I just realised something.

I'm overly sensitive. I'm like so far from manly it's ridiculous. When I'm with my girlfriend, I'm not really into having sex or even making out (I like it, but it's not great).

What I like doing is hugging her and...*Cringe*...Telling her I love her and how she's...*Cringe*...Beautiful. :(

My attraction to guys, however, is much more...*Cringe*...Sexual.

Does this mean I'm not just bisexual, but just a full-on faggot?

I hate to say it honey but it sounds like you might be just gay. The fact that you want your girlfriend for companionship and not sex is a big red flag. Does she know you're attracted to men?

Fucking yes, you are a fag, now stop making pointless threads.

Doesn't it just kill it, when the first reply is like that:p
Fuck, second.
Dude get some counseling.

bisexual doesn't exist. You're just indecisive. Pick one and stick with it. Fag

It's not that I want her for companionship, I really do like her "that" way. Only thing is, I'm not really into the physical side. With guys it's sexual, but I don't feel the same about them emotionally.

God I'm so fucking confused. :(

Aren't you a chick?

Aren't you a chick?

I wish people would stop asking that :(

It's not that I want her for companionship, I really do like her "that" way. Only thing is, I'm not really into the physical side. With guys it's sexual, but I don't feel the same about them emotionally.

God I'm so fucking confused. :(

Men are with women because of a 'natural' sexual attraction. That's just how we're all built. It's all 'breed and continue the species'. It's hard to believe that you're into her 'that' way because you have no interest in being physical with her. I don't doubt you love her or anything. But the fact that you're more sexually attracted to men should tell you smething.

I just want to make it clear so we all know; if I'm gay, I'm fine with it. I'm not trying to fight it or deny it. I just don't know.

I don't like the idea of being with anyone but my girlfriend. Is it possible that I'm just a feminine little bitch?

Men are with women because of a 'natural' sexual attraction. That's just how we're all built. It's all 'breed and continue the species'. It's hard to believe that you're into her 'that' way because you have no interest in being physical with her. I don't doubt you love her or anything. But the fact that you're more sexually attracted to men should tell you smething.

yeah, go breed with men...

yeah, go breed with men...

Didn't you try to tell me that the reason I feel sexually attracted to guys was that because I was raped as a child and just don't remember?

You're a fucking idiot. gtfo mah thread.

youre going through a phase of faggotry, tell your dad. he's probably been through it as well

I will take care of your girlfriend.

I wish people would stop asking that :(

I thought you were a woman too, no offense meant.

Based on the replies, it's not looking good for my girlfriend.

What interests me is if she knows about your other attraction. And if so, how does she take it?

What interests me is if she knows about your other attraction. And if so, how does she take it?

I once joked that I was gay, and she told me she "didn't want a gay boyfriend."

I told her I was bisexual and she thought I was kidding, so I kind of left it at that.

Awkward...

I know.

I'm gonna go out on a limb here and say you are probably straight but a little "freaky"

Have you had straight sex or are you a virgin? Sorry if this has been mentioned, I don't know.

The fact that you DONT see any emotional connection happening with guys makes me think you are NOT gay. Gay men have relationships with other gay men, not just sex. They establish loving monogamous relationships with each other and care for each other the way you care about your girlfriend.

I think you sound straight up bisexual. I dated a guy once that was bi-curious, which is what you sound like to me. He was grossed out at the thought of kissing a man or making out with a man but was interested or somewhat curious about purely kinky sexual contact with a man.

I think you are just young and curious and normal. Don't freak out and change your whole life and feel like you have to label yourself something because of some silly thoughts you are having that seem completely NORMAL to me.

I've had straight sex, but not gay sex.

I'm pretty sure I'm not straight. I've never felt exclusively straight, and I mean never. The only question here is if I'm gay or bisexual.

Also, your friend is probably just retarded. If a guy kissed me I'd probably melt :o

oh shi-

I wish people would stop asking that :(

I lol'd

And chichi, chin up man. You're 15, you're fucking confused. Your body is pumping out the most hormones it ever will. Things will become clearer with time. Here's what you need to do: Get your self some open minded buddies and get this question out of your mind once and for all. If you like being with a dude physically, good on you. If no, oh well, better to find out while you're young and the social consequences are minor. If you like girls AND guys (confirmed), you've got the best of both worlds.

But for now, stop worrying about your sexuality and let it take it's course naturally. It's like people who 'think' they might be ADD, then what do you know! They start exhibiting signs of ADD! Just chill and go with the flow.


Would you rather have these wrapped around you: http://tinyurl.com/5rnsbt

Or would you rather wrap your self around: http://tinyurl.com/65rj5t

Before labeling your self gay/bi, think of all the grizzly intimate details of sweaty man sex. I once thought I was bi, then I got it on with a dude and it cleared the air for ever.

Would you rather have these wrapped around you: http://tinyurl.com/5rnsbt

Or would you rather wrap your self around: http://tinyurl.com/65rj5t

If he fucking shaved, I'd say 50/50.

If he fucking shaved, I'd say 50/50.

It took me ages of homo-searching to find a picture that was specifically hairy :) Just to make my point.

Men are associated with roughness and hairiness, and women with smoothness.

Maybe you are a homo. Haha...you homo! Who's a lil' homo? CHICHI IS!

^^^ What about that body with those legs? That just reeks sexy.

...Ugh...Damn it.

60/40

Guy>Girl :(

Do you think maybe because you are so confused about your sexuality you're purposefully straying to one side so you can be labelled something? It's seems the longer this thread goes on the more you lean towards being gay.

Do you think maybe because you are so confused about your sexuality you're purposefully straying to one side so you can be labelled something? It's seems the longer this thread goes on the more you lean towards being gay.

Explain...

Explain...

"Am I gay?" = more confusion than...

"I'm gay"

Maybe your little homo head wants to end the confusion?

Explain...

Well you want to know how you are orientated. That's what this thread is about.

You start off by saying you care for your girlfriend, can't imagine being without her.

Then you start to say things about men, how they'd make you melt if they kissed you.

Then you rate the pics 50/50, then edit to 60/40, guys being greater attraction then females.

What I'm wondering is, are you finding ways to justify you being gay, just so you can say you're gay and stop being confused?

Fuuuck.

First she tells me I'm gay, so I say okay...Maybe I am...And now she says I'm just trying to be gay for the sake of ending the confusion?

Someone fucking shoot me.

I said from the facts you were stating I believed you are gay. But then you defended yourself saying you like your gf. And you turn around again and say you like men. I'm fuckin confused now, no wonder you need help honey.

Ugh. Like a fifteen year old can fucking know anything anyway.

I guess it looks like, now at least, that I'm bisexual. I mean, I know for sure that I feel attraction to both sexes. I think I can just go with that for a while.

Also, how come my threads get so many replies so fast?

Someone fucking shoot me.

more like...

Someone fucking shoot a load on me.

right...homo? :)

Dude....your sexuality (last time I checked it was a pretty major aspect of one's life) wont just pop out at you over a web forum.

Real life experience is your best answer.

Okay.

Until I fuck a guy, CHICHI IS A HETEROSEXUAL.

Find out for sure what you really are if it tears you up that much.
Either be gay or straight, it'll make things easier.

Hell maybe just seek out a personal add and try it out, if you prefer it then you're gay and you atleast know then.

You're probs with the wrong girl, find one that looks more manly.

EDIT: Yeah, basically what arquin said.

you're bi dude, just chill out

i have like a 66.6%/33.3% female to male attraction ratio... maybe you're the opposite of me

This makes sense.

I don't have to be exactly 50/50 to be bisexual, just like both sexes, which I do.

Right?

This makes sense.

I don't have to be exactly 50/50 to be bisexual, just like both sexes, which I do.

Right?

Pretty much .. why not just be pansexual? ie disregard for gender and liking who you like ? :)
Must be cool being bi .. then you can enjoy all porn ;)

The ability to reach down anybody's pants and be satisfied with whatever you may find.

:o

What about your moms? ;):D

What about your moms? ;):D

ew.

Um...I suppose I better tell my girlfriend.

How should I do this?

i think you should explore your options......
dump the girl if it is making you cringe...
and be with a fella for a little bit...

got to try out every avenue riiiioooogggghhhht...!!

im all about it.

tell her you need to figure yourself out sexually and that it is time you take a break or something.

tell her you need to figure yourself out sexually and that it is time you take a break or something.

Why the fuck do I have to take a break?

Actually, get the fuck out.

You don't know shit.

Why the fuck do I have to take a break?

irono...
well im not so sure she is going to be accepting of you testing the waters with a guy....while she sits on the side waiting for you to decide.

dude...whatever.

Don't be so hasty to jump to the conclusion that you're either gay or bi, you may not be either. It could be that in your confused/scared/worried state, you're so convinced that you aren't Heterosexual, that you want an explanation for your attraction to males.

Give it a few days, stop worrying about it. Then, if you're convinced that you're either gay or bi, you should tell your girlfriend. If you tell her now, and ruin things, then later on realize that it was a mistake, it'll be too late.

Dude, it's not like I just woke up this morning and decided I was gay. I've known I was attracted to guys for a very long time. I was just wondering if it's exclusively guys or not. So yeah, I know I like guys. I know that. But I also like girls, maybe not as much, but I do like girls. So the only conclusion I can really come to at this point in time is that I'm bisexual. It's that or I'm gay, and I'm about 95% sure I'm not now.

So how to I tell her without freaking her out?

Dude, it's not like I just woke up this morning and decided I was gay. I've known I was attracted to guys for a very long time. I was just wondering if it's exclusively guys or not. So yeah, I know I like guys. I know that. But I also like girls, maybe not as much, but I do like girls. So the only conclusion I can really come to at this point in time is that I'm bisexual. It's that or I'm gay, and I'm about 95% sure I'm not now.

So how to I tell her without freaking her out?

Well, I guess if you're convinced.

Just sit her down, and say what you need to. It'll be the same reaction any way you do it.

(Unless she sees you making out with a guy, then you shout "Surprise! Im Bi!")

Come on now, you know I can't make these decisions without S&A. What should I say?

I'm thinking of, initially, jokingly asking her if she would love me if I was bi or something...But that sounds too obvious.

I have to tell her somehow, this isn't exactly something you can just hide from your girlfriend. I just don't want her to be scared by it...:(

Just tell her that your feelings for her haven't changed, and that you feel that as your girlfriend, she is entitled to know these things which is why you told her.

actually, he's right. you're in a fucking rush, you made the thread a couple of hours ago and you're already talking about breaking up with your girlfriend and coming out to her. tell her you need a break from relationships and just fly solo for a while...kick back, watch some porn or whatever, see what you like.

actually, he's right. you're in a fucking rush, you made the thread a couple of hours ago and you're already talking about breaking up with your girlfriend and coming out to her.

What the FUCK? I said he didn't know shit because he said me and her should take a break. I like this girl. I'm not fucking gay, okay? I want to be with her. I don't have to break up with my girlfriend when I tell her I like vagina AND penis. Did you break up with your girlfriend when you admitted to her that you secretly enjoy listening to The Village People? No.

What the fuck is wrong with you?

actually, he's right. you're in a fucking rush, you made the thread a couple of hours ago and you're already talking about breaking up with your girlfriend and coming out to her. tell her you need a break from relationships and just fly solo for a while...kick back, watch some porn or whatever, see what you like.

I don't think he ever mentioned breaking up with her, only telling him of his feelings. Don't tell her you need a break or anything, just tell her you love her and want to be with her, but you're bi. Just be straight with her in a semi-serious manner, don't joke about it or once she realizes you're serious it will be awkward.

Seriously speaking you don't have to tell her anything yet. If you aren't sure about yourself then don't bring other (real life) people into this until you've had more time to figure shit out.

Also, as long as you'd rather be with her alone as opposed to her and a guy or a guy alone then you can leave it at a functional relationship that you don't have to fuck up.

double post....fuck

people like you waste my time. Sit/lay down and just think shit over and stop making gay threads.

Yeah I'm not real big on lying in relationships.

Yeah I'm not real big on lying in relationships.

I don't mean lying. I mean you don't have to bring it up until you've worked it out.

I'm overly sensitive. I'm like so far from manly it's ridiculous. When I'm with my girlfriend... What I like doing is hugging her and...*Cringe*...Telling her I love her and how she's...*Cringe*...Beautiful. :(

:D I love you, man...

Does this mean I'm not just bisexual, but just a full-on faggot?



Honestly, I'd imagine this would make you (generally speaking) slightly more-heterosexual-than-midline.

Human sexuality, contrary to what the severely erotophobic like to claim, tends to be excessively multidimensional in character, and revolves as much around social lubrication and social ties, as well as love and affection, as it does around squirting juices all over the place. For an excellent case study, look at the social structure of some of our closest relatives - the bonobo.

Theoretically, there could exist the case where a person was entirely heteroaffectional-asexual while having a strong homosexual... well, sexual component, one couldn't even call it an "erotic component," as that is more complex and complete... while actually matching a kinsey 1.

However, assuming you're perfectly comfortable sticking it in your girlfriend's pooper between sappy-sweet cuddlefests... I'd say that (despite the paradoxical ramblings of homophobes that heteroaffectionality makes one a "fag"), I'd say that this would actually successfully make you a lot more-hetero-than-midline in your sexual tendancies and orientation.

As a completely unrelated note...

stop making gay threads.

Yup. I lol'd.

I don't mean lying. I mean you don't have to bring it up until you've worked it out.

I have worked it out. I was just freaked this morning because I realised my sexual attraction was more closer to gay than straight. I've worked it out. I like both, so I'm bi-fucking-sexual.

The "dont ask, don't tell" approach is just as bad as lying to her.

Ahhh! JoePedo replied! Yayz!

Thread is complete.

people like you waste my time. Sit/lay down and just think shit over and stop making gay threads.

Nobody forced you to click the thread, and I think if I could figure this out by myself I wouldn't be asking for different perspectives...Which is what this fucking forum is for.

Nobody forced you to click the thread, and I think if I could figure this out by myself I wouldn't be asking for different perspectives...Which is what this fucking forum is for.

Yes, and that was my opinion on the matter. As useful as I know this kind of forum is I'm still led to believe that people are relying less on themselves to solve problems and more on other people.

I know some people have thought to themselves "Self, what am I going to do about [random problem here]?" "I think I'll just post it on totse". They go to sleep, wake up in the morning and buried through the troll and flame posts someone posted a logical answer to said random problem.

That, as opposed to lying awake for hours thinking about the situation and laying out possible options or just thinking to yourself.

Don't get me wrong though, this forum has taught me things as well. I may be an acolyte but I've been here longer than most think.

Yes, and that was my opinion on the matter. As useful as I know this kind of forum is I'm still led to believe that people are relying less on themselves to solve problems and more on other people.

I know some people have thought to themselves "Self, what am I going to do about [random problem here]?" "I think I'll just post it on totse". They go to sleep, wake up in the morning and buried through the troll and flame posts someone posted a logical answer to said random problem.

That, as opposed to lying awake for hours thinking about the situation and laying out possible options or just thinking to yourself.

Don't get me wrong though, this forum has taught me things as well. I may be an acolyte but I've been here longer than most think.

Okay, so your opinion is that people should rely more on themselves than others when they have these kind of problems. That's okay with me, just don't tell me to stop making threads here, because I'm more than entitled to.

Okay, so your opinion is that people should rely more on themselves than others when they have these kind of problems. That's okay with me, just don't tell me to stop making threads here, because I'm more than entitled to.

Now Chichi, you're right, you do have the right to make threads, but you make them way too often.

I know, I know, you cant really converse with anybody in real life on this subject, but come on... this is the only forum I visit ( and BLTC sometimes) and I see you way too often. When a select group of people make thread over and over, it kills the idea of TOTSE and makes it look like "cringe" a high school. Do you like high school Chichi, with all the popular kids and mean bullies? Now I never liked high school...I guess what I am trying to say is stop making a high school out of TOTSE. And this is to all you fucks, you know who I am talking to.

And to answer your question, yes it was me, and it was more of a joke, saying you were molested (not raped) as a child, and it was in the other thread you made.

But I liked how you completely ignored the idea of counseling, while it might be the best advice so far...

Okay. So I just slept at my friends house with a drunk chick who my girlfriend hates, and I totally didn't even go near her. Could have gotten away with it too.

I'm probably gay. :(

I have the opposite.

Could be the moral consequences. She probably wouldn't have liked the fact that she was taken advantage of in such a vulnerable state.
Could be respect for your girlfriend. A lot of the times, I notice guys don't have sex with women their girlfriends hate, because they have a girlfriend that hates them.

Or it could just be that you're gay.

fag

Chichi regardless of what you are, i still love you. <3
=) Also, I WOULD GUESS that you are a gay, seeing as you want woman to talk to about how you love them (I feel the same way, but touching things is still fun.)
:)

Chichi you fucking troll! Just accept the thread tag and maybe sex with your gf is just shit?

I can't go more than 30 seconds without touching her boobs. :(

I can't go more than 30 seconds without touching her boobs. :(

*frowns*
Just have sex with anything you come across thats half decent, shit.

Aren't you a chick?

I thought he was a girl until I read this thread

You should have your girl wear a Guy Fawkes mask and fuck you in the ass with a strap-on.
I bet you'd like it.

It's not that I want her for companionship, I really do like her "that" way. Only thing is, I'm not really into the physical side. With guys it's sexual, but I don't feel the same about them emotionally.

God I'm so fucking confused. :(

arnt you like 15 dude? Your supposed to be confused at that age. Relax, and go with the flow. Your hormones will even out eventually. And if you are gay, o well. However your probably just curious

arnt you like 15 dude? Your supposed to be confused at that age. Relax, and go with the flow. Your hormones will even out eventually. And if you are gay, o well. However your probably just curious

wait...Chi CHi is 15......wtf, man ur just Bi-curious.
Stay straight til ur hormones are settled...if u still like men then go for it. *shivers* i once though it was possible that i might be gay... just think about being ass fucked or sucking cock..THEN it will become clear

....*shivers* ewwwww...there are just something men are not ment to feel...

wait...Chi CHi is 15......wtf, man ur just Bi-curious.
Stay straight til ur hormones are settled...if u still like men then go for it. *shivers* i once though it was possible that i might be gay... just think about being ass fucked or sucking cock..THEN it will become clear

....*shivers* ewwwww...there are just something men are not ment to feel...

Oh dear.

get on irc faggot...

get on irc faggot...

I'm banned.

get on irc faggot...

fuck off, Chi Chi belongs on this forum. U don't like him, u fuck off to irc.

don't u just hate it when people shoot you down for having a serious thread?