Well, since my last thread in S&A, me and my ex had broken up and I was asking what to do about a problem that I thought she was having. I took the advice of one and broke off all contact.

Now, since then I've been around other girls, mainly friends. I've kinda noticed one of them really likes me, and has for a while (even when I was with my ex). Now, I think she's a really cool girl and wouldn't mind a relationship with her but, I don't know if I'm doing it with the right mindset. 95% of me really likes her but there's a 5% of me that wants the relief from the breakup.

Should I do this? I usually don't get with a girl unless I really like her and for the right reason, so I don't want there to be a point where i'm over my ex and get over her.

tl;dr Friend of mine likes me, I want to get with her but don't know if i should due to a small part of me still thinking about my ex. Need opinions on whether I should get with her.

If it's really only 5%, I say go for it. I mean, that's a pretty insignificant percentage...You still obviously like the girl, and any girl who's liked you for that long AND during a period when you were already with a girl, then I think you should. You'd be silly not to :)

Silly :)

This sounds like a rebound relationship. If she's been a friend as long as you say she have, be 100% sure that it's what you want, because she deserves as much.

That's why I didn't want to get with her right after I had broken up with my girlfriend. Because I didn't want her to be a rebound and that would be the wrong reason for me to start a relationship with ANYONE.

Thanks so far guys.

How long has it been since you broke up?

Approximately 2 Months.

If you think you can actually have a relationship with this girl and get over your ex I say go for it mate.

Appreciate all the advice so far, i'm thinking of going for it.. I guess ill have to make my mind up soon before the chance slips away.

Any more opinions are appreciated.

You'll regret it if you miss your chance. Nuff said

enough said

/thread

Post pics?

Yes.

Highschool is all about getting into the wrong sort of relationships so even if you fuck it up you learn a lesson. Sometimes you learn the same lesson over and over again.