And I saw some videos that were supposed to be men caught cheating on their wives/girlfriends on a spy cam, and she'd run in and they'd start fighting. But most of the time they guy who start calling his wife names and insult her and call her ugly and stuff, sometimes the other lady would join in. Which I always thought was pretty mean, considering the timing. I know if I got caught cheating I'd at least try to suck up a little.

So the question is, if one gets caught cheating how should they begin to resolve the situation? Or at least, what woud be the best thing for him to do not to make it worse?

Take flight or fight. Literately.

A while back when I helped a girl cheat on her boyfriend, he started sending me abusive messages (to this day, still the most abusive, horrible things I've heard, he did well!), and I replied with messages of things his girlfriend tried for the first time with me, and gave him pointers, then lol'd at him. This, my friends, is immature.

In regards to the OP: Just talk calmly, but make it really known to the dude you're ready to open a can of homicide on his ass. Or...smash him with a lamp and do a nigger run down the street.

These days I'd use the best of my negotiating skills to try and defuse the situation as much as possible. I'd make sure he isn't going to hurt the girl, then I'd bugger off. Then again, if she had a boyfriend, didn't tell me about it, and put me in that situation, then I'd let him man handle her as much as he wanted. Slap the bitch, I don't care. Also if I did know she had a boyfriend, and he turned out to be an alright guy (usually girls will spin some bullshit "but I'm going to break up with him soon any way!" or "He's an emotionally abusive boyfriend") I'd get some buddies around (to make sure shit doesn't get out of hand), go meet him, and let him punch me a few times.

I believe in justice. Do what ever you want in life, just be ready to pay the consequences.

These days I'd use the best of my negotiating skills to try and defuse the situation as much as possible. I'd make sure he isn't going to hurt the girl, then I'd bugger off. Then again, if she had a boyfriend, didn't tell me about it, and put me in that situation, then I'd let him man handle her as much as he wanted. Slap the bitch, I don't care. Also if I did know she had a boyfriend, and he turned out to be an alright guy (usually girls will spin some bullshit "but I'm going to break up with him soon any way!" or "He's an emotionally abusive boyfriend") I'd get some buddies around (to make sure shit doesn't get out of hand), go meet him, and let him punch me a few times.

I believe in justice. Do what ever you want in life, just be ready to pay the consequences.

Thats some fairly stand up shit right there.

A while back when I helped a girl cheat on her boyfriend, he started sending me abusive messages (to this day, still the most abusive, horrible things I've heard, he did well!), and I replied with messages of things his girlfriend tried for the first time with me, and gave him pointers, then lol'd at him.

Please elaborate.

Bump.

Do what ever you want in life, just be ready to pay the consequences.


"Do what you want, and pay the bill" - my lifes motto.


basicly it CANT happen that i or my wife cheats - we have one rule, Tell before hand and then fuck away. i dont give a fuck if she's having sex with someone else with 2 conditions.

1) i know beforehand with whom/where.
2) he/she knows she's married beforehand.

as long as my wife keeps to these 2 rules i'm fine with anything. the same rules apply to me as well of course but considering i dont care much about other having sex with other woman it's a null point.


that said. if she did break either/both of these rules she knows damn well what will hapen.


her ass whiped for the rest of the known fucking time-line.

"Do what you want, and pay the bill" - my lifes motto.


basicly it CANT happen that i or my wife cheats - we have one rule, Tell before hand and then fuck away. i dont give a fuck if she's having sex with someone else with 2 conditions.

1) i know beforehand with whom/where.
2) he/she knows she's married beforehand.

as long as my wife keeps to these 2 rules i'm fine with anything. the same rules apply to me as well of course but considering i dont care much about other having sex with other woman it's a null point.


that said. if she did break either/both of these rules she knows damn well what will hapen.


her ass whiped for the rest of the known fucking time-line.
You must have a very small penis.