So basically I've just started smoking weed. I love it, can't believe it took me this long to try it :D. Anyway I really don't think my gf would approve of this. And I don't know what to tell her when I'm going to get high.

Its not really something I want to mention because I have a sister (huge bitch) who would probably tell my parents... which would lead to all sorts of problems.

I don't know if I should keep hiding it, or tell her what I have just started doing. So far I've only smoked 3 times, but its something I don't plan on giving up.

Don't lie about it, just tell her. Tell her you're not going to quit but if she doesn't approve of it you'll make an effort to not be high around her. I don't see what your sister has to do with it.

Don't smoke weed and date girls when you're 12.

tell her if she doesn't like it she can split.

I've been on a "don't ask, don't tell" policy with my girlfriend for that past 8 months.

If I can do it, you can too.

I don't see what your sister has to do with it.

I don't want my parents to find out. Right now I don't really want a lot of people to know that im smoking, and things will eventually get back to my sister. Which will get me in trouble.

How should I bring up my use to my gf?

And telling her that its something I'm going to do, I wont be high around her (couldn't drive or do anything anyways) and that yeah she can split if she doesn't like it.

Let's get high!!!

Let's get high!!!

I've jokingly told her we should smoke a bowl a couple times. And she told me she wouldn't drink :(. She's very straight edged, who knows maybe I can change her.

I've jokingly told her we should smoke a bowl a couple times. And she told me she wouldn't drink :(. She's very straight edged, who knows maybe I can change her.

My girlfriend bitched me out for over a year and a half for smoking/doing psychedelics. I never stopped and would explain to her that I was being smart about my use, and I wasn't going to stop. One day I finally got her to take a tab of acid with me and it completly opened up her eyes... now, she'll smoke/drink/trip with me at anytime. Its definatly possible to change a woman... it just might take some time.

Tell her before she disregards smoking weed completely she should at least try it ONCE so she can have her own oppinion about it. I guarentee after that one time she'll open up her eyes a little bit. Althought you said she straight edge which means shes either 14, a hardcore kid or both... in which case it might take a few years for her to grow up/for the stupid straight edge hardcore fag trend to end.

lolsrs? Haha I'm 15, and I don't see the appeal in smoking weed. So if you're really 12, you're really on the wrong path.

Weed has some bad long-term effects, such as liver failure and brain shit (that's when your brain turns into shit). Don't let some pot-smoking asshole tell you otherwise, either, cause he or she is probably too stoned to think straight anyway

Tell her before she disregards smoking weed completely she should at least try it ONCE so she can have her own oppinion about it.

True (maybe tries since my first time sucked). In all fairness she can't judge my use of something if she has no real opinion on it. Its funny cause her sisters drink and probably smoke which might make her more close minded about trying it - but more tolerant with it. One way to find out!

And I think she really would enjoy it, she's not the quiet type.

lolsrs? Haha I'm 15, and I don't see the appeal in smoking weed. So if you're really 12, you're really on the wrong path.

Weed has some bad long-term effects, such as liver failure and brain shit (that's when your brain turns into shit). Don't let some pot-smoking asshole tell you otherwise, either, cause he or she is probably too stoned to think straight anyway

lol pass the blunt nigga

I'd say you should be open with her about it, and if she doesn't like it , or at least accept it then you guys have some moral debates anyways!

Make hash oil and put a few drops in a cigarette and get her to smoke it
Then she'll know what she's missing and probably fuck you

lolsrs? Haha I'm 15, and I don't see the appeal in smoking weed. So if you're really 12, you're really on the wrong path.

Weed has some bad long-term effects, such as liver failure and brain shit (that's when your brain turns into shit). Don't let some pot-smoking asshole tell you otherwise, either, cause he or she is probably too stoned to think straight anyway

your a shitty troll

lolsrs? Haha i'm 15, and i don't see the appeal in smoking weed. So if you're really 12, you're really on the wrong path.

Weed has some bad long-term effects, such as liver failure and brain shit (that's when your brain turns into shit). Don't let some pot-smoking asshole tell you otherwise, either, cause he or she is probably too stoned to think straight anyway

Oh my god you changed my entire life! I'm totally giving up weed in fear of brain shit!

If you tell her, don't expect her to be stoked. She'll think of you as a trashy stoner from now on. The relationship will end over it or you'll be forced to choose.

Clairvoyant Malkog is in all week.

agree

just hide it from her like everyone else does from everyone else.

I've jokingly told her we should smoke a bowl a couple times. And she told me she wouldn't drink :(. She's very straight edged, who knows maybe I can change her.

You dumbshit, if she wont touch alcohol you have NO CHANCE in HELL of that.
Chances are you two are splitting... up...

My sister is available you know.

Definitely, without a doubt, LIE LIE LIE about it.

I dated a girl for 4 years who was adamantly opposed to marijuana, so I simply never told her, and did it behind her back. I kept it from her, from my parents, from everyone except the dudes I smoked with. Really, it's not hard at all to hide. Our relationship eventually ran its natural course and we broke up, but we're still friends today, several years later... and to this day, she still has absolutely no clue that I smoke.

My girlfriend lets me do whatever I want with my own body. If your girlfriend won't, then ditch her.

Seriously. It's just weed. It's not like you're using drugs.

Well it will eventually come to her since my friends know who will eventually tell her friends...

I'm not going to lie about it, but I'm not gunna tell her about it either. If she finds out and dumps me then good riddance, nobody can force me to do something/not do something with my body. If she finds out and is cool with it then there's no problem at all. And since I haven't been directly lying to her then its all good.

Basically if she doesn't ask I won't tell, and if she does have a problem - bye bye :D

And since I haven't been directly lying to her then its all good.


Hahahaha. Oh dear.

Don't bring it up unless it comes up. If it comes up don't show any signs of remorse or guilt. Don't be a dick but make it essentially clear in how you handle it that she's the only one that has a 'problem' with you using weed. Any perceived guilt on your part will just convince her that she's right and that weed is bad and you shouldn't be smoking it. If you don't care and laugh at her overreacting, she'll be initially be very pissed, and perhaps not talk to you, but unless she's likely eventually come around... because using weed responsibly really ins't a bit deal, and almost anyone with sense tends to get that. Though she's still entitled to not want to date you if she sees you as a 'druggie' or whatever.

Short version: more or less what's already been said by everyone else.

lolsrs? Haha I'm 15, and I don't see the appeal in smoking weed. So if you're really 12, you're really on the wrong path.

Weed has some bad long-term effects, such as liver failure and brain shit (that's when your brain turns into shit). Don't let some pot-smoking asshole tell you otherwise, either, cause he or she is probably too stoned to think straight anyway

You're retarted.

You're retarted.

*facepalm*

lolsrs? Haha I'm 15, and I don't see the appeal in smoking weed. So if you're really 12, you're really on the wrong path.

Weed has some bad long-term effects, such as liver failure and brain shit (that's when your brain turns into shit). Don't let some pot-smoking asshole tell you otherwise, either, cause he or she is probably too stoned to think straight anyway

STFU acolyte.

And since I haven't been directly lying to her then its all good.

This works with:

Cheating
Drinking
Eating trans-fat
Not brushing your teeth
Masturbating
Skipping work

...for all I care you could whack up some hammer straight into the veins of your dick and I'd give you the thumbs up. Uppers, downers, psychs and dissociatives, they're all good. But...

..if you'd of been smoking pot before you met your girlfriend and now she wanted you to stop, I'd tell you to get on your little horse that could and do the rebel act "I wont let some woman be the boss of me, I am my OWN mother fucking man god damnit bitch!". You know the drill. But you weren't smoking before you met her. So she DOES have the right to break up with you when she finds out. It's also bad if you lie to her about your habits. Be a big man and tell her you smoke, find out how she feels about it, compromise, never smoke before you see her or let the relationship change because of drugs but most importantly don't be a little bitch if she breaks up with you because of it. You're a big man now, remember?

Oh and be a responsible smoker. Don't be that little fuck who's like "Man I'm so high right now" and don't try and get her to smoke pot.

The gateway is open, get some LSD or mushrooms. And heroin. Happy days.

lolsrs? Haha I'm 15, and I don't see the appeal in smoking weed. So if you're really 12, you're really on the wrong path.

Weed has some bad long-term effects, such as liver failure and brain shit (that's when your brain turns into shit). Don't let some pot-smoking asshole tell you otherwise, either, cause he or she is probably too stoned to think straight anyway

Your fucking stupid!

And what kind of person can't drive on weed?

I don't want my parents to find out. Right now I don't really want a lot of people to know that im smoking, and things will eventually get back to my sister. Which will get me in trouble.

How should I bring up my use to my gf?

And telling her that its something I'm going to do, I wont be high around her (couldn't drive or do anything anyways) and that yeah she can split if she doesn't like it.


Lol, Your Parents will find out eventually. If you tell two people... They will find out. Its a matter of time.

Have fun while your friends know, then your enemies know... Then your sister knows.. Then your parents know..Then your Therapist/Rehab Knows..

Ok so almost everybody has told me that I should straight out tell her. How should I bring this up in a normal way, which would allow us time to talk about it. So not like over the phone but say I'm at her house or something... which is also hard cause all she wants to do is make out (good/bad.)

Basically I want to tell her what I'm doing, but don't know the best way to tell her. Anybody have experience with this? And I've only done it 3 times so I can't see her getting too pissed about doing it behind her back.

And my friend is a new driver, isn't supposed to drive other people (gay law), and fuck I'm not going to push him to do it if he doesn't feel comfortable with it - that would detract from the whole responsible user thing.

So basically I've just started smoking weed. I love it, can't believe it took me this long to try it :D. Anyway I really don't think my gf would approve of this.


LOL!! Listen to me dude! Are you whipped? Do you want be whipped? Your gf isn't your mom or your sister who could get you into trouble. just be like "fuck off bitch, i'm the man of the relationship. If you don't like it leave." -I'd advise fucking her before your outburst though, unless she's ass-ugly.
Please don't be whipped.

How should I bring this up in a normal way, which would allow us time to talk about it. So not like over the phone but say I'm at her house or something... which is also hard cause all she wants to do is make out (good/bad.)
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I thought she was straight edge.

I thought she was straight edge.

I'm pretty sure straight edgers can still make out.

OP, just include it casually in conversation like it's no big deal. Just be talking about your week or whatever then slip it in. Don't spend too much time on it and move on to something else.

She'll never even notice...

Tell her only if she ask directly or catch you smoking red-handed.

If she say "UGH pot smokers are so gross" , then keep it to yourself.



It's that simple....

I've jokingly told her we should smoke a bowl a couple times. And she told me she wouldn't drink :(. She's very straight edged, who knows maybe I can change her.

Never pressure someone to do any drug. They'll probably have a bad time on it and resent you. She will hate you if you use it to hook up with her too.

Yeah, more or less, IMO. If she asks you have to answer honestly ofcourse, or if it comes up and she expresses a dislike of it, it's an easy way to say "I don't think it's a big deal. Lots of people go out and pickle their brains with alcohol. Weed is actually far less dangerous, a person just has to excercise some consideration and understand their limits."

Though saying something like that will get her asking about your experience with pot. I can pretty much guarantee it. So if that's your plan have an answer to that question already thought out. The simpler and more spartan the better. She only really needs the facts (though I suppose you're free to alter/censor them however you like) Something like "Yeah, I find it can be nice at the end of a day to relax and get to sleep." Or it's something fun to do with your friends, I don't know, don't really overthink this. The simpler and more blunt/factual seeming the better. She asked a fairly explicit question by enquiring about your experience with drugs, so by all means, treat the subject as if it were just another subject, and nothing to be ashamed of.

Also, if you plan on keeping her, don't make it obvious you blaze, and make some efforts to hold your normal level of composure, etc. So then when she learns of it, and maybe gets mad at you, you can calmly say "Oh? I've been doing it for months now, and you only just noticed?" And chances are soon enough she'll realize it's not a big deal and will start blazing with you.

Most girls start off semingly anti-drug until their boyfriend 'converts' them (or maybe as another possibility, they just get cooler friends and it's normalized to them that way.) It's all about exposure. If you present it as safe and responsible, in controlled doses (if you talk about it a lot she'll think you're an addict, etc.), And if you're able to offer it to her in a safe and responsible setting, soon you'll have her blazing with you as if that's always how it's been... unless she's like a crazy mormon or someting.

Girls are really not that difficult in most cases. They'll adapt to the prevading 'tune' very readily. That's why (I could argue) that they often tend to buy so much into society's bullshit in the first place.

Your wording is a tad bit confusing. Is your girlfriend your sister?

me and my girlfriend quit smoking about 3 months ago for jobs and recently started again.

it kicks ass so make her do it.

you're really on the wrong path.

Weed has some bad long-term effects, such as brain shit

ohh rhly???

Fucking smarty pants !