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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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Old 2008-11-20, 02:20
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Default Drugs and girlfriends parents

This is an awkward but fucking great situation at the same time. I've been dating this girl for 6 months now and to tell you the truth she has two moms. Her real mom was artificially inseminated so my gf has no idea who her dad is. Her other mom is one of the coolest people I've ever met and she got me a job working for her over the summer helping remodel houses. K I just needed to say that so you know what I'm dealing with here.

Well over the summer her mom who I was working for sold me a bag of weed. She buys me and my girlfriend liquor sometimes too which is great. Well the other night I was with my girlfriend at her house and her moms had the jack daniels out and we were all taking some shots and just watching TV and cooking dinner and shit like that. Well after a while we all end up outside for a cigarette and her mom who I worked for lights up a big fat fucking blunt. I was shocked.

So anyways I smoked it with my girlfriend and her moms and these 2 other people from NY they had visiting and I feel like a fucking idiot now. I feel like I made myself look like a god damn drug fiend. Not because I smoked with them but because while we were smoking I started rambling on about drugs I've done and spouting off all this random knowledge about drugs in general. I wasn't trying to impress them or anything with what I know, it was more just a drunken rant and I think I got a little too comfortable with the whole situation.

I feel like I made myself look like a drug fiend which I'm not anymore. But they know I used to be so this whole thing is really embarrassing. They have a lot of respect for me and trust me a lot and I really don't want to lose that.

This is something thats been bugging me for a few days now and I just feel like some outside insight would be nice. And I just needed to get that off my chest. Btw anyone else ever by drugs off their girlfriends/boyfriends parents? Was it awkward? Can you sympathize?
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Old 2008-11-20, 02:25
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Have they been treating you differently since?

I say if they don't act different towards you then nothing's really the matter. Just keep smoking weed with her and her mom. :)
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Old 2008-11-20, 02:35
andeanbr andeanbr is offline
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First of all, she has two moms? Are they lesbians? how does that work?

Second of all I had a boyfriend in high school that his mom would smoke weed with us all the time. I thought it was cool at first but honestly after a few months of it I found it kind of creepy and weird and didn't like it anymore. Roll Eyes (Sarcastic)

Now as an adult (ahem) I gotta say, it's just weird. :p Don't get me wrong, I can enjoy some mind altering substances just like anyone else, but I don't see enjoying them with my kid's significant other. Maybe I'm just getting old.

SIGH
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Old 2008-11-20, 02:40
Cant Quite Tell Cant Quite Tell is offline
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Wow. You smoke weed with your gf and her mom? You, sir, win.

Also, in the nature of totse, I should suggest a threesome.
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Old 2008-11-20, 02:41
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Ohio
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First of all, she has two moms? Are they lesbians? how does that work?


Yeah sorry I should have made that more clear. I thought it was kind of obvious though.


Second of all I had a boyfriend in high school that his mom would smoke weed with us all the time. I thought it was cool at first but honestly after a few months of it I found it kind of creepy and weird and didn't like it anymore. Roll Eyes (Sarcastic)


This helps me thanks for that. I really don't think it will grow to a point where I'm smoking with her like every day or anything. At least I hope not. That just sounds very awkward.


Now as an adult (ahem) I gotta say, it's just weird. :p Don't get me wrong, I can enjoy some mind altering substances just like anyone else, but I don't see enjoying them with my kid's significant other. Maybe I'm just getting old.

SIGH

Haha yeah and its funny too because the one who is her real mom is a well known doctor in my area and she has a reputation to uphold which I think is funny seeing as how i was hitting a blunt she had just passed to me. She doesn't smoke a lot but when she does she sure as hell knows what shes doing lol.
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Old 2008-11-20, 02:42
Adhesive Tape Adhesive Tape is offline
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Next time tell them about your impressive collection of date rape drugs.Roll Eyes (Sarcastic)

I know what kind of situation you are talking about, I tend to do that with school friends a lot. People are always shocked that I am smart and I used to smoke a lot of pot (among other things).
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Old 2008-11-20, 02:44
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Ohio
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Originally Posted by Cant Quite Tell
Wow. You smoke weed with your gf and her mom? You, sir, win.

Also, in the nature of totse, I should suggest a threesome.


I figured that would be the first reply lol.

Originally posted by Adhesive Tape

Next time tell them about your impressive collection of date rape drugs.

I know what kind of situation you are talking about, I tend to do that with school friends a lot. People are always shocked that I am smart and I used to smoke a lot of pot (among other things).



Yeah it's hard to be smart about drugs and not sound like a fiending lunatic at the same time.
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Old 2008-11-20, 03:26
Adhesive Tape Adhesive Tape is offline
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Yeah it's hard to be smart about drugs and not sound like a fiending lunatic at the same time.

This. :D
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Old 2008-11-20, 03:36
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Australia
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Foursome?

Seriously though, just keep an eye open for any changes in their behavior, and if you notice them make it clear, through your actions, that you no longer do a plethora of drugs (even if you, just keep it on the downlow and act like a cool, well behaved, well mannered kid).

Or just go with the foursome.
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Old 2008-11-20, 05:05
Hengen Hengen is offline
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If they don't treat you differently pretend it never happened and just move on. If they start treating you a bit weird then you might want to play it off and tell them you were acting stupid the other day and apologize or something.
 
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