I have a problem of not orgasming from any type of sex and it's ruining my sex life.


I am fairly healthy 18 year old male, with a fast heart rate and high blood pressure. I sometimes get stressed, but this has not been a problem lately.

Does anyone have any suggestions on what can be done to help this problem?

If you've just started having sex, it could be jitters/nervousness. It worked like that for me when I first started.

But if you're experienced and are just now having problems, I would take the advice from the Ladies Man: "Yea, you need to do it dawgy style, baby!"

What about when you jerk it?

If you can cum from fappery but not from sex, then I'd suggest it's psychological, but it may also be you're not being stimulated as much/in the right places by your girl.

Evolution has obviously failed you. Luckily your dumb ass cannot reproduce without creating semen in your follicles. We can't have pricks like you ruining the already degrading gene pool. I hope you never orgasm, there's enough little shits running around already.

You: 0
Humanity: 1

Haha, Idiocracy with Luke Wilson...

What about when you jerk it?

If you can cum from fappery but not from sex

It's about the same except I'm not nervous

It's about the same except I'm not nervous

doggy style

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stop wacking it son.

Whack it less. Go harder she will love it. Just fucking go nuts man until you are done. There are much worse problems to have if you know what I mean

stop wacking it son.

QFT. A few days of benign neglect and your penis will be much more cooperative.

Just keep going til you cum. If that fails start fucking hotter girls.

Sometimes when I can't cum, which thank god isn't very often, it's usually because I'll be having sex and then after a while it just feels like I'm fucking air. Like there's nothing there I'm just humping air and not gettign any feeling. Usually it's because of the condom so maybe that's your problem. What you should do is just pull out for a while and maybe eat her out or have her suck your dick for a little bit and get you really horny and then go back to fucking her.

this happens when i have unprotected sex with many people i just shared needles full of heroin with

Heroin'll do that for ya.

Heroin'll do that for ya.

First time I tried it I went and hung out with my girlfriend at a party afterwards and couldn't figure out why I couldn't cum. And then I realized I couldn't pee either I thought my dick broke.

ok i will give it a break for a couple days then see if it improves
and no I don't unprotected sex or drugs

I was like that when I was younger. No matter how long I had sex for, I never ejaculated.

As time passed, I became more in tuned with my body and more relaxed, the ejaculations came.

I`m not saying that this is your problem, but try to relax more, worked for me.

I had to stop masturbating in order to be able to perform for my fiancé.

Damn, I'm getting old.

How long are you trying it for? My first time having sex I went for almost an hour and a half till I came. Could be your setup though. I don't cum from head and it still takes a while for sex unless I'm actually trying to cum.

I had the same problem when I started out, no matter how I tried I couldn't get my rocks off inside. My tension distracted me and my distraction made me tense (vicious circle).
We got around it by mutually masturbating until I was about to come, then I'd enter her. Every time we'd make love I'd enter her a little earlier (less masturbation) and after a few weeks I found I didn't have a problem anymore.

If you ever find it's becoming a huge burden on your relationships, be brave, go to your doctor and see if they can do anything. There are supposed to be increased-sensitivity gels out there.

I can only last like 20 minutes from regular sex and 5 minutes from oral sex.

yeah same here, i was so nervouse my first time i went for what seemed like forever, but i still wont cum from head. never had, maybe most girls just dont know how to do it (even with some instruction),

but just try and relax, with should be easy espically if you have slept with the chick before, the first time me and my current girl fucked, i couldnt finish no matter how hard i tried. but after that everything was all good the "pressure" of performing well was gone. i just did my thing

now if your drunk when you are hooking up that can be a reason as well. when i get hammered i have alot harder time finishing then normal.

as redman put it "dont be scared, its just pussy"

and just remember this "dont put the pussy on a pedistal" it is in fact just pussy relax enjoy and have fun

but i still wont cum from head. never had, maybe most girls just dont know how to do it (even with some instruction),



I am the exact same way. I'm even uncircumcised, and my ex-girlfriend gave amazing head...but I always had to have her jerk my junk like no other in order for me to come without some pussy...it could be a control thing too.

After I got over the jitters of "OMGzZ!! I'm dOiN Da SEX!!" I couldn't orgasm unless I was on top...and had problems keeping it hard if I wasn't...

You have to let go and trust your partner...think of it as a two way deal and focus on her and the way she feels, as well as the way she makes you feel.

P.S.: OP, is this the reason you posted the thread in SG about hating everyone?? Blow a load, you'll feel better.

I am the exact same way. I'm even uncircumcised, and my ex-girlfriend gave amazing head...but I always had to have her jerk my junk like no other in order for me to come without some pussy...it could be a control thing too.

After I got over the jitters of "OMGzZ!! I'm dOiN Da SEX!!" I couldn't orgasm unless I was on top...and had problems keeping it hard if I wasn't...

You have to let go and trust your partner...think of it as a two way deal and focus on her and the way she feels, as well as the way she makes you feel.

P.S.: OP, is this the reason you posted the thread in SG about hating everyone?? Blow a load, you'll feel better.

I don't even post in SG

I don't even post in SG

Sorry.....I meant HB...or just thought it was in SG until I did a search.

https://www.totse.com/community/showthread.php?t=2172800&highlight=hate

Have her be on top then stick your hand in her ass, reach deep down until you feel your dick, and proceed to masturbate her loose vagina over your dick.

Tell your girl to do kagels.

See a doctor

dont use a condom, you will come way faster