My group of friends consist of 5 - 10 people, and these people are always bringing around randoms who eventually we get to know.

When a group of teenagers get together, obviously one of the main topics talked about is sex and who they've fucked and how they've done it etc.

Being a virgin, I never say anything about my sexual escapades, due to the lack thereof. Now, these people who I get to know catch onto this and ask me if I'm still a virgin. I mean, what the fuck do I say? Some of the time the person who's asking me is a girl who I'm interested in. After I tell them the truth, they lose all interest.

At any time there can be from 5 - 20 people in that house, some as much as 4 years younger than me, and all of them have had sex.

How do I handle this situation?

lie your fucking way out! If you don't want to let others know you're a virgin.

just because you're a virgin doesn't mean you don't know shit about sex.

It's nothing to be ashamed of at all. Just be like "ya I'm still a virgin lol". If you don't make a big deal of it neither will they.

I know plenty of awesome guys that are still virgins, no one cares. They might even help you get laid.

You gotta lie man, even if it's just a little bit. Don't make a big deal out of the lie though otherwise you'll wind up getting questioned and they'll know your lying. Just say something simple like "no I lost my virginity to my last girlfriend" or something like that and then carry on as if you would if that were the truth. From my understanding, your making yourself look weak and that's why they lose all interest. So another way you could go about it is if they ask you if your still a virgin you say something like "fuck yeah my hand works just fine!" or ya know something more funny and confident than that that fits your personality more.

It sounds like your making a big deal out of it like xxombie said.

It's not really a big deal. It's too late to lie about it now because everyone pretty much already knows. I just don't see why people think it's so bad? I'm just surprised at how slutty 99% of the girls are who come and chill. Why would I want to have sex with a whore who probably gave someone head 5 minutes before?

That's why you're better than these cunts and you should line them all up and bitch slap their asses. If any of them are bitches to you for being a virgin then shoot right back at them about their overwhelming sluttiness.

Lying is pretty easy, but when they actually start interrogating you, you start getting getting nervous and shit.

Usually you just agree, and to make it less weird for you, when everyone's around, just bring up about how this bitch was sucking you off, and mention how cash it was.

Works all the time.*

*when I was one lulz

losing your vcard seems to be the most logical thing to do in this situation.

That's why you're better than these cunts and you should line them all up and bitch slap their asses. If any of them are bitches to you for being a virgin then shoot right back at them about their overwhelming sluttiness.

It's more like an unspoken insult. Like a "look". But as I said before, my real group of friends which is pretty much 5 people still treat me the same as they do each other. But my main problem isn't that I'm being treated differently by others, it's just the fact that all these randoms come in and kind of take over with their constant sex talk.

Even if I had had sex before I still wouldn't talk as much shit as they do.

Jackketch is gonna rape you for calling it a vcard.

Oh, and I quoted this so you can't edit it.

It's more like an unspoken insult. Like a "look". But as I said before, my real group of friends which is pretty much 5 people still treat me the same as they do each other. But my main problem isn't that I'm being treated differently by others, it's just the fact that all these randoms come in and kind of take over with their constant sex talk.

Even if I had had sex before I still wouldn't talk as much shit as they do.
Just ignore it, or brag about this hot bitch who gave you head, it was so cash.*








*I would laugh if one of them knew what "so cash" meant, then your plan would be fucked.

i agree with this fella.

Say "No, I'm a <insert your zodiac sign here>".

Unless it's Virgo, then you're screwed.

Jackketch is gonna rape you for calling it a vcard.

Oh, and I quoted this so you can't edit it.

guess who doesnt care. i can live with getting raped at over the internet. really doesnt affect my life.

You have a few choices. You can keep going the way you are and you'll eventually get pitty sex. You can play it off and act like it's not a big deal to you. Or you can lie your way out of it and make a good alibi. I can't blame you for being embarrassed, I was too in that situation. I chose to lie and no one ever noticed. I'm a good liar though so it might not play out the same way for you.

mmm, i can't say i can relate to your problem and i can still sorta remember being a virgin

I guess it's how you bring it probably

You seem to be ashamed of it

I always used to be damn proud of it....no random bitchh gonna take it from me, i'm gonna wait till i find someone i truly love
This somehow unlike you ment i had to get outta gettin laid almost every week. Hell, one girl even tried to practically rape me while her bf was in the next room and he was one of my best friends...


change your attitude towards being a virgin and you'll have a whole new set of problems before you know it (worries bout becomin a daddy, std's, parents who gonna kill you)

I'm a devout Christian,
Say that and they're gonna try to corrupt you ;)

this man/woman knows the score.

I say that but all my friends know I'm atheist. It's just a way to escape the question by making them chuckle. I actually lie and tell them I am a virgin just cause.

well

if i was in your case

id just say

"hell yea im a virgin" with a sarcastic voice

as in a "obviously not u cunt"

but youd still be telling the truth aye

YOU'RE A GENiUS!

this approach works right up to the time you try it on someone who can read faces.

then they work it out, and you look like a tit.

this approach works right up to the time you try it on someone who can read faces.

then they work it out, and you look like a tit.Lol, yea.

Yeah, you look like a tit for sure
Anyone C WAT I DID THAR?

this approach works right up to the time you try it on someone who can read faces.

then they work it out, and you look like a tit.

lol the op is talking about a highschool friends circle (i imagine, hopefully hes not in his 20s)

more than likely everyone is drinking and chilling, not really likely to come by an fbi interrogator whos trying to read your face

anyway if you have confidence and smile you should always be able to pull it off..

valid point: you made one.

Clearly the kids at your house are the problem...

This sorta sounds like some kids I know who talk about drugs all the time even though they hardly ever do any and they don't know shit.

And even if they did, what does it matter anyway, arent there better things to talk about?

Do you really wanna be friends with people who totally wipe you from their list of friends since you're a virgin?

person : "so like, are you a virgin"

me: "yea man"

/thread

You only lie if you're a fucking sissy and if it turns out your friends are not friends but indeed assholes who you so happen to hang out with.

It doesn't really matter. You can try to act sarcastic.

Im not a virgin but this is what I did once. I was with some friends and 3 girls at a party. I didn't know one of the girls in the group and she was pretty. So I flirted with her by getting close to her and saying *cough*"it sucks being a virgin". Everybody in the group laughed. I ended up talking to her and fucking her a week later.

So I don't know, if your a cool person......and you tell the truth then it shouldn't be a problem. You might get laughed at but your friends will try to get you laid. I would get you laid if you were my homie.

I hate it when this kind of question comes up.... I usually end up quickly excusing myself to go get a drink or something when conversations like it come up (eg, how many have you had, that kinda thing).

I honestly don't know what I would do if someone asked me up straight and there was no way round it. Anyone who is one of my closer friends (ie from school) would know the answer already, but I'm worried about being it brought up by uni mates who haven't known me for long...

worst thing would be for your 'mates' to decide that it was their personal mission to get you laid, nudging you in the direction of every desperate chick in a club, making facebook groups, etc

...and that's the end of that chapter.

Get some different friends?

I would be pissed off if my friends would make fun of me for something juvenile like being a virgin

Ask if a cheap foreign whore counts. Then tell them about 15 different foreign names and tell them how much.

Ask if dolphins counts. Then tell them about your visits to the aquarium.

Fixed for totseans.

You lost me on this, I'm a virgo...please explain.

I'm not a virgin, when asked I say I am. People never really seem to care. Sometimes they'll ask why, then just give them a good reason.

You lost me on this, I'm a virgo...please explain.

Person: "Are you a virgin?"
You: "No, I'm a Taurus".

Etc.

I'm 23 and still virgin! No big deal... and your point?
Why do people always make a fuss about it.

Example: Omg!! this dude is 23 and still virgin .
Okay...

Them: Are you a virgin?

Me: yea... and?...