she can answer you. If not, just wait, and, unless she is a lesbian, she'll say yes. There ya go, problem solved.

yeah.. and really.. except in a few very specific and rare occasions, if a girl you've just met has come back to your empty house with you alone, and you're sitting on the couch with no one around talking, i'd say you wouldn't have much to worry about.

Touching their leg while sitting is a good ice breaker. Just talk and when she laughs at something just give her thigh a little touch or grab, she'll get the idea. I like stroking hair, so i'll put my arm around them and run my fingers through. Ask them if they like it, she would if she let you get that far without pulling away. Now you can just grab her head and kiss her whenever you feel like.

There is no smooth or not, after it happens you'll just not worry about it.

This one time i went in for the kiss the standing up goodbye hug then kiss method. I kissed her fine the first time but went back for tongue and i guess she wasn't beat for it, she kept her mouth closed, so i went again figuring she would get the idea and she didn't again.

The rehearsed textbook kisses don't work so have fun with it, it should be.

i have no idea, usually it just happens, mind you, i've only had 3 relationships, one just failed, and this one... she told me to kiss her, so yeah. it works!.

Don't take it so seriously and you'll be fine.