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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2008-11-22, 16:18
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Default Oh no, apparantley I'm a rapist.

Well this is awkward. This fuckbuddy of mine, whom when I went to college I let room with my sister, well she's been saying to people, including my sister that I raped her when we were together.
Now I know a woman can get the idea of being raped from alot of things, but I only had sex with her when she wanted to. I never forced myself on her, and the sex was always god.
Now she's got this conviction that I raped her, I don't know the details, but my sister has had to be defending me, and according to her, everyone is on my side.
Still, I'm quite perterbed by this.
any advice anyone can give, anyone ever been in this situation before, being blamed for rape?

anyways, im off to go hide in a hole now.
 #2 
Old 2008-11-22, 16:21
Arrow2brain Arrow2brain is offline
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Default Re: Oh no, apparantley I'm a rapist.

That sucks.

At least nobody believes her.
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Old 2008-11-22, 16:25
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Default Re: Oh no, apparantley I'm a rapist.

People are on your side, which probably means they know she is an attention whore and have probably heard it all from her before.

Ask her why she's telling people you're a rapist and go from there.
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Old 2008-11-22, 16:25
Pingy Pingy is offline
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Yea its happened to me.

When I was 16 and single I started seeing this chick J. We never officially dated but we hung out, mostly in groups. She was the one who always invited me, anyways...

One time we were a lone and she started getting hot with me. She was nibbling on my ear and playing with my fingers. I slowly progressed the situation to letting me in her pants. Long story short, she loved it at the time, but must have felt guilty because I never asked her out.

A couple weeks later I hear from a mutual friend that I raped her. Lets call this friend A. Luckily A stood up for me, and got most people to believe in the desperateness of J.

A was awesome. We were such good friends, but never quite made it to lovers. Mostly her fault because she was so indecisive and immature. Last time I heard about her, she was pregnant at 17, ahh just like her momma....
 #5 
Old 2008-11-22, 16:32
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Default Re: Oh no, apparantley I'm a rapist.

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Originally Posted by psycho_8b
People are on your side, which probably means they know she is an attention whore and have probably heard it all from her before.

Ask her why she's telling people you're a rapist and go from there.


Can't talk to her, this girl is messed up.
She has these random freakouts, and I know if I were to call looking for her, she'd either have one, or refuse to talk to me.
 #6 
Old 2008-11-22, 16:49
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Default Re: Oh no, apparantley I'm a rapist.

Just let it go. Sounds like in a week she'll be accusing another guy of rape or pretending she's pregnant or something.
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Old 2008-11-22, 16:56
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Default Re: Oh no, apparantley I'm a rapist.

You should rape her now, you know...out of principal.
 #8 
Old 2008-11-22, 18:22
dark-easterbunny dark-easterbunny is offline
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Default Re: Oh no, apparantley I'm a rapist.

I've been accused of rape by an ex once

Teenage girls just get strange ideas in their head normally

If more people knew you back then and know it was happening i wouldn't worry too much

And tell the girl to get help
 #9 
Old 2008-11-22, 18:28
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Default Re: Oh no, apparantley I'm a rapist.

the sex was always god.




i lol'ed.


Anyway, Op there is nothing much you do except for riding the wave out.

Good Luck.
 #10 
Old 2008-11-22, 18:45
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Default Re: Oh no, apparantley I'm a rapist.

the sex was always god.

"If you're that fucking arrogant... you might be a rapist"
</foxworthy voice>

On a more serious note... that... fucking sucks, dude. I'm lucky, everyone who's called me a rapist was someone on the internet I've never met in real life. Best of luck.
 #11 
Old 2008-11-22, 19:13
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Default Re: Oh no, apparantley I'm a rapist.

You should rape her now, you know...out of principle.

This.
 #12 
Old 2008-11-22, 20:58
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Take her ass to court and sue her for slander.
 #13 
Old 2008-11-22, 20:58
Tinted Glass Tinted Glass is offline
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Default Re: Oh no, apparantley I'm a rapist.

This.

Fuck...

Even I agree.
 #14 
Old 2008-11-22, 21:28
evilman evilman is offline
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On a more serious note... that... fucking sucks, dude. I'm lucky, everyone who's called me a rapist was someone on the internet I've never met in real life. Best of luck.

quoted for sheer awesomeness
 #15 
Old 2008-11-22, 21:33
aliveupguy aliveupguy is offline
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Default Re: Oh no, apparantley I'm a rapist.

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Originally Posted by arquin
You should rape her now, you know...out of principal.


Hahaha, oh god, that would be funny. +1.
 #16 
Old 2008-11-22, 21:55
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fucking bitches need to wisen up.

every time some stupid bitch makes this shit up it makes it harder for a woman who ACTUALLY got raped to achieve justice.

this isnt some shit you can just invent because of your insecurities; its fucking immoral and IMO should carry some kind of penalty. (no pun intended)
 #17 
Old 2008-11-22, 22:54
bigteddy13 bigteddy13 is offline
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Ya dude shit sucks. Literally happened to me a few weeks ago. Fucked up a lot of shit for me but all my friends know its bullshit.

There's not much you can do really. Just deal with and and move on with your life.

Oh, and don't talk to that wench again. Bad idea bro
 #18 
Old 2008-11-22, 23:00
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Default Re: Oh no, apparantley I'm a rapist.

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Originally Posted by arquin
You should rape her now, you know...out of principal.


and when she goes crying that this time she was actually raped nobody will believe her.
 #19 
Old 2008-11-22, 23:29
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Default Re: Oh no, apparantley I'm a rapist.

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Originally Posted by killallthewhiteman
fucking bitches need to wisen up.

every time some stupid bitch makes this shit up it makes it harder for a woman who ACTUALLY got raped to achieve justice.

this isnt some shit you can just invent because of your insecurities; its fucking immoral and IMO should carry some kind of penalty. (no pun intended)


Further it discourages other women from even reporting rapes in the first place.
 #20 
Old 2008-11-22, 23:53
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Teenage attention whore.
Default Re: Oh no, apparantley I'm a rapist.

and the sex was always god.

Confused
 #21 
Old 2008-11-23, 00:51
Sick_Boy Sick_Boy is offline
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Default Re: Oh no, apparantley I'm a rapist.

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Originally Posted by arquin
You should rape her now, you know...out of principal.


Ha!

Wow, that sucks man. I guess all you can do it just let it blow over. Have you tried talking to her?
 #22 
Old 2008-11-23, 01:14
dingdongduy dingdongduy is offline
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Default Re: Oh no, apparantley I'm a rapist.

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Originally Posted by arquin
You should rape her now, you know...out of principal.


Might as well do the crime you're accused of.
 #23 
Old 2008-11-23, 01:34
MeTaL1364 MeTaL1364 is offline
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Default Re: Oh no, apparantley I'm a rapist.

punch her in the top of the head so she doesn't bruise
 #24 
Old 2008-11-23, 04:15
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Default Re: Oh no, apparantley I'm a rapist.

A mother sings a lullaby to a child
Sometime in the future the boy goes wild
And all his nerves are feeling some kind of energy

A walk in the woods and I will try
Something under the trees that made you cry
It's so erotic when your make up runs

I got wiring loose inside my head
I got books that I never ever read
I got secrets in my garden shed
I got a scar where all my urges bled
I got people underneath my bed
I got a place where all my dreams are dead
Swim with me into your blackest eyes

A few minutes with me inside my van
Should be so beautiful if we can
I'm feeling something taking over me
 #25 
Old 2008-11-23, 04:17
The Great Flood of 2008 The Great Flood of 2008 is offline
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Default Re: Oh no, apparantley I'm a rapist.

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Originally Posted by arquin
You should rape her now, you know...out of principal.


It's only fair.
 #26 
Old 2008-11-23, 04:20
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Default Re: Oh no, apparantley I'm a rapist.

It's only fair.

Yeah, I mean he's already taking the blame for it.
 #27 
Old 2008-11-23, 08:22
bigteddy13 bigteddy13 is offline
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Default Re: Oh no, apparantley I'm a rapist.

and when she goes crying that this time she was actually raped nobody will believe her.

I like this...
 #28 
Old 2008-11-23, 11:59
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Default Re: Oh no, apparantley I'm a rapist.

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Originally Posted by arquin
You should rape her now, you know...out of principal.


http://a.bebo.com/app-image/6899476197/5411656627/PROFILE/i.yaquiz.com/img/q/u/08/03/25/ac0449f1754d5bef258d11b59677877c.jpg
 #29 
Old 2008-11-23, 21:29
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Default Re: Oh no, apparantley I'm a rapist.

someone ive never even met said i raped her... (someone asked if she knew me and that was her response)


some girls are fucked up
 #30 
Old 2008-11-23, 21:38
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Default Re: Oh no, apparantley I'm a rapist.

Yea ive been accused of rape before, when i was 16, was friends with benefits with this girl for about 4 months, never even had sex, somehow though, i still raped her apparently. Funny thing is, i only found out she was saying i raped her a good 3 years after we stopped being friends, so i never even had the chance to defend myself when she was making the accusations lol.
 #31 
Old 2008-11-23, 21:41
The Great Flood of 2008 The Great Flood of 2008 is offline
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Now that I think about it this one time I got this freshman really stoned and made out with her all night. I tried putting my hang down her pants like a million times but she wouldn't let me. Then the next morning She told some of her friends that she didn't remember what happened and I might have raped her. Luckily there was another guy in the room so he talked to her and cleared it up.
 #32 
Old 2008-11-23, 21:43
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Bitches are bipolar.

Be careful who you associate with in the future...
 
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