Haven't posted here in a few weeks but I feel like I have a legitimate issue. Or maybe it's just me.

I feel like I have a hard time... balancing... sex and masturbation. See, if I wank it too much I have a hard time cumming when having sex with my girlfriend. It's like I don't even feel her pussy, like I've "desensitized" my dick. But on the other hand if I cut down on masturbating then I cum way too fucking fast, like to the point where I cum way before she does and then I have to try and stay "in the mood" and try to keep myself hard so I can get her off.

Maybe if I just stop masturbating altogether? Or maybe that would just make the "cumming too fast" even worse. I don't really know what to do I feel like it's starting to have an impact on my sex life.

Anyone else experience this? Or advice?

Murder/Suicide?

Cut out masturbating and learn how to breathe properly during sex. It'll help you last longer. It just takes practice. Take long, deep breaths instead of shorter ones. Try it next time and see if it works.

I can't imagine masturbation having that much of an effect on your sex life, but I'm a chick and don't really know much about penises. A huge part of it is probably psychological.

From a chicks point of view, I'd rather have a guy cum to quick then not at all. If you cum to quick, eat her out or finger her or something.

If you cum to quick, eat her out or finger her or something.

5char

A huge part of it is probably psychological.

Nope.

ive neve racutally had sex, but cant you cum, then keep fucking her?. when i masturbate and cum ill usually be back in the mood in 15 mins and its still pleasurable second time around.

ive neve racutally had sex, but cant you cum, then keep fucking her?. when i masturbate and cum i can usually masturbate ill usually be back in the mood in 15 mins and its still pleasurable second time around.

Nope.

I know what you mean but it's different when having sex for some reason.

I don't really know much about penises..

How true

Yeah I totally sympathize. I've found what really works is whacking it once earlier in the day, so you have a couple hours to recuperate, but you'll still be a little less eager to blow your load.

And whoever said it is right. I can totally jack it like 4 times in a row in 2 hours or less, but 4 sex sessions is my limit for the day, and that's if I spend all day in bed and I'm super horny. I'm guessing sex just takes way more effort and makes you way less horny.

You're all wankers.

How about you stop just before you're going to come, and eat her out for a while, then go for it again?

It takes time to get the timing right, - but she gets to come before you do, and you learn to control yourself.

The girls I've been with don't seem to like it, I've tried.

The girls I've been with don't seem to like it, I've tried.

Do they like it more when you blow your load in 5 minutes, and then lose interest while they're still not satisfied?

And you're not going to learn to last longer if you don't practice.