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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2008-11-13, 12:05
OxyDust OxyDust is offline
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Default What to do & where to go?

I told this girl yesterday (that i like) that i am going to call her sometime to do something and she said OK. I took her out about a month ago to an italian restaurant and then went back to my place and made out/cuddled for hours.

I just need some advice on what to do (take her to a movie/dinner, my house for a movie & dinner, etc). I need some help on something to do with this girl. All advice is appreciated.
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Old 2008-11-13, 12:41
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i say take her to your house for a movie and dinner and make it really nice and comfortable
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Old 2008-11-13, 12:46
pleasure_to_burnv2 pleasure_to_burnv2 is offline
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why did you wait a month?
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Old 2008-11-13, 12:54
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Teenage attention whore.
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I can not wait to kill you.
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Old 2008-11-13, 12:57
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Get baked and go play laser tag.

Or...have any interesting hobbies? Show her, teach her, any cool chick will appreciate learning new shit providing your hobby bat shit boring.
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Old 2008-11-13, 17:36
X61 X61 is offline
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Invite her over for a shower one morning.
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Old 2008-11-13, 17:39
omnomnom omnomnom is offline
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i never call girls when they ask me to or when i tell them im going to

it just shows insecurity. wait until she calls
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Old 2008-11-13, 17:44
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i never call girls when they ask me to or when i tell them im going to

it just shows insecurity. wait until she calls

Or it shows that you're actually interested in her and enjoyed seeing her or talking to her recently.
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Old 2008-11-13, 17:49
yourfaceisarapescene yourfaceisarapescene is offline
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I would say do something that doesn't involve you spending tons of money on her. you don't want to come off like you are trying to buy her affection, although occasional gestures like the italian dinner are beneficial. what is her personality like?
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Old 2008-11-13, 17:59
omnomnom omnomnom is offline
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Or it shows that you're actually interested in her and enjoyed seeing her or talking to her recently.

way to kickstart a relationship by being the submissive part whos running after the other...

no

make them call.. always
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Old 2008-11-13, 18:08
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way to kickstart a relationship by being the submissive part whos running after the other...

no

make them call.. always
It's not submissive, it is showing interest. If both people do not show equal interest then one person will feel unappreciated or unwanted and find someone else.
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Old 2008-11-13, 18:09
2007/08 is really GAY 2007/08 is really GAY is offline
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All advice is appreciated.

Take her to the Park, Zoo, Six Flags, etc.
And play hide and seek. Let her do the hiding and you can just go home.
When she asked: tell her you got lost.
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Old 2008-11-13, 18:17
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Default Re: What to do & where to go?

Take her to the Park, Zoo, Six Flags, etc.
And play hide and seek. Let her do the hiding and you can just go home.
When she asked: tell her you got lost.

Haha, this.
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Old 2008-11-13, 21:43
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Originally Posted by arquin
Get baked and go play laser tag.

Or...have any interesting hobbies? Show her, teach her, any cool chick will appreciate learning new shit providing your hobby bat shit boring.


been there done that

rolling is fun at laser tag

bars is equally fun w/ friends ( we all ended up schwacking people with our guns, halo style)

acid was the weirdest thing ever, especially when someone shoots your eye
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Old 2008-11-13, 22:18
grouper grouper is offline
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Default Re: What to do & where to go?

you never answered why you have waited a month...seems to me like you could take her anywhere and she wouldnt care since shes been willing to wait this long (assuming that she likes you)
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Old 2008-11-13, 22:22
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Default Re: What to do & where to go?

It's not submissive, it is showing interest. If both people do not show equal interest then one person will feel unappreciated or unwanted and find someone else.

QFT! And being in a relationship where one person does all the chasing gets pretty boring for the person being chased. equal interest, equal effort.
 
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