So, we went to dinner and it was awesome. We talked forever, we sat in there for like two hours just talking (he talked kinda fast but whatever...), and then we walk back to our dorm still talking in the lobby. Then all of a sudden he just breaks it off. I have no idea what happened, it was like that fast... it wasn't like a bolt to get away it was more like a nervous excuse. He was like, "Well I will see you Thursday... you are going to class right?" and then broke it off. I didn't act turned off by it, but like I was just confused. I had a good time, it didn't seem like he was having a bad time because he was really engaged in conversation, so am I just overthinking this?

PS: Let's just get this out of the way and say, no, I really can't make decisions by myself.

if you want my honest opinion as a guy in college, i would say you are over thinking this way too much. just let things take their course woman. sheesh.


you know i labored under the assumption that girls knew what they wanted for like 18 years of my life. only recently am i figuring out that most of you are just as lost as most of us guys. thank you OP for reaffirming that

you know i labored under the assumption that girls knew what they wanted for like 18 years of my life. only recently am i figuring out that most of you are just as lost as most of us guys. thank you OP for reaffirming that

Yeah same here.


OP don't be confused. If you feel like it went well then that's good. Leave it at that there's no more to ponder on. Guys are simple and we don't like playing games like you girls do so there's no reason to be confused.

You know what i think? I think your a harlet who was looking for Pre-Marital sex! and we all know what happens to those people.

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He needed to shit.

Alright. I read your first thread and it was kind of irritating. Then I read the second thread and I couldn't believe it was possible to be that insecure.
Now if I'm not mistaken we're on thread number three. Do you want us to hold your fucking hand as you blow him? Maybe three-way-call during every conversation you have?
Grow some balls and stop over-analyzing every single fucking interaction that occurs between you two.
Back off for a little while and make sure he doesn't think you're becoming overbearing. In any case either he wants you or he doesn't, that will only become clear in time. No one else will be able to tell you otherwise.

No kidding.

If you need to make a blog post on totse every time you interact with a guy, you need some serious help. It's annoying seeing a new thread every few days because you talked to a guy or something...how socially retarded are you?

He's probably just shy. Next date, if there is one, and like you should've done this time, afterwards say "Hey, wanna hang out in my room for a bit?" Then, if you can't figure it out, you're an idiot. I'm not even saying fellate him on the spot. Just ask him if he'd like to cuddle with you under the blankets while you watch a movie or something. Then fellate him.