I don't feel like explaining again why I don't like sex so here you go: http://www.totse.com/community/showthread.php?t=2168754

Over the last few weeks I've come to realize that I'm happiest in a long term relationship. My problem is all the girls who I've had a over 1 month relationship with have been very into vaginal sex. Now I am not bothered by having it say once every week or so, but it is a very frustrating experience for me.

I'm looking for the type of girl that is smart, very loyal, and doesn't really have a interest in sex. I have pretty broad standards appearance wise. I live beside a massive university and will be attending there next year if that helps.

Anyone have any recommendations for places to look?

I can be your girlfriend. where do u live

good luck finding a healthy, sane human who doesn't like sex.

girls that dont like sex, hmm you could go to a rape survivors meeting. should be full of girls that dont like sex there.

or check out you local ministry, abstinence is the only way into heaven.

I live about 30 minutes from the UofA, you?

She just wants you cause your white bro , don't do it.

She just wants to taint your children with her asian genes.

wow i feel bad at how funny i found that ^

Anyway dude my guess would be to find a girl who's in school or really obsessed with her career. Dont you ever see movies where the girl rarley wants to have sex cause shes too busy at her job. Watch the sex in the city movie (My X made me watch it -_- )

And youll see what i mean

Hire an escort to be in a long term relationship with you.

Haha
What I'm more looking for are girls who love to cuddle and make out without going much further.

get a dog?

i dunno, how old are you?

possibly there are young girls that are still virgins who won't want to go further. but i don't know of many girls that are without serious defect who wouldn't want to have sex with their boyfriend.

i understand that perhaps your sensitivity is screwed, but does that mean you can't orgasm at all? or be aroused at all? there are a lot of things i can do or have done to me that have nothing at all to do with my vagina and still make me incredibly aroused to the point of near orgasm.

try sixth grade?

try sixth grade?

you'd be surprised

I'm 17, and I know the virgin market is about 1/3 of my highschool

I'm thinking I might dip into the grade 11ers to just get a innocent girl who is not that sexual.

Try the church. Orthodox if you can.

A forum or help group for asexual people, maybe?

solution: a devout catholic girl. seriously man look into this. they refuse to fuck, and stick to their morals until they're married.

btw i feel really really bad for you :(

You often hear about these girls, until they feel your dick. Then it's all downhill after that.

Anyone have any recommendations for places to look?

Just how damned liberal are you, anyways?

Most pansexual and sexual diversity support and action networks happen to have a huge fucking asexual contingent among their workers. You could, like... devote yourself to defending the zooerotic against bias crime, and, like... maybe meet a nice girl through activism...

Hell, it'd be like anti-war activism without the sex.

Of course, depending on what all you do want, that may or may not work. I have no more idea how desperately you just want to grope a nice set of boobs all day than I do how the average asexual pro-diversity activist feels about having their boobs groped 24/7, for instance...

...but I swear to you, dude, nothing brings asexual girls out of the woodwork like a sexual diversity defense league. Half the time, there's next to nothing in the group to defend, and it's just a bunch of female asexual progressives, dude....

But, hell. 's pretty good company. 'n a lot of asexual girls like to cuddle...

Alternately, you could just turn pedo and maintain a few heterosexual and bisexual women as very close friends... which is also pretty much along the lines of "completely asexual completely committed close relationship." How the hell to translate that into your actual life, though, I have no fucking idea. Could work the same for "becoming ragingly homosexual," I don't fucking know...

Good luck, either way. 'n btw...

aven.org

...might be better able to answer your question. Even if you're the freaky outsider or something... ;)

5char

I don't think you've met many catholic girls...

The best ones are the those 'devout' enough to take it in the ass and only in the ass because it means they're 'still a virgin'.

OP, I think you got the whole dating thing BACKWARDS.

Your a sad little man.

OP, find long term girls at resthomes.

You're going to be at the UofA?

Go for one of those sheltered, quiet, nerdy girls in sciences.


*ObZ

why not just get a female best friend? no sex, just companionship.

A monastery.


Wait, you meant girls who don't like sex? I have no idea then.

Try those on antidepressants. Most are sane and they kill your sex drive.

Good luck with that one!

just date some chick over the internet.

Any where! LOL All girls hate sex!

Didn't read all the other posts, but here is my input;
Go to church. I met my current girlfriend at the youth group I went to while I was in highschool. She is a virgin, I am not, and plans on waiting until marriage to ahve intercourse. I am perfectly fine with that. I love this girl and can picture myself marrying her. Whether we have intercourse before or after marriage, doesn't really bother me at all. But back to my point, if you find a religious girl, there is a chance she would want to wait until marriage, or until she knows you are the one. Though if you aren't religious at all, good luck, because she will probably want to have that in common.

I don't think you've met many catholic girls...

The best ones are the those 'devout' enough to take it in the ass and only in the ass because it means they're 'still a virgin'.

You are ignorant as fuck. A devout Catholic knows that any type of sex, whether it be anal, vaginal, or oral, is still SEX.

^You underestimate the stupidity of religious people.

STFU Acolyte. In the history of man, religious people have always been some of the smartest people on the face of the earth. Within the past hundred or so years, this may not be the case. But many religious people are also very well educated.

STFU Acolyte. In the history of man, religious people have always been some of the smartest people on the face of the earth. Within the past hundred or so years, this may not be the case. But many religious people are also very well educated.

First off, I'm not an acolyte. 15,000 posts under my belt guy. Last account was aliveupboy.

And who are you to tell me anything? You're dating a chick and your not getting any pussy out of it. You fail at life.

And just because SOME religious people are smart, it doesn't mean the majority are not stupid. Faulty logic you stupid cunt.

First off, I'm not an acolyte. 15,000 posts under my belt guy. Last account was aliveupboy.

And who are you to tell me anything? You're dating a chick and your not getting any pussy out of it. You fail at life.

And just because SOME religious people are smart, it doesn't mean the majority are not stupid. Faulty logic you stupid cunt.

Aliveupboy was a troll , so you still fail.

Aliveupboy was a troll , so you still fail.

Partially, I made serious posts with that account as well, and no I don't fail, because even IF all I did was troll (which I didn't) it would still prove I'm not a noob to totse. Tard.

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Uhh you sure as hell don't need a dick to get your girl off vaginally.

I can get my girlfriend off like no bodies business with just my fingers.

Find a bisexual girl, if she's been with chicks before she wont even care about your lack of dick usage.

Then she would just go out and date a chick......

This is very true.

So where do you live?

Seriously, once in a committed relationship it slows to about that anyway. But im usually working such hard long hours that once a week suits me, as long as theres a kiss and a cuddle in between. A proper relationship isnt built on sex-its everything!

Yes guys, I know thats not what you want to hear, but believe me thats all we need sometimes.

Not all of us are sluts, nor are we religious nuts who want to wait till theyre married

Not all of us are sluts

So a girl who has copious amounts of sex with a single partner she's committed to is a slut?

So a girl who has copious amounts of sex with a single partner she's committed to is a slut?

sorry u seemed to have misunderstood me, i was making a point of the middleground, where there is no partner. so in answer to ur question, no!

First off, I'm not an acolyte. 15,000 posts under my belt guy. Last account was aliveupboy.

Congratulations troll, you've wasted your life on Totse. 15,000 posts, is that suppose to impress me?

And who are you to tell me anything? You're dating a chick and your not getting any pussy out of it. You fail at life.
But it's not like I ahven't gotten laid before. And how on earth does that mean I fail? I'm not trying to get pussy, am I? No. I can't fail at a goal I am not attempting to reach. ". Faulty logic you stupid cunt."

And just because SOME religious people are smart, it doesn't mean the majority are not stupid. Faulty logic you stupid cunt.
I didn't say some, I said a lot.

Then she would just go out and date a chick......

Uhh no not if she was attracted to this guy.

Uhh no not if she was attracted to this guy.

Then she would want some dick...

Most guys would be damned to here " Hey your cute , but I dont want any dick just want you to finger me"

I would be like " What kind of fucked up whore are you?!"

*Rapes.

Then she would want some dick...

Most guys would be damned to here " Hey your cute , but I dont want any dick just want you to finger me"

I would be like " What kind of fucked up whore are you?!"

*Rapes.

so all girls want sex?

It's not like the OP is only person in the world who doesn't have isn't fully interested in sex

so all girls want sex?

It's not like the OP is only person in the world who doesn't have isn't fully interested in sex

Well, nature has been trying to weed out those who don't like sex for millions of years..

Then she would want some dick...

Most guys would be damned to here " Hey your cute , but I dont want any dick just want you to finger me"

I would be like " What kind of fucked up whore are you?!"

*Rapes.

It's more like
"I really like you so I don't mind that you can't use your dick, and since I'm used to having sex with girls I really like being fingered".

If I liked a guy enough I wouldn't care if his dick was broke. I buy a dildo for him to use on me and it'd be fine.

Well, nature has been trying to weed out those who don't like sex for millions of years..

wow, you have no idea why I don't like sex do you? I have no real feeling in my cock because of a botched circ. I'm looking for the type of girl who likes sex but just doesn't want it that often.

wow i feel bad at how funny i found that ^

Anyway dude my guess would be to find a girl who's in school or really obsessed with her career. Dont you ever see movies where the girl rarley wants to have sex cause shes too busy at her job. Watch the sex in the city movie (My X made me watch it -_- )

And youll see what i mean


hahahaha your post just amped my laughter even more :D

girls don't like sex deep down..they're all bad at it. ever noticed how on every ladies magazine there are always '10 ways to be better in bed'? it's because they all suck at sex, which is why they hate it, and also why any girl who has sex with more than 1 person or before 12 years of dating is considered a slut.

Dude, your looking at sex from one angle. Sex seems to always be a strictly physical thing and has been seen like that for centuries, at least in the west. While it is physical, there is another side to sex that many people overlook and that is intimacy. Sex can be a great avenue to achieve higher states in consciousness, if you're into that sort of thing. I'm sure you've heard of Tantra and if you are interested I think you should take a look at it. Your condition would be invaluable to this sort of thing simply because you are less likely to get lost in the sensation and can focus more on your partner and the actual moment. Of course, finding a willing partner is another thing entirely.

I would say make lemonade with the lemons you were given.

^ Very interesting, I'll have to try that. I think I may have found a girl with the qualities I've been looking for. If she proves to be the kind of girl I like then this will be amazing

Your setting yourself up for epic failure and faggotry.

Just fuck for godsake , before you get hit by a fucking car tommorow.

Rape victim support groups.

iono, go for a no-sex-before-marriage girl? and hope to fucking hell she doesnt get to the wedding night and realise how much of a nympho she is?

cut back on the weed bro because this is one retarded fucking statement. i live with a damn nympho man.

the more i read your post the stupider you seem.

Why not just find a girl who you like for her personality enough, and just regard sex as another chore? That, or have an open relationship, so she can have sex without you?

Whatever happend to those dickhead friends of yours , totse never got an update.

I think.

That would honestly suck so bad. :(

Agreed.

Healthy + Sane =/= No likey sex

That is just something that seems wrong and weird to me.

cut back on the weed bro because this is one retarded fucking statement. i live with a damn nympho man.

the more i read your post the stupider you seem.

I don't and never have smoked weed. I have severe nerve damage.

I'm not against having sex say once a week, the plumbing works the wiring doesn't, it's I just want a girl who isn't that sexual.

I don't and never have smoked weed. I have severe nerve damage.

I'm not against having sex say once a week, the plumbing works the wiring doesn't, it's I just want a girl who isn't that sexual.

i wasnt talking about you bro, i feel for your situation i was quoting on xiamhighx's post

"girls don't like sex deep down..they're all bad at it. ever noticed how on every ladies magazine there are always '10 ways to be better in bed'? it's because they all suck at sex, which is why they hate it, and also why any girl who has sex with more than 1 person or before 12 years of dating is considered a slut."

i was just calling him a jackass

but what would your nerve damage have to do with your use of marijuana? if anything it may help you cope.

Agent 008

Nice one, reminded me of a book

Guy to death "what would humans be without love"
death "rare"



Anyways, thread starter, from what i have seen around me (i for some reason always date complete nympho's, don't ask me why) most relationships turn after a while into sex, once a week, IF THEY"RE LUCKY. So you just have to find a normal girl and...do that what is useless to you a bit more often the first few months.

Basicly, unless you only meet nympho's..... i don't really see your problem

STFU Acolyte. In the history of man, religious people have always been some of the smartest people on the face of the earth.

There's a reason for that - killing off the competition.

If I could get Einstein, a few other intellectual giants and a dozen religious retards into a room, then convince the retards that I'm the mouthpiece of god and that Einstein and the others are heretics and must be killed, I'd end up being the smartest person in the room.

There's a reason for that - killing off the competition.

If I could get Einstein, a few other intellectual giants and a dozen religious retards into a room, then convince the retards that I'm the mouthpiece of god and that Einstein and the others are heretics and must be killed, I'd end up being the smartest person in the room.

I lol'ed....hard. :D