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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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# 1
2008-11-13, 01:53
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What have you gained from S&A?
As in this forum. What have you gained from it? Learnt any valuable lessons? Any posters who gave you priceless information?
For me, this forum has been pretty helpful. When I got here I was as clueless as they come. Totse is harsh and puts things into perspective. As for people who taught me valuable lessons:
im/perfect circle: Best advice giver ever and coolest totse member in history. I remember when I was an ugly pot smoking, high school drop out nerd and he told me if I follow his step by step guide I'll get the popular hot chick. And it worked.
Glitterpunk: Always willing to tell you the cold hard truth, but at the same time it was always right.
Euda: Despite being captain obvious, there's always been more to his posts that I was just missing.
MrMojoRisin: Gave really good first hand advice at how to get girls.
Garfunkal: Took way too many pills, but always seemed to have the right answers and was always up for ripping the shit through carbonb.
Demoiselle: Her advice always seemed to hold more value than 99% of totse.
And lastly...Rabbitweed and Shiva. Rabbitweed's a cool dude who tells it like it is, and shiva was a girl I met on totse and was friends with for a couple years.
This place is full of gems, you just need to wade through the cesspool that is totse to find them.
What has S&A taught you?
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# 2
2008-11-13, 02:15
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
I think the only thing that's changed is that after reading posts made by girls, I'm kind of better at looking through their confident, attractive exterior and seeing how imperfect they are deep down.
It's significantly increased my confidence.
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# 3
2008-11-13, 02:40
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
Well, my first couple years in high school I was the guy who thought girls actually cared about one's personality and wouldn't care how I looked. Then I found S&A and realized that it's just so much more important to look good. (Having a good personality definitely helps, but looks are what gets you sex).
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# 4
2008-11-13, 03:50
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
Honestly, this board has been great because I simply make sure I do the exact opposite of whatever anyone here says, and things always work out.
The only person here who I could really identify with here was Nihilist, but I never see him post here anymore.
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# 5
2008-11-13, 04:07
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
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Originally Posted by casanova
Honestly, this board has been great because I simply make sure I do the exact opposite of whatever anyone here says, and things always work out.
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That's awesome man, just don't kill yourself.
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# 6
2008-11-13, 04:12
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
I <3 you arquin! 
S&A has shown me how to understand people and why they do the fucked up, ridiculous things they do in relationships. At this point, I don't think I can really encounter anything that will truly shock me. So S&A has desensitized and demoralized me, basically.
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We are alone, absolutely alone on this chance planet; and, amid all the forms of life that surround us, not one, excepting the dog, has made an alliance with us. - Maurice Maeterlinck
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# 7
2008-11-13, 04:23
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
So what was imperfect circles advice...
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# 8
2008-11-13, 05:18
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
This forum has helped me with a ton of shit the past few years. Some may not agree but I always looked forward to reading posts from Jackketch although I don't see him posting nearly as much anymore. Also for some reason I remember iSoape giving me some good advice in the past.
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# 9
2008-11-13, 05:25
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
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Originally Posted by disobey_the_norm
So what was imperfect circles advice...
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My impression of you is that you're one of those people who lack a certain quality, the deficit of which is as much a blessing as a curse. Life isn't intrinsically fair, forgiving, or any of the ideals we innocently imagine it to have when we're children. Most children cast off that unquestioned faith in the goodness of the world like a broken pair of roller scates, and replace it with more sceptical, cynical expectations. And why shouldn't they, it makes life less painful, you can only be betrayed by something you trust after all. And so the harshness of the world seeps into their adult personality, we unconsciously accept it as the right thing to do, but just look at how we celebrate the innocence of children and encourage them to play and laugh as much as possible before they "have to grow up"...
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....The reason I've said all of this, is because when I read through this thread a few days ago, what hit me like a right hook to the jaw was that was like having front row seats to someone embarking on that rejection of idealism. How you choose to handle this situation, and I hate being melodramatic so believe me that I mean this sincerely, could influence the rest of your life.
"So I tried, countless times. Always failing. She'd always just have to say small things to get me back into my 'always have hope' type attitude."
Yes, this is just one situation, but it's representative of what we all go through, only most of us didn't keep trying countless times, we gave up a lot sooner. If you've kept that nature in face of god knows how much shit it's caused you in your past, it's obviously something deeply enmeshed in your personality. Very few things could unlodge that, and the utter vulernability that's inseparable from overwhelming love for a girl is one of those things:
And so it begins. There are many ways your mind could have wrapped up the alienation of that part of you which is resulting in so much pain (the fact that it can also result in just as exquisite happiness must be ignored). The one your mind chose was to view that part as fake, and the "adult" part as real.
Nobody would blame you for doing that. No reason you should give a shit that in some abstract sense it might be tragic, or any other nonsense. Cut off that part of you that's "fake" and life will be less painful, that's a perfectly justifiable choice. Furthermore your psych could be totally right about such an intense inner conflict triggering your mental instability, I'd be surprised if not.
But I can't see it happening and not at least try and warn you that if you do so, you might lose something very precious, and lose it forever.
What you can't see right now, and probably cannot believe, is that there is a real future that you can make happen where what you dream about now will be the reality. Explaining why I am saying that with complete certainty would probably take ten times as much writing as I've done here, and frankly I highly doubt words can make you really believe it at this point. But I'll tell you something, dreams don't become reality for most people by chance, people make them happen. It doesn't necessarily require faith, all it needs is conviction and dedication.
Considering what I've said here, my earlier use of words was unfortunate. When I said you need to grow up, I meant that right now you have more of that child-like nature than adult nature for lack of a better word. You're in a crisis right now where you have to make a choice. But crisis isn't a bad word. I find it illuminating that in the chinese written language, where characters are ideograms that can incorporate symbols to create meaning, the ideogram for crisis contains the one for opportunity.
The opportunity might not be obvious, but it's there: for most people, child-like nature and adult nature are exclusive qualities like night and day, we automatically lose one to gain the other. But you have a choice, it's a gift you've earned from the trouble that's led up to it. You don't have to get rid of your child-like nature. You have the possibility, it you choose, to try and develop that adult nature around a core of that idealism, I wish there was a better word for it but fuck it. She's an exception girl, right? Manage to become an exceptionally individuated man and you'll deserve her at least as much as the guys she's been favoring instead of you. What's happened so far can't be a rejection of who you are if you haven't finished becoming who you have the potential to be, it's only been a rejection of your incomplete self.
Please at least think about what I've said, whatever the more complex circumstances of your life, the fact is that at 18 you have a totally obscured perspective on everything, and a distorted view of how they can or will turn out. You have more to gain than you probably are letting yourself believe, and the only thing you have to lose by taking a leap of faith is an even worse disappointment - but if you take my word for only one single thing, believe me that it's worse to not take a chance to avoid failure than it is to try and still fail.
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There was a shit load of help before this and after this that I can't find. A while later he became a mod, went crazy, send a last few emails then deleted his email/totse accounts and has been gone ever since. Any way, enough of a tangent.
Has any one here had a totse mentor? (for lack of a better word)
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# 10
2008-11-13, 05:49
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
I've gained some perspective and been able to interact with a handful of quality posters.
lauren2479, of course.
Demoiselle could totally kick my ass
outcast
Xiao Mei always has an interesting outlook and makes jam
imperfect circle was good enough people that I had him made a moderator, oops.
jvm222 is a surprise and I'm always happy to visit with him
shiva is good people, though it's been a while since we've talked
psycho_8b and I have far too much in common
FangleKai is always willing to put in the time
rabbitweed is good people, even when he forgets it
arquin has always managed to make sure that I didn't forget how I used to live.
oaf always made me smile. I wonder how he's doing.
kate- was always able to express herself.
CarbonB helped to stimulate conversation and never hesitated to play the dick.
Rykochet's input is always welcome and so are many others.
I'm sure that I'm forgetting quite a few people, but nobody should ever hesitate to say hello. My e-mail is in my profile.
MandatorySuicide taught me how to moderate; he's the zen freakin' kung fu master of moderation.
Last edited by Euda; 2008-11-13 at 06:09.
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# 11
2008-11-13, 05:52
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
^^
Xiao Mei was fucking awesome and helped me alot whatever happened to her?
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# 12
2008-11-13, 06:02
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
'Mojo has always given me really great advice and 'ketch with his off-beat parenting practices always amuses me, and has prompted me to think about my future offspring and how I will raise them.
Theres been a few others, but I'm posting from my cellphone, so I wont name off everyone, they know who they are.
This forum has show me MANY fucked up situations and has desensitized me to how fucked up people can become when emotions get involved.
As far as a mentor, never really had one from here...
Peace.
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# 13
2008-11-13, 06:20
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
I've learned that the decent guys are far more decent than I had ever permitted myself to believe, and that the scummy ones are far more depraved and awful than I had dared imagine.
And that men who can't get girls turn their feelings of inadequacy into misogyny.
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# 14
2008-11-13, 06:22
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
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Originally Posted by Silverfuck
And that men who can't get girls turn their feelings of inadequacy into misogyny.
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More like boys. Most of the actual men have realized how stupid that is. Its only the nerdy 13-15 year olds who are all like 'all da gurlz r just sluts i hate them i hate them i hate them".
E: And I learned some good ways to eat pussy. And also not to feed lamas poison. They really don't like poison 
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# 15
2008-11-13, 06:26
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
Oh another thing totse taught me was that some people come here asking a question with the intention of only hearing one answer: the answer they want to hear.
This can be applied to the real world as well.
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2008-11-13, 06:28
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
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Oh another thing totse taught me was that some people come here asking a question with the intention of only hearing one answer: the answer they want to hear.
This can be applied to the real world as well.
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Good point. And then when they hear the TRUTH instead of what they wanted to hear they tend to get very angry and bitter. I love it.
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# 17
2008-11-13, 06:30
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
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Oh another thing totse taught me was that some people come here asking a question with the intention of only hearing one answer: the answer they want to hear.
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Fucking this.
Similar: When people ask for your advice and then argue with you because it's not what they think. If you don't want someone's advice, don't fucking ask. 
Last edited by Chichi; 2008-11-13 at 06:36.
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2008-11-13, 07:38
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
Awww, I love all of S&A.
*Wipes tear*
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# 19
2008-11-13, 07:52
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
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Fucking this.
Similar: When people ask for your advice and then argue with you because it's not what they think. If you don't want someone's advice, don't fucking ask. |
That is certainly one reason I love S&A, and all of totse. You get complete honesty from almost all members. Whether the advice is telling you that you're worthless and that you need to kill yourself or saying you look like a mammoth, get a haircut.
Regardless of what kind of person you are on the outside, the people here aren't afraid to tell you what they think about you and your situations. That is very rare to find in a world without anonymity.
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# 20
2008-11-13, 07:57
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
CarbonB, bless him, has reminded me of the little asshole shit I was back in the day. I only find it fair to stay true to me roots and ravage the younglings with my words of subtle wisdom through a verbal lashing.
I say the words I say because I care. I care for you assholes to not further trash this beautiful world.
PS.
Being an asshole is SO much more fun  .
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# 21
2008-11-13, 08:19
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
I approve of this thread so I'm going to sticky it for a bit.
You'd be hard pressed to name an S&A regular who hasn't enriched my life in some way, if only by making me laugh.
You'd also be hard pressed to name an S&A regular who hasn't made me want to punch them at times either.
Single most important gift I have received here is the ability to listen to people whose opinions IRL I would ignore...teenagers, americans, women.
IRL I have a problem with taking the opinions of the average 17 year old seriously .."go away and get some life experience and then I might listen to what you have to say, sonny".
Here however I have learnt that wisdom can even sometimes be found in the opinion of a 17 year old female ameritard.
OK, its rare but it happens.
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# 22
2008-11-13, 09:40
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
It's nice being a female here because I can get somewhat anonymous sexual advice from guys. I can't think of anything in particular that I've learned, but then again, it is 3:39am. Goodnight.
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2008-11-13, 09:56
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
outcast: endless well of wisdom and thoughtfulness who really needs to come back here and post more often. if you happen to read this, I apologise I suck at emailing. One of the reasons I constantly request you return to post here.
arquin: crazy motherfucker who better come and meet me. He endeavours to teach me the importance of not giving a fuck and just having fun, but it's slow going.
milkygaybar: HURRY UP AND FUCKING VISIT ME YOU FAG. You're amazing and get me in a way few people ever have, you are on my wavelength in a crazy way. I appreciate you more than you know. <3 u!1!!!!
TwistedFerret: Frank, perculiar, devilishly interesting and disarmingly charming. Doesn't give himself nearly enough credit for what a bad ass dude he is.
Zoe:Confusing, incomprehensible, and sometimes thoughtless but with a heart of gold, she caring person who has never refused me help when I needed it (pretty impressive if you know me). If you're reading this; I haven't forgotten you, and hope you're well.
Shiva:Batshit crazy, nerdily supercool in a way no woman has a right to be. Always nice and caring and interesting and way fucking leftfield, it's awesome.
There's more but those are the most important. That I can remember. Right now.
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# 24
2008-11-13, 11:23
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
Nothing except maybe a little entertainment
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# 25
2008-11-13, 12:39
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
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Well, my first couple years in high school I was the guy who thought girls actually cared about one's personality and wouldn't care how I looked. Then I found S&A and realized that it's just so much more important to look good. (Having a good personality definitely helps, but looks are what gets you sex).
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sounds like you're still a virgin
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# 26
2008-11-13, 15:07
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
I think I have a fractured rib
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2008-11-13, 15:18
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
I think ive learned is that..guys really are as self conscious as girls, they a lot of times don't know what to say/do and are just as shy. Not as self assured as they lead on to be. Also hearing about others fucked up situations makes me happy I have the most wonderful guy ever...we all have our vices/downfalls and here you are able to tell others from your own experiences and hope they will listen to what will make them the happiest!
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# 28
2008-11-13, 15:21
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
Someone who is similar to me who I get on with. (chichi)
Have been able to see things through other peoples eyes which has in turn given me a greater understanding of myself.
Made one awesome thread entitled 'Have You Tasted Your Own Sperm?' ;P
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# 29
2008-11-13, 16:13
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Someone who is similar to me who I get on with. (chichi)
Have been able to see things through other peoples eyes which has in turn given me a greater understanding of myself.
Made one awesome thread entitled 'Have You Tasted Your Own Sperm?' ;P
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shut up you're 13
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# 30
2008-11-13, 16:23
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
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I think I have a fractured rib
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Someone kick the shit out of you?
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2008-11-13, 17:28 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
shiva was a girl I met on totse and was friends with for a couple years.
I didn't realise so many people knew Shiva. :( And here I thought I was special.
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2008-11-13, 18:00 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
One thing I've learned is that no matter what your problem is, "Stick it in her pooper" is always an answer.
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2008-11-13, 19:38 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
A lot of posters have grown as people over time. That has been something to see. :)
I learned quite the lesson from lauren2479, but it's really not one to be shared.
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2008-11-13, 20:19 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
Awwww. Cute thread is cute.
A lot of time I'll go to make a thread here, read everything I just wrote and realize how stupid I was being. Just typing out your problem gives you a chance to analyze it.
And even when I actually do post a problem, I always get a lot of good feedback. At the very least, someone puts a smile on my face and takes my mind off the issue briefly.
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2008-11-13, 20:36 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
Awwww. Cute thread is cute.
A lot of time I'll go to make a thread here, read everything I just wrote and realize how stupid I was being. Just typing out your problem gives you a chance to analyze it.
Yeah I was going to say that. Sometimes I'll start writing a new thread and by the time I get to the end I'll have already figured out the problem but usually I post it anyway because It's good to hear the people that can relate and gain some outsiders insight.
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2008-11-13, 23:26 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
The main thing I get from S&A is knowing that no matter how bad your problem seems, someone else's is worse and making fun of them lessens the pain.
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2008-11-13, 23:45 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
Someone kick the shit out of you?
Probably a scrum or ruck gone wrong.
Should know tomorro-ish.
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2008-11-14, 02:04 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
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The main thing I get from S&A is knowing that no matter how bad your problem seems, someone else's is worse and making fun of them lessens the pain.
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Ha!
You guys are here for me when I have lame questions I'd be too embarassed to asked my real life friends... |
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2008-11-14, 02:14 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
Ha!
You guys are here for me when I have lame questions I'd be too embarassed to asked my real life friends...
Holy shit, you're still around.
Where have you been?
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2008-11-14, 04:04 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
I've really enjoyed this forum. It's taught me a lot about people and relationships in general, especially how much people hide about themselves in daily life. Also how much people hide things from themselves. This forum is an interesting sort of social experiment for me, seeing the different viewpoints and types of advice.
This really is a hilarious place that I visit more than anything just to take in the odd dynamic and escape for a little while. A lot of the posts on here are just stupid shit to laugh at, but there's been a lot of good advice that's helped me in my own life. I've become so desensitized from my time reading this forum that it's become sort of an addiction. It's difficult/almost impossible to find people in real life who will say what they actually think; here's it's normal, even if the advice is as meme'd as 'stick it in her pooper' or 'get dome (head)' or 'don't poison her llama.' I have yet to find this kind of mix anywhere else.
I try to give back by posting helpful advice every so often. I've learned a lot here, and I sure as fuck benefited from the advice of other posters, so if anyone benefits from what I've posted then that's great. This is a community, after all.
And Sick_Boy, where did you go off to for so long?
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2008-11-14, 04:42 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
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A lot of posters have grown as people over time. That has been something to see. :)
I learned quite the lesson from lauren2479, but it's really not one to be shared.
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Actually, she was quite an awesome chick. Used to give killer advice, but pissed me off hardcore because despite being very intelligent she absolutely 100% refused to use any capital letters in her post. Is she still around?
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2008-11-14, 05:02 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
Actually, she was quite an awesome chick. Used to give killer advice, but pissed me off hardcore because despite being very intelligent she absolutely 100% refused to use any capital letters in her post. Is she still around?
And share your lesson dude. Unless it's something kinky.
She's gone from totse. She and I quit around the same time, but I came back after over a yearlong absence. I still talk to her, but it's been infrequent this semester. I was talking to her during Euda's time dating her. I can imagine the lesson you learned, Euda. I told her about this thread just now, so at least she knows it's here.
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2008-11-14, 05:57 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
I've learned to better analyze my problems. I believe I once asked if I should nail my psychotic bitch of an ex. You all said no (save for the poon-hounds). I ignored, and thus started quite a downward spiral in my life. Sometimes the advice given here is worth listening to...
I've also figured out how narcissistic i can be. I sometimes have the urge to bring up things in my life to overshadow some people's complaining in threads. I generally don't, because I realize how much of a cunt that would make me.
I love S&A. It shows me the spectrum of human interaction.
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2008-11-14, 08:07 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
The lesson doesn't much matter. It involves values, acceptance, communication, and one of the few regrets that I have in my life; if I could communicate it in an effective manner, I would. Every so often, I still talk to lauren2479. I'm sure that we would talk more, but we're both busy people at the moment.
Sick_boy has a good heart.
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2008-11-14, 08:29 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
Now that I think about it, S&A really is pretty incredible. Where else can you learn the things you've learned here? Thanks to this place I know stuff at my age that I could have only found out otherwise with years of experience. This is so cool :)
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2008-11-14, 11:43 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
Holy shit, you're still around.
Where have you been?
I thought the exact same thing. Of course nobody makes a fuss when I come back from a long Hiatus.
My fault for being born without tits.
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2008-11-14, 12:56 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
I thought the exact same thing. Of course nobody makes a fuss when I come back from a long Hiatus.
My fault for being born without tits.
Well, maybe you're just getting forgotten.
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2008-11-14, 13:10 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
Well, maybe you're just getting forgotten.
No it's the lack of tits.
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2008-11-14, 23:16 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
Turns out I'm healthy!!!
Yay!!
*lights a cigarette*
What? It's a celebration!
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2008-11-15, 00:21 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
Sick_boy has a good heart.
:)
I've been in a relationship for 2 1/2 years (just ended) and he would always look over my shoulder on totse and it bothered me. So I just kind of gave up on it. I also didn't really have any questions for you guys.
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I've been in a relationship for 2 1/2 years (just ended) and he would always look over my shoulder on totse and it bothered me. So I just kind of gave up on it. I also didn't really have any questions for you guys.
Sick_Boy, you faggot. you dissapeared. and wouldn't email me back. OMG I am going to write a thread called "What have you lost from S&A" and sticky it and YOUR name will be the first |
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2008-11-15, 00:48 |
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Before the regs opened in july, I would lurk just to see the myriad of personalities on S&A. Finally got the chance to contribute, but I still enjoy sitting back and watching personalities clash over legitimate issues, and that every guy on totse wants to fuck silverfuck.
Also, I met my best friend, GnosisX, here.
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2008-11-15, 03:19 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
and that every guy on totse wants to fuck silverfuck.
I have major suspicions her photos are fake.
Also she's too wise for her age. I'm just very skeptical.
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#54
2008-11-15, 03:23 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
i learned people are too concerned with sex and affection
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2008-11-15, 03:50 |
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I have major suspicions her photos are fake.
Also she's too wise for her age. I'm just very skeptical.
Do you want that I should post some sort of video sometime?
I'm just clever, is all.
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
Do you want that I should post some sort of video sometime?
I'm just clever, is all.
And by video you mean porn, right? Right?
Uhhh, that's a bit excessive, but if you think that proves it, yeah go for it.
Haha, a photo with your username + &t in it would prove it I guess, or prove you know that person. I'm confused.
I always associate 'incredibly smart female' with 'incredibly ugly deceitfulness'. Should probably stop that eh?
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2008-11-15, 04:11 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
And by video you mean porn, right? Right?
Uhhh, that's a bit excessive, but if you think that proves it, yeah go for it.
Haha, a photo with your username + &t in it would prove it I guess, or prove you know that person. I'm confused.
I always associate 'incredibly smart female' with 'incredibly ugly deceitfulness'. Should probably stop that eh?
I just don't like to have my credibility questioned. I post srs bsnss
You'd usually be right. But I was an ugly kid so I developed a personality and smarts as a coping mechanism. It was just a happy coincidence that I ended up not being incredibly ugly and deceitful. |
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It was just a happy coincidence that I ended up not being incredibly ugly and deceitful.
ha...that got a smile out of me so I guess you're off the hook for now.
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2008-11-15, 04:21 |
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I just don't like to have my credibility questioned. I post srs bsnss
You'd usually be right. But I was an ugly kid so I developed a personality and smarts as a coping mechanism. It was just a happy coincidence that I ended up not being incredibly ugly and deceitful.
It's just nice to know that being smart and good-looking are two traits that a girl can have at once. At least there are some of them out there. Just one more thing that S&A have given me. |
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2008-11-15, 04:26 |
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At least there are some of them out there. Just one more thing that S&A have given me.
You couldn't figure this lesson out in the real world?
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2008-11-15, 04:32 |
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You couldn't figure this lesson out in the real world?
They are very few and far between, so I always considered them anomalies.
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
They are very few and far between, so I always considered them anomalies.
Bull-fucking-shit.
I see smart hot girls everywhere I look, so you either live under a very sad rock or have standards even above my own (you don't).
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2008-11-15, 10:20 |
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Hi there, the name's Rykoshet.
Care for a cup of tea?
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2008-11-15, 15:44 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
Their definition of smart involves a depth of knowledge and passion for maths, sciences, computers, etc. It's pretty limiting, but everybody's different.
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Their definition of smart involves a depth of knowledge and passion for maths, sciences, computers, etc. It's pretty limiting, but everybody's different.
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2008-11-15, 16:29 |
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When you say "their" was that also directed at me?
No, I was referring to Osirius and Gnosis.
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#67
2008-11-15, 18:43 |
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No, I was referring to Osirius and Gnosis.
I wouldn't mind an in depth understanding of those things, but the girls down here are so.....Texas. All of those stereotypes you see in the movies, well, for the most part are pretty accurate. Some common sense and reasoning skills are really all that is required for me.
Hard decisions for them include what top goes with those jeans, whether their shoes match their purse, and if daddy is going to get me a new car.
GnosisX's girl is actually quite smart, going for a nursing degree,and would actually know what what to do with it.
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
I wouldn't mind an in depth understanding of those things, but the girls down here are so.....Texas. All of those stereotypes you see in the movies, well, for the most part are pretty accurate. Some common sense and reasoning skills are really all that is required for me.
Hard decisions for them include what top goes with those jeans, whether their shoes match their purse, and if daddy is going to get me a new car.
GnosisX's girl is actually quite smart, going for a nursing degree,and would actually know what what to do with it.
LOL you think you have it tough?
Here in Norfolk it would a 16 year old in shiny jogging trousers, half way down her arse, tramp stamp and cheap multi pack knickers on show....while she pushes her toddler around Super Saver.
And just looking at her you just know she's family...ie from the same village.
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2008-11-15, 19:35 |
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LOL you think you have it tough?
Here in Norfolk it would a 16 year old in shiny jogging trousers, half way down her arse, tramp stamp and cheap multi pack knickers on show....while she pushes her toddler around Super Saver.
And just looking at her you just know she's family...ie from the same village.
So... Why did you settle in Norfolk again?
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So... Why did you settle in Norfolk again?
The 24/7/365 liquid sunshine, the friendly natives and anyways I 'm related to almost everyone I meet...
"Family " is ritt big here.
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2008-11-15, 22:33 |
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Hard decisions for them include what top goes with those jeans, whether their shoes match their purse, and if daddy is going to get me a new car.
What hard decisions do you face?
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2008-11-16, 19:03 |
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I learned that we all have issues...
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
Do you want that I should post some sort of video sometime?
I'm just clever, is all.
Post a picture of yourself holding up some paper saying Hi to me and then confirming who you are. :D
You would be the 4th totse girl to do that for me. It's sort of my thing.
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2008-11-17, 01:21 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
Post a picture of yourself holding up some paper saying Hi to me and then confirming who you are. :D
You would be the 4th totse girl to do that for me. It's sort of my thing.
Man are you ever lame.
THIS VIDEO (http://www.makemesuper.com/r.php?i=3_4b9cb-171728-f-Girl) more than proves Silverfuck (http://www.makemesuper.com/r.php?i=3_4b9cb-171728-f-Girl) really is who she says.
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2008-11-17, 01:52 |
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proof
Well...fuck...who can argue with that? I guess she really IS who she says she is.
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#76
2008-11-17, 09:27 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
Man are you ever lame.
THIS VIDEO (http://www.makemesuper.com/r.php?i=3_4b9cb-171728-f-Girl) more than proves Silverfuck (http://www.makemesuper.com/r.php?i=3_4b9cb-171728-f-Girl) really is who she says.
I'm convinced.
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2008-11-17, 12:02 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
THIS VIDEO (http://www.makemesuper.com/r.php?i=3_4b9cb-171728-f-Girl) more than proves Silverfuck (http://www.makemesuper.com/r.php?i=3_4b9cb-171728-f-Girl) really is who she says.
You know what I love about totse? The fact that you can come back from a 2 year hiatus and know immediately who the girls are by the unabashed adoration they receive.
Ryko "NO MAN!! She has like a really great personality and stuff, and she makes good posts!!!"
You guys keep telling yourself that's why you respond to every little thing she says. There's a lot of easier ways to get your dick wet then fawning over some girl you'll never meet.
Also that video is really fucking disconcerting.
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2008-11-17, 13:36 |
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Xiao Mei was fucking awesome and helped me alot whatever happened to her?
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Dood I've been here this whole time!:P |
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2008-11-17, 13:55 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
Dood I've been here this whole time!:P
Are your kids still alive?!
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2008-11-17, 15:40 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
I've gained absolutely nothing from S&A.
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2008-11-17, 16:07 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
Are your kids still alive?!
Well you know, one has to have priorities.:P
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#82
2008-11-17, 16:34 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
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I've gained absolutely nothing from S&A.
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New Arrival"
.... what?
Uhhh... personally, I think what I have learned here is not so much in the advice people give, but conclusions that can be drawn by observing the course of (some) threads. Not meaning to take anything away from the efforts that people make, but a lot of the advice is either blindingly obvious (I know, sometimes that's necessary) or a ctrl+c, ctrl+v from some DeAngelo article. Some of the stuff that comes from personal experience is genuinely helpful though... What I like most about S&A is the fact that it's pretty much anonymous, but there is still kind of a sense of community. Also, like some other people have said, there are things you can learn here that might otherwise take years to figure out IRL. That's it for now. |
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2008-11-17, 16:59 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
Well you know, one has to have priorities.:P
Ha, it's good to hear. I had to check you crazy lady.
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2008-11-18, 09:32 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
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I've gained absolutely nothing from S&A.
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#85
2008-11-18, 22:06 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
rabitweed is a chill guy
S&A ahs alwayss been their for us!
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#86
2008-11-19, 03:44 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
Garfunkal: Took way too many pills, but always seemed to have the right answers and was always up for ripping the shit through carbonb.
i love that this is how my old account was remembered. good times, good times.
edit: i'm with arquin. im/perfect circle was a fucking top bloke with impeccable taste in fine scotch, literature, and women too, not to mention my favourite poster of all time.
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2008-11-19, 04:39 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
i love that this is how my old account was remembered. good times, good times.
edit: i'm with arquin. im/perfect circle was a fucking top bloke with impeccable taste in fine scotch, literature, and women too, not to mention my favourite poster of all time.
NO WAI!? You're back? Dude where did you go? Traveling?
And he was an epic poster.
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#88
2008-11-19, 04:46 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
NO WAI!? You're back? Dude where did you go? Traveling?
you could say that.. got even heavier into the round ones for a while.... then got over that whole stage and discovered the magic of LSD.... now asides from special occasions i steer clear of most of that. working full time and discovered that the hours are shorter when you're taking the piss out of people on the internet, so found my way back here =)
how's life been for you sunshine?
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#89
2008-11-19, 19:16 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
Taught me how to like takin it up the bum.
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#90
2008-11-21, 02:30 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
Different perspectives on all sorts of different things. The odd technique. Self esteem and knowledge that I can probably get laid a lot more. Knowledge that I am not as big a loser as I might think if I had lower esteem.
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2008-11-21, 20:42 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
I've learnt that S&A has a very repetitive cycle.
Guys complain totse is a sausage fest > girl reads totse > girl joins totse > girl makes it known she's a girl > bunch of horny desperate guys flock to girl > guys follow girl every where offering her sex > girl is flattered initially > guys continue to hound like dogs > girl gets creeped out > girl leaves totse > guys complain totse is a sausage fest.
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2008-11-21, 21:06 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
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I've learnt that S&A has a very repetitive cycle.
Guys complain totse is a sausage fest > girl reads totse > girl joins totse > girl makes it known she's a girl > bunch of horny desperate guys flock to girl > guys follow girl every where offering her sex > girl is flattered initially > guys continue to hound like dogs > girl gets creeped out > girl leaves totse > guys complain totse is a sausage fest.
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So do you sleep much or what? |
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#93
2008-11-21, 21:08 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
So do you sleep much or what?
I'm doing an all nighter so I can repair my sleep pattern tonight, OKAY MUM? Jesus!
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2008-11-21, 22:49 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
I'm doing an all nighter so I can repair my sleep pattern tonight, OKAY MUM? Jesus!
Last time I checked, the only thing all-nighters do is fuck shit up.
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2008-11-22, 04:47 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
Last time I checked, the only thing all-nighters do is fuck shit up.
This is true, because you went to bed at midday.
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#96
2008-11-22, 12:01 |
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This is true, because you went to bed at midday.
There's this thing called "time zones".
Look into it, it's an interesting concept.
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2008-11-22, 14:55 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
There's this thing called "time zones".
Look into it, it's an interesting concept.
lol we live in the same timezone.
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#98
2008-11-22, 22:57 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
Sick_Boy, you faggot. you dissapeared. and wouldn't email me back. OMG I am going to write a thread called "What have you lost from S&A" and sticky it and YOUR name will be the first
What? I thought I've answered whenever you've emailed me. Maybe you should try again. You know I loves you. |
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2008-11-22, 23:00 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
What? I thought I've answered whenever you've emailed me. Maybe you should try again. You know I loves you.
Want a part in the Totse Calendar, for old times' sake?
I remember the days when you used to be the sex symbol of S&A.
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#100
2008-11-22, 23:31 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
Want a part in the Totse Calendar, for old times' sake?
I remember the days when you used to be the sex symbol of S&A.
Meh. I don't think I have a suitable (recent) picture. Let another totse chica have her chance in the calender.
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2008-11-22, 23:35 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
Meh. I don't think I have a suitable (recent) picture. Let another totse chica have her chance in the calender.
Ok, no worries.
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#102
2008-11-23, 17:49 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
Ketch has always given solid advice, most of which has helped in one way or another.
Heres to you Mr Ketch.
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2008-11-24, 02:16 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
it's given me a mild, temporary depression that subsides after i stop reading through the threads.
i never realized how many fucked up situations people put themselves in with relationships and sex.
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2008-11-24, 19:26 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
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it's given me a mild, temporary depression that subsides after i stop reading through the threads.
i never realized how many fucked up situations people put themselves in with relationships and sex.
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Yeah. I wish relationships in real life were the way relationships are in movies.
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2008-11-24, 19:36 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
sounds like you're still a virgin
nah, I was til I was 17 though :( much later than a lot of my friends.
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2008-11-24, 20:33 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
Yeah. I wish relationships in real life were the way relationships are in movies.
*sigh* :(
If they were I'd punch a lot more women in the face.
Thankfully it's nothing like the movies.
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2008-11-25, 09:40 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
If they were I'd punch a lot more women in the face.
Thankfully it's nothing like the movies.
That's why the movie "The Rules of Attraction" when Sean Bateman smashes Lara in the face. <3 Epic realism.
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#108
2008-11-26, 21:47 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
Lulz, mostly. I browse through here all the time looking at people who've fucked themselves over in relationships, or who don't have the confidence to do something. I've been direct with my romantic relationships thus far, so most of this is foreign to me.
Gratitude that I'm actually in the kind of relationship most of you cynics claim is impossible is the most valuable thing S&A has given me though.
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#109
2008-11-27, 06:16 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
There was a shit load of help before this and after this that I can't find. A while later he became a mod, went crazy, send a last few emails then deleted his email/totse accounts and has been gone ever since. Any way, enough of a tangent.
Has any one here had a totse mentor? (for lack of a better word)
Do you have the post of yours that imperfect circle was replying to? This really seems to apply to me right now.
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2008-11-27, 15:33 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
Do you have the post of yours that imperfect circle was replying to? This really seems to apply to me right now.
It's on the first page, look for a huge block of text.
Thing is, it wasn't only one post, it was on going advice. There are 3 posters here that as time goes on I realize offer extremely good advice as well.
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2008-11-27, 23:10
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
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It's on the first page, look for a huge block of text.
Thing is, it wasn't only one post, it was on going advice. There are 3 posters here that as time goes on I realize offer extremely good advice as well.
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Awww, thanks man.
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# 112
2008-12-03, 02:37
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
I learned how to shave my pubes!
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# 113
2008-12-03, 05:53
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I learned how to shave my pubes!
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I'm still waiting to hear how to shave mine into a heart.
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2008-12-03, 06:56
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
Advice usually.
And lulz. Although I think totse in general has taught me quite a bit. What exactly I can't think but I know it has.
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2008-12-04, 07:51
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
S&A has givin me a place to express my thoughs with the only downside as being shot down by random people who are bored.
It's also givin me a place to reqad some runny stories and gain some insight.
From my small time here, these are the people whos oppinions i respect.
*Arquin
*Chi Chi
*voodoonirvana
*Malkog
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2008-12-04, 10:12
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
proper advice on how to eat a girl out/break her in for the first time.
helped lots guys, appreciate it.
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2008-12-04, 10:48
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
Also, what the fuck...
I'd be a girlfriendless, never-been-kissed, virgin if not for S&A. It totally transformed this aspect of my life.
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2008-12-04, 11:02
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
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I'd be a girlfriendless, never-been-kissed, virgin if not for S&A.
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srsly?
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# 119
2008-12-04, 11:07
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Yeah man, I didn't start posting here until I got all those things out of the way.
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#120
2008-12-06, 03:12 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
I gained a great deal of cathartic enjoyment from seeing that there are much bigger losers than me out there.
My self confidence has skyrocketed.
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# 121
2008-12-06, 08:01
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
I've gained a few half-erect moments whilst reading...
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# 122
2008-12-06, 18:10
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
Satisfaction when I'm feeling down.
Just to see that there's someone in a much worse position than me.
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# 123
2008-12-09, 01:04
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
Mad lolz. Perspective on relationships outside of my own, and also on basic human nature. (Sometimes hilarious/terrifying) insight into underlying thought processes people experience during different relationship dynamics. Reinforcement/reaffirmation of my own values.
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# 124
2008-12-10, 03:47
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
Jakketch - I enjoy your posts quite a lot. Thanks for your insight when I asked a question and you gave me a perfectly straight answer beyond what the average poster said
Silverfuck - I find your advice to quite insightfull.
General Female posters. Insight into the opposite sex.
I really like this Forum but, I feel that I should post more or at least roam more.
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# 125
2008-12-12, 08:44
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Board resident psycho-lunatic
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
I absorbed information for 2 years and 2 years ago I bagged me a virgin. My wife is great.
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# 126
2008-12-14, 15:36
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
The knowledge that the population on totse doesn't know an ear hole from an asshole, and should be sterilized for the benefit of the human race.
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# 127
2008-12-14, 15:48
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Groovy.
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
Quote:
Originally Posted by JoJo
The knowledge that the population on totse doesn't know an ear hole from an asshole, and should be sterilized for the benefit of the human race.
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What does that say about the rest of the world?
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# 128
2008-12-14, 15:56
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
Quote:
Originally Posted by Agent 008
What does that say about the rest of the world?
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It doesnt say anything about the rest of the world if i was talking about the rest of the world i would of said "totse and the rest of the world" you cant compare an internet forum where the average age of the user is 12 and the I.Q level isnt far behind to the world.
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# 129
2008-12-14, 17:04
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Groovy.
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
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Originally Posted by JoJo
It doesnt say anything about the rest of the world if i was talking about the rest of the world i would of said "totse and the rest of the world" you cant compare an internet forum where the average age of the user is 12 and the I.Q level isnt far behind to the world.
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According to the preview of the Totse Census '08, the median age of a totsean is 19: http://www.totse.com/community/showt...6#post10753246
Also, an average Totsean is interested in information and learning - that's what Totse is all about, and otherwise this "totsean" would quickly lose interest.
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# 130
2008-12-14, 17:24
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
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Originally Posted by Agent 008
According to the preview of the Totse Census '08, the median age of a totsean is 19: http://www.totse.com/community/showt...6#post10753246
Also, an average Totsean is interested in information and learning - that's what Totse is all about, and otherwise this "totsean" would quickly lose interest.
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Cmon man, you know it and i know it the population of serious posters and the "i was one sperm away from being crumpled into a tissue and flushed away to my watery grave" is ridiculous, that census can say whatever it wants but you would be a fool to trust everything you read, to say an average Totsean is interested in information and learning is a god damn dirty lie, seriously look at the front page with such educational articles such as "how to fuck up a mail box" and "how to play fisties" and lets not forget the all inspiring "strange ways to smoke weed" and if thats not enough take a trip to our professors at the Bad Ideas section...
Face it man i love this place as much as the next but to doubt that 90% of the people here a borderline retarded is just ignorant.
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2008-12-14, 17:34 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
Cmon man, you know it and i know it the population of serious posters and the "i was one sperm away from being crumpled into a tissue and flushed away to my watery grave" is ridiculous, that census can say whatever it wants but you would be a fool to trust everything you read, to say an average Totsean is interested in information and learning is a god damn dirty lie, seriously look at the front page with such educational articles such as "how to fuck up a mail box" and "how to play fisties" and lets not forget the all inspiring "strange ways to smoke weed" and if thats not enough take a trip to our professors at the Bad Ideas section...
Face it man i love this place as much as the next but to doubt that 90% of the people here a borderline retarded is just ignorant.
Well, I don't think we'll have a decent argument on this, since it's all purely subjective.
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#132
2008-12-14, 17:38 |
JoJo
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
Well, I don't think we'll have a decent argument on this, since it's all purely subjective.
really ? your your saying you don't agree what anything i said at all in my post, not one thing at all ? we may not have a decent argument but what about your personal opinion ?
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#133
2008-12-14, 17:57 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
really ? your your saying you don't agree what anything i said at all in my post, not one thing at all ? we may not have a decent argument but what about your personal opinion ?
Well, from my experience here, a lot of totseans try to consider different viewpoints and make a decision for themselves - and not just try to "fit in" into the crowd. Very often people in real life accept things without questioning them, and if they have non-conventional thoughts on a subject, very often they wouldn't talk about it and share it.
Sure, there is a lot of trolling around, but if you filter that out, even in bad ideas, you get interesting information, ideas, and viewpoints.
Smarter or not, this place has a high concentration of interesting people.
But, as I said, it's all subjective.
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#134
2008-12-14, 18:16 |
JoJo
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
Well, from my experience here, a lot of totseans try to consider different viewpoints and make a decision for themselves - and not just try to "fit in" into the crowd. Very often people in real life accept things without questioning them, and if they have non-conventional thoughts on a subject, very often they wouldn't talk about it and share it.
Sure, there is a lot of trolling around, but if you filter that out, even in bad ideas, you get interesting information, ideas, and viewpoints.
Smarter or not, this place has a high concentration of interesting people.
But, as I said, it's all subjective.
All i asked for was you own personal opinion but you the kind of person that will never give their own opinion without trying to mask it in a sea of bullshit to make it seem like they are on the outside looking in why cant you just say "no you wrong the majority is intelligent and do make decent posts" or simply just agree with me... but no instead you never once say your own personal feeling towards the subject its always "in my experience" some kind of 3rd persons point of view, and the one time you do the word "I" your totally wrong there is nothing subjective about it you look at the comparison of intellectual posts compared to "stupid" posts how is that subjective ?
but you know considering its all subjective, my post in this forum on this website is just subjective so take no notice.
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#135
2008-12-18, 06:14 |
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Re: What have you gained from S&A?
What have you gained from it?
Endless amusement and discussion regarding things both inane and substantive. I also gained a place where I could share my struggles with maturing emotionally and sexually and garner advice and guidance along the way.
Learnt any valuable lessons?
Be careful who you take advice from.
Any posters who gave you priceless information?
Not going to name posters, but many folks on here taught me exactly how NOT to have a good life. Thanks to them, I've found a wonderful life. I've learned to never cheat, to not lie, to not manipulate, to not hide from mistakes, to not herald sex as the miracle cure for all of life's problems, to not let fear get the best of me, to not let past hurts rule my present actions, to not get women drunk to make them easy, and so on. So, SnA, thank you for showing me the more common pitfalls of life.
As to those who encouraged me to do right, thank you Vampire Archimiel, imperfect circle, Infrared (underneath your junky exterior beats a heart of true compassion, I just hope you live long enough to see yourself as the good man I see in ya...if you read this Tom, much love my brother), Euda, jackketch
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