How do i convince my girl to not wear a condom during sex? She's on birth control. She's just scared of getting pregnant because she's the type that wouldn't get an abortion. But condoms suck so bad. So totse, how do I go about doing this?

By the way we're 17 and we've been together for a couple months. And we both don't have any STD s.

*doesn't help*

I don't want your spawn running around this earth.


*ObZ

Tell her what you told us?

If she is on birth control then explain to her that you hate using a condom and that using a condom and birth control is a little overkill and you hate sex with condoms.

Using more than one type of birth control is a good idea, but not always necessary.

Maybe she's scared of getting pregnant because you seem to be the kind of guy who would pressure her to get an abortion and wouldn't act like a man if she decided to keep it?

In all honesty i dont think there is much you can do to convince her otherwise :(.

However a compromise might be to use 'sensitive' (e.g extra thin) condoms.

How do you know you're both really std free? Did you take a test? If not have both of you take the tests to assure her. If that dosen't work you can maybe wheedle one or two times without a condom out of her if you promise to pull out before you ejaculate.

There's always anal.

Why doesn't she try a diaphragm or cervical cap? You can have sex without condoms, but she will still feel safer having a barrier method to protect her from getting pregnant.

I agree, go get tested together. I think it sounds like you have a smart girlfriend, a keeper :)

You may know you don't have STD's but she doesn't know you aren't full of it or just guessing that you don't. Trust and love and all that are beautiful but there's also something called common sense and self preservation. Suggest that you both go get tested together so you can know that you are both being smart and safe.

And yes, offer to pull out. (and actually do it)

For the record, I would like to equate those to making love to a warm, damp, trash bag.

Why not just start a world record breaking attempt to use the most condoms ever. Keep them all in a basket afterwards.

For the record, I would like to equate those to making love to a warm, damp, trash bag.

Damn, boner killer.

Damn, boner killer.

Whatever man, It's better then tinfoil.

Have you tried these?

http://images.google.ca/images?q=female%20condom&ie=UTF-8&oe=utf-8&rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official&client=firefox-a&um=1&sa=N&tab=wi

For the record, I would like to equate those to making love to a warm, damp, trash bag.

Are you sure you're not thinking of the female condom? The cervical cap and diaphragm are both little rubber cups that go over the cervix. Nothing trash-baggy about that.

pooper

Um, the pill isnt perfect, and you're retarded, so I'm with obsidian here.

*DrF

If you want her to not wear a condom, I guess you have bigger problems. Grammar is paramount.

Wear a fucking condom idiot. Do you want to be a father? You said that if she gets pregnant, she won't have an abortion (this makes you an instant father). What happens if she does get pregnant? Are you going to push for an abortion if she does get pregnant, because that sure as hell won't screw her up.

Be happy that you are 17 and getting laid. Condoms are pretty shitty, but fuck having a kid at 17 or 18. Try some ultra thin condoms or something, maybe you will like them better.

SECRETS OF THE PILL:
1) Just because she says she is on the pill and never misses one, doesn't mean shit when J.R. pops out.
2) Birth control can be ineffective due to other medications and substances. (Ask your girlfriend what she takes, then look it up online and what can cause it to be ineffective. Ask your girlfriend if she knew this and if she says no wear a condom still.)

Wear a fucking condom idiot. Do you want to be a father? You said that if she gets pregnant, she won't have an abortion (this makes you an instant father). What happens if she does get pregnant? Are you going to push for an abortion if she does get pregnant, because that sure as hell won't screw her up.

Be happy that you are 17 and getting laid. Condoms are pretty shitty, but fuck having a kid at 17 or 18. Try some ultra thin condoms or something, maybe you will like them better.

SECRETS OF THE PILL:
1) Just because she says she is on the pill and never misses one, doesn't mean shit when J.R. pops out.
2) Birth control can be ineffective due to other medications and substances. (Ask your girlfriend what she takes, then look it up online and what can cause it to be ineffective. Ask your girlfriend if she knew this and if she says no wear a condom still.)

Ya im gonna have to agree w/ this guy. Sex without a condom is fun, but it does have its dark sides. Having a miscarriage in your life doesnt help your relationship, or your sex life. I know from experiance.

Be grateful your getting any, and you should be glad shes so anti pregnancy. That means she is smart, which is hard to find in a girl. It also means shes not trying to "Trap" you......and there are girls out there that will do that.

Dont be a selfish prick and push your girl to do something she doesnt want to. Be the best boyfriend you can be and who knows!? Maybe one day she will love you/get so horny that she rips that condom right off! O what a treat eh?!

Try not to let this go in one ear and out the other, this thread is all about thinking with your cock. And a handful of guys here can vouch that once that starts happening........bad things are sure to follow

Have you ever heard of spermicidal gel u can buy at grocery store? my moms told me about them when i started fuckin bitches. She told me they work well with BC and thats why I don't have any little brothers or sisters.


I did that with all of my ex girlfriends that are on the pill and they now probably buy the shit for their new boyfriends to use.

I really don't understand why people think they are going to get pregnant while they are on birth control. I know it is possible, but it seems like a waste of money to buy and take something you don't think works..so wtf?

Babies cost more than birth control.

Birth control isn't 100% effective. So you morons out there that think that wearing a condom is poinless while your girl is on the pill are sorely mistaken.

It does work, but not perfectly. 2 methods are better than 1. And not having babies is definitely better than having babies.

Alcohol.

People who are saying "wear a condom you fuck" have probably never had sex.

I'd be more than willing to bet MOST people in this thread who have had sex never used more than one type of birth control, if any (in the case of the pullout method).

She sounds like a great girl, stop being a little cunt.

I know condoms suck, fuck, I've never used one till orgasm, but she's made it clear and you need to stop being selfish and accept that.

OP, listen here you little shit, I'm tired of you seventeen year stupid fucks not wanting to wear a condom because you want it to "feel good". I'm tired of all these fucking commercials on T.V. telling young shit mothers shown crying to call the hot line for help. And I'm tired of little shits running around, fucking bastard children.

You need to put that little chode pecker of yours back in your pants and do the world one favor, kill yourself. Your stupidity will ruin us all.

All of this because you're a horny fuck who can't control himself.

Murder your parents for raising you an idiot/suicide for being an idiot.

Ok, thank you.

Btw, I'm 19, been dating my girl for a year and a half, and almost always wear a condom when we fuck. She is also on birth control.

I know for a fact that she would abort if need be but why even risk it?

Of course we sometimes start sex without one but I almost always put one on in the end. And the times when I don't it's usually in the shower so I can pull out and not have to wash everything in my room.

Biggest reason that effectiveness drops below 99.5% is that the vast majority of people who "use birth control" are fucking morons who don't use it correctly. They include people who "forget" pills every other day as people using birth control.

Go get an STD test with her and see if she's willing to get one of the three month birth control injections.