SO... First day of school I randomly walked beside to this girl in the hall and inquired what her nationality was. She was laotian and we had a little talk. I'm white and extremely attracted to asian girls, almost exclusively. Second encounter with this girl was a month later or so, but didn't have much to say. Third encounter was brief, just a watsup? the way she responded suggested she liked me, and I gave her a red hersheys kiss. I think I have a good chance with her since i'm a few years older (she is freshman, I am senior) and was voted the most unique person in school.

My problem isn't approaching her or anything. The only reason I hesitate is because I don't have anything good to say or rather the know-how to talk to girls. I'm a little limited because it would have to be in a school environment, probably around her friends if in the lunchroom. My goal for now is getting her contact, so I can converse with her outside of school. So any suggestions on I how should I go about doing that?

You- Hey what class do you have next.
Her- Mr. Smith, Algebra 1
You- I had him, he was a douche bag
Her- Yeah, he's such a hard grader and always gives us so much homework
You- haha, yeah. So what you doing this weekend? Any plans?
Her- Nothing really, just hanging with some friends
You- Well I might be going to a party if you want to come
Her- That sounds cool
You- What's your number? I'll give you a call this weekend.


Use your imagination. You're 17 maybe 18 and you don't know how to start a conversation, maybe you should just murder/suicide.

But.. but.. it's not in my nature to call peoples douchebags! I don't want her to get the impression that im a judgemental person by doing that.

I think i'll ask her how her day was, what class next, etc. and then ask if she has an instant messenger. Would that work? what if she doesn't have one? as slim as those odds may be..

But.. but.. it's not in my nature to call peoples douchebags! I don't want her to get the impression that im a judgemental person by doing that.

I think i'll ask her how her day was, what class next, etc. and then ask if she has an instant messenger. Would that work? what if she doesn't have one? as slim as those odds may be..

You're overthinking this. Way overthinking this. Girls are people, talk to her like you would any other person. Be interested in what she has to say and be interesting yourself. Don't look for a magic script which will help you get her because if you have to follow a script then she's going to like it not you if you do get together. Grow some balls while you're at it.

You're overthinking this. Way overthinking this. Girls are people, talk to her like you would any other person. Be interested in what she has to say and be interesting yourself. Don't look for a magic script which will help you get her because if you have to follow a script then she's going to like it not you if you do get together. Grow some balls while you're at it.

I already know that. I'm not looking for some magical script, i just want some speech guidelines and tips. I have the confidence to strike up random conversations with girls, but the problem is I don't have much to say. Much that comes to my mind, i think is cliche.

I can't believe this is actually a thread.

I was giving an example. You take what I said and put it into your own perspective. Maybe she'll bring up a class/teacher you liked. It was just a basic guideline to start a simple conversation. But it'd be best to just get her number, just text her, if you have unlimited that is. She most likely will, because she is a female in high school.