Inspired by 2 other threads active right now, I was wondering:

Does your significant other know that you post on totse, especially in S&A?
If so, do they care?
Do they know your username?
Do they also post?

As for mine, fuck no. I've never told a girl I've gone out with that I'm on here, I imagine they'd break up with me if they found out. Aside from the general...creepiness/immaturity I guess of this site, I go here with lots of trouble and conflict that they probably don't know I have. Also, I reveal things about them they probably wouldn't want revealed.

In the past, I've thought about telling a girl I was going out with about it here, because it really just is a kinda cool place...but decided against it. A whole Pandora's box that would probably be better shut.

How about you?

Does your significant other know that you post on totse, especially in S&A?
If so, do they care?
Do they know your username?
Do they also post?

Yes, she does.
Kind of, I'll explain why.
Yes, she does.
No, she doesnt....or does she?

She lurked S&A when she found out I posted here. I met a girl on totse and became really good friends with her IRL. She hates this girl. When she lurked she got super cut because:

A. She saw I posted n00dz
B. She found out I named my dog Shiva, my friends totse username was shiva, she assumed I name it after her, and not the Hindu god of destruction.

Drama ensued. For the love of god, just don't tell any one about totse.

First rule of totse, you do not speak about totse.
Second rule of totse, you do not speak about totse.

You dont find totse, totse finds you

Fight Club quotes: ooooOOOoooOOooooo00000OOOOoooOOOOOo0ld.

Anyway, yeah, if I were ever going to tell a SO about totse, I'd tell them that I don't post much, and under some bs account, not my real one.

No, she would just think I'm even weirder for spending my free time on an internet forum :p.

Yeah, she knows.
She hates the site.
Never told her, but it's my username for everything so she could figure it out.
She does not post.

She doesn't care so much that i post, she just hates the site due to weird/racist people. I don't think she understands most people are serious. Posting has yet to have an effect on anything IRL.

Posting on totse is like having a mistress.

That's pretty fucking sad. :(

Fight Club quotes: ooooOOOoooOOooooo00000OOOOoooOOOOOo0ld.

Anyway, yeah, if I were ever going to tell a SO about totse, I'd tell them that I don't post much, and under some bs account, not my real one.

just because its old doesnt mean its not good

Fuck no. Sorry, but I post stuff here that I would rather have no one I know see. This site is great because you can post anything and it doesn't matter. You can get good advice without people knowing who you are, and that's worth alot actually.

Also, if a girl ever saw the shit I've posted...oh god.

Probably, we were friends for awhile before we got together, and she browses 4chan occasionally.

I've told her about the "internet message board that I post on".
And that's about it, If she asked what it was, I'd tell her. But I reslly doubt she cares either way. She knows who I am inside and out, why the fuck would/should she care?

Well...the idea is that she doesn't know who you are in and out, that there is some part of you that you hide, or at least in specific cases, you need 3rd party advice without her knowing...

He doesn't know that I post currently, and I will be keeping it that way. Totse is my safe place. I mentioned it once while extremely hammered but realized the crapfest that would ensue if he wandered on here and figured out who I was and just said I don't post anymore. I'm sure that getting excited every time demoiselle swans or Picasso comes up isn't a good idea though, but I don't think he's smart enough to make the connection anyway. Fuck, I'm such a nerd.

Well...the idea is that she doesn't know who you are in and out, that there is some part of you that you hide, or at least in specific cases, you need 3rd party advice without her knowing...

No, she doesn't. And I didn't really mean it like that, I meant more that she knows the type of person I am. She knows my humor and what I like to do. I'm sure she wouldn't put it past me to post on a message board. And I've never come to totse for advice, so your final statement doesn't really apply.

yes she knows and she likes to peek in every now and then and bust my ass for shit on the internet.

I hope not.

Yeah she does, I went into detail of it.

She doesn't have a computer but I'd imagine that she'd post because it is a pretty cool place. She also apparently likes the nerdiness of it I guess so whatever.

QFT. Telling my S.O. about totse would be gay. In fact, not a single one of my friends is aware of this site, or that I post on it.

And the part about totse finds you... also true. I found this site because back in high school I found a recipe for weed brownies outside somewhere... I followed the website on the piece of paper, and here I am today.

Does your significant other know that you post on totse?
Yeah.

especially in S&A?
We both love reading threads on totse.

If so, do they care?
Nope.

Do they know your username?
Yeah. he even knows my password.... we stalk each others posts.

Do they also post?
Yes.

Couples who know each other's passwords creep me the fuck out.

Absolutely not.

In order to get away some men golf, some women shop, and I post on totse. I get to talk about things I can't/won't talk about in real life, talk to people I would never otherwise be exposed to, and say stupid, stupid things. No way am I exposing that side of myself.

I didn't tell my ex, but she once googled my username that she knew from other place just for funsies. She found totse and the relationship was pretty much destroyed.

I stopped using totse for a while... Then got a new username and I hope she never finds out.

Couples who know each other's passwords creep me the fuck out.

For truth. It just ain't right. There is no good reason to have each other's passwords.

Yep, but thank god, she's always in the fuckin kitchen, like all women should fuckin be.

If I see her on my computer, bang fucking bang fuck, right?

right?

wrong. nice sentiment, but you kind of overcooked it.

No she doesn't know.









And she'll never find out either.

Hell no. Nobody, NOBODY knows I post on totse. I am completely opposite in real life than I am on here.


Absolutely not.

In order to get away some men golf, some women shop, and I post on totse. I get to talk about things I can't/won't talk about in real life, talk to people I would never otherwise be exposed to, and say stupid, stupid things. No way am I exposing that side of myself.

Silverfuck, I know you in real life.
And you know me. But I won't tell you who I am.

yes, my bf is the one who introduced me to &T few years back...he posts but only in movies and such ...

She know's that I go on "totse" she doesn't really know what totse is all about. she knows that its a forum with sub-sections for just about everything.

hell no. Nobody, nobody knows i post on totse. I am completely opposite in real life than i am on here.




Silverfuck, i know you in real life.
And you know me. But i won't tell you who i am.

*gasp*

Silverfuck, I know you in real life.
And you know me. But I won't tell you who I am.

Oh my god dramas!

Hell no. Nobody, NOBODY knows I post on totse. I am completely opposite in real life than I am on here.




Silverfuck, I know you in real life.
And you know me. But I won't tell you who I am.

Derr...you're not Jaimie are you? I bet you are.

Anyways, you should probably at least tell me if we are actually acquainted or if you're like...some weirdo who observes me from a distance.

^lol that would freak me out if I was a girl.

Same here, but he mostly posts in GPP. Then again, I don't really post in here much. More like read.

Fight Club quotes: ooooOOOoooOOooooo00000OOOOoooOOOOOo0ld.

i'm pretty sure fight club has a longer shelf live than nine years... especially seeing as people are still quoting the bible.

Nope.

For truth. It just ain't right. There is no good reason to have each other's passwords.

He was banned for a month so i let him use my account.

Ive never heard of totse until my boyfriend started sending me links to threads.

I used to look at the erotica section until I registered then I started browsing the community boards.

i think she said something about it once, and i told her not to worry about it. my ex called it toast.com, dumb slut. i'm not trying to hide anything, i just think totse is a waste of time and she probably wouldn't be all that into it.

Kinda. She knows I spend most of my time on the computer and when I'm with her I browse totse sometimes. She has no fucking clue what this website is about though. No doubt she's probably came here to lurk me, but she's not computer savvy at all; I doubt she'd even be able to locate the bbs.

Either way she doesn't know my username, that I know of.

Shes got no Idea this place exists!


And so it shall remain.

you are a...

TURTLE FUCKER

If I had one, I wouldn't tell her.

Yes. Actually, he is a member, too. As for caring about S&A, he doesn't really read it - he mainly sticks to BLTC and LT.

I actually started posting because of him. I had been on the site before, and read tons of threads, but I never made an account.

As for your SO snooping at what you posted, that's just lame. Even though we both post, we rarely go into detail regarding what each has said in a thread, only if something is noteworthy. And I'm pretty sure he doesn't read all of my posts, and I don't go and read his.

no she doesn't,

well mu user name is universal, so if she ever stumbled across totse, i think she would realize, i don't think she would mind, but i think she would be a bit weary that i spend time giving advice to others about sex and affection.

Both my ex and my current know about it.... it makes me really nervous.
I gotta stop letting this shit get out.

Nope, never will if I have any say in that. Unless she already knows and I don't know that she knows that I still don't know she's watching my posts...

On the flipside by reading this thread I got the funny idea of doing a search on her username for something else and I actually found something. Too bad it's just some stupid journal thing with no posts in it. Oh well, now I feel dirty. Fuck

Derr...you're not Jaimie are you? I bet you are.

Anyways, you should probably at least tell me if we are actually acquainted or if you're like...some weirdo who observes me from a distance.

No no no, I'm not Jaimie. And I'm not a creeper either.

He knows, but I don't post in S&A very much
He doesn't like totse at all, he doesn't understand the appeal of internet forums I don't think.
He knows my username indeedy

He doesn't have an account so he doesn't post, not that he would

No no no, I'm not Jaimie. And I'm not a creeper either.

Ok, come on...tell me.

So we can exchange witty banter in real life. Unless I don't like you, in which case I take that back.

Ok, come on...tell me.

So we can exchange witty banter in real life. Unless I don't like you, in which case I take that back.

How many people do you even know in real life? Don't take that the wrong way... but you do live in/near an indian reserve...

How many people do you even know in real life? Don't take that the wrong way... but you do live in/near an indian reserve...

I know lots of people. I don't go to school in my indian-ridden town. I just can't think of anyone who would post on totse.

I know lots of people. I don't go to school in my indian-ridden town. I just can't think of anyone who would post on totse.

Its probably not a close friend or else it would have come up sooner. Probably someone that goes to your school, and your kind of friends with, but you don't really talk to outside of school. Thats my 2 cents.

Ooh, this is fun! Whoever it is, please, please start stalking her.

My s. o. got me drunk one night and made me give him my username on totse.

But I deserved it for googling him- he's the OP of the first thread archived in this forum, and apparently been on totse since before you were born.

No no no, I'm not Jaimie. And I'm not a creeper either.

You're Bobby from history class, I bet.

Seriously, first rule about totse is don't talk about totse. You can totally tell me who you are so I can stop suspiciously eyeing everyone I know.

my s.o. makes sure to find everything i've ever posted online, totse included. She is now a member, though she tried pretty hard not to tell me her username.

You're Bobby from history class, I bet.

Seriously, first rule about totse is don't talk about totse. You can totally tell me who you are so I can stop suspiciously eyeing everyone I know.

He could just be messing with you.

He could just be messing with you.

Yeah, possibly. But that's not as much fun as trying to figure out who is secretly a weirdo.

Yeah, possibly. But that's not as much fun as trying to figure out who is secretly a weirdo.

Not to ruin your detective fun, but this should narrow it down a bit.

"I started on the football team last year and now in my senior year I run and throw for track. And we don't suck either."

http://www.totse.com/community/showthread.php?t=2175374

Hes also probably the only person in your town with 1337 in his credit card.
http://www.totse.com/community/showthread.php?t=2173975

Shouldn't be too hard to find him now.

Not to ruin your detective fun, but this should narrow it down a bit.

"I started on the football team last year and now in my senior year I run and throw for track. And we don't suck either."

http://www.totse.com/community/showthread.php?t=2175374

Yeah, I know. I already asked my friend on the football team who that might be, haha.

Yeah, I know. I already asked my friend on the football team who that might be, haha.

You could always just pull down any potential suspects pants ;)
http://www.totse.com/community/showpost.php?p=10721243&postcount=422

Hes also probably an idiot:
http://www.totse.com/community/showpost.php?p=10714746&postcount=13

And "his girl" Should look like the girl in the photo.
http://www.totse.com/community/showpost.php?p=10714666&postcount=32
http://img56.imageshack.us/my.php?image=n60040179710582426210ju1.jpg
http://img227.imageshack.us/my.php?image=n6004017979907975806tm2.jpg

He was on the football team, but now hes on the track team, and hes in his senior year.

Any of this painting a face in your mind?

Fuck no.

My boyfriend is a totsean so he knows all!

No, if she read any of my threads in BLTC, I'd be in shit :(

I should really have picked a better username for remaining anonymous.

I've told a few about it. It's probably an especially weird site to enjoy for a chick, but hey, I really don't care. If they're upset about it, too bad.

Does he ever feel emasculated because his woman is a mod while he's just a regular?