This is something I've never been able to understand. Why do some girls get all anxious about being touched/kissed/fucked?

For about the first three weeks, my girlfriend was really shy on the physical side of things. I had to kind of be all over her, all the time, in front of everyone as a way to kind of desensitize her. She's much more comfortable with it now.

For a while I thought it was because she didn't like me or something, or was uncomfortable around me. Stuff like that. It kind of bothered me for a while. I just couldn't figure out why my own girlfriend would tense up when I made moves on her.

Now I'm thinking it's a trust thing, because now I can pretty much do what I want to her whenever, but the other day I held her arms down so my friend could touch her boobs (lololol :o) and she started screaming "Nooo!"...So I guess it could be a matter of building rapport with me, as opposed to just getting used to being touched in general?

I don't know. I really just want some opinions on why girls are fridgid.*

*not sure if I'm spelling that right.

but the other day I held her arms down so my friend could touch her boobs (lololol :o) and she started screaming "Nooo!"

lol rape?

lol rape?

she was probably afraid you would do something just like this

rape of mind?

"Frigid."

Not all girls are like that, but that behavior isn't uncommon among girls that age.

I agree that its an issue of establishing trust on a physical level with her boyfriend. Of course that wouldn't lead to her comfort with being touched by random guys in general- you should be glad she doesn't want guys besides you touching her boobs, that'd make her kinda slutty.

A lot of the anxiety at the outset could be simply explained as a result of her insecurities- she needs to trust that you are happy with her physically.

Come on be srs gais :(

Why are some girls fridgid?

Also...a girl's frigid if she's 15 and weird about physical contact in the first 3 weeks of a relationship, yet if she wasn't she'd be labeled a slut.

Girls have it grrrrrrrreat!!!

Hey, I think there's a such thing as moderation in this whole area :o

Gotta love that double standard. Doesn't bother me though, I love sluts.

\ but the other day I held her arms down so my friend could touch her boobs (lololol :o) and she started screaming "Nooo!"...

you what?

Must be a troll no one is that stupid

It's not stupid if it's an experiment.

What was your hypothesis?

I'm just impressed your friend somehow convinced you to let him feel up your girl, normally such a request would lead to an ass kicking where I'm from.

What was your hypothesis?

I don't know what that is :(

I'm just impressed your friend somehow convinced you to let him feel up your girl, normally such a request would lead to an ass kicking where I'm from.

Actually it was my idea.

Actually it was my idea.

um...ok

Care to explain the reasoning there?

um...ok

Care to explain the reasoning there?

...

...

...Fuck I'm stupid. :(

lock/delete

self pwnt

self pwnt

This.

Fucking kill yourself OP, or just stop posting.

Lulz.

Lulz.
This guy knows his stuff.

Uh you tried to force her to let your friend feel her up and she's frigid?



Yea nice.

I hope she dumped your ass. And I hope your friend never got his feel.

That's not frigid, that's smart of her, she probably saw this coming.

It's pretty simple. He's trying to desensitize her from being touched by other guys while he's around. Wtf kind of idiot does this? I thought asians were smart.

It's pretty simple. The OP is a bitch troll. Lock/delete anyone?

Hey, it's not like it was aggresive rape or anything. It was just tongue-in-cheek kidding around. My girlfriend was LAUGHING, dammit.

I'm not that much of a dick.

And I wasn't trying to desensitize her so OTHER guys could touch her, it was to see if she only wanted me to touch her or was just getting progressively more slutty in general. So shoot me.

This is up there with some of the stupidest reasoning I have ever fucking heard.

ChiChi, I though you were cool.

Man, you let me down.


*ObZ

Well, when he left, she started hugging me and making out with me. I didn't even have to make any moves on her. Meaning she was probably OKAY with it.

So trust me, I know how to treat my girlfriend. And I know how I made it sound, and to be honest I'd be saying the same stuff as you guys if someone else had posted what I did. Just...Take my word for it, it really isn't like it sounds? Okay?

Guys stop bitching at Chichi. In 8th grade my friend would let me suck his girlfriends nipples, she had huge tits and it was awesome..

I'll try explain it, for the sake of my already bad reputation.

Chichi: *Gropes girlfriend* Hey Friend, care to feel m'ladies breasts?

Friend: *Laughter*

Chichi: *Laughter whilst holding girlfriend and pushing her towards Friend*

Girlfriend: *Giggling* Noooo stop it!

Chichi: Okay sorry. *Chuckle*

Friend: Okay, we have science class now, come on Chichi.

Chichi: I'll catch up with you, bai!

Girlfriend: *Starts hugging and making out with Chichi*

-End-

slightly better, good thing she has a good sense of humor!

We're friends again :)

Idiot, who the fuck is going to search "lol shy bitches"?

Also, <3 Emma.

My husband thinks I'm frigid because I won't let him do me in the butt. He's all like, "But we're MARRIED, we've been MARRIED for TEN years and you won't even TRY it!!!!" On the other hand, I guess he's also frigid because he won't let me watch him get fucked by another guy.:/

Why do some girls get all anxious about being touched/kissed/fucked?

I think it's 'cause I rape them too often.

Women!

Haha! My new rule for something I dont wanna do, will be asking my bf to do it with another guy first. If he does it, then I'll dump him for cheating on me. So guys...just get it into your heads, if we say no...we mean no!

Haha! My new rule for something I dont wanna do, will be asking my bf to do it with another guy first. If he does it, then I'll dump him for cheating on me. So guys...just get it into your heads, if we say no...we mean no!

Stupid chav.

Stupid chav.

Quite the reverse actually!!!

Quite the reverse actually!!!

A clever goth?

A clever goth?

Clever?...Yes-IQ=156 on Cattell B test

Goth?...No! I just work in Politics

Clever?...Yes-IQ=156 on Cattell B test

Goth?...No! I just work in Politics

I forecast that you're going the get the shit ripped out of you.

Welcome to totse!

Clever?...Yes-IQ=156 on Cattell B test

Goth?...No! I just work in Politics

Really? Doing what/for whom?

you're girlfriend?!?! I THOUGHT YOU WHERE MARRIED TO GOKU!!!!