Hey guys I need a lot help.

I took advantage of girl who wanted me basically she kept coming on to me and at the time I was 16 a virgin and never been in a relationship. She invited me over and we had sex. The problem is I didn’t find her attractive and only did it because I was desperate. I felt so horrible about it and haven’t seen her since. Now 4 year later I still feel bad and haven’t been with anyone, Its stopping me from trying to get in a relationship with anyone. I just don’t know what to do, if I don’t get over it I fear I will be by myself forever. The worst part is she was underage she wasn’t a virgin thought. I know that doesn’t make it right and there is no excuse for what I did. I’m just wondering is their I was I can get over these or am I going to feel bad for the rest of my life for this one tremendous mistake.





Spoonhead

uhm personally i dont see what the big deal is, sleeping with someone only because you are desperate not because you find her hot. but if it bothers you that much just call her up and apologize??

I dont see what the problem is here. I seriously think you need to get the fuck over it. Accept "YOUR" actions, and move on. It was 4 years ago. You fucked, up big deal!......you were horny. Dont do it again and learn from your mistakes.

You say you havnt been with anyone since then? Are you actually trying to hint that the Karma Gods have made you alone based off 1 bad decision you did with a girl? Grow up dude. You were 16, Your not the only guy here who was thinking with his dick at one point in his life.

no i don't think its karma but the way it makes me feel has stopped me trying. I know i need to get over it but i don't how. That is the problem.

If you're not trolling, you have problems.

You. Are. Ill.

troll

How old was she?

y am i a troll? she was 15

muder/suicide

Hey, that sounds exactly like me.


Except for the caring part.

Stop blaming the way you act now on things you've done in the past. You didn't do anything wrong. You wanted to fuck her, she wanted to fuck you. Unless you led her to believe something might come out of her spreading her legs for you, you shouldn't be thinking about this anymore. Go out there and get some action, man!

You're a good example for OP.

Sounds like she's the one who took advantage of you.

I fail to see what the problem is here? why care?

gtfo my totse u pussy

spermicidal lube for the win

Look at it this way...

She was underage, you were both horny...

You both got a fuck...She hasn't called the police and done you for statutory rape.

Win/win.

Now move on and stop being a big girl.

Just think about how she feels man. For the last four years she's had to deal with losing her virginity to some guy who didn't even care about her or find her attractive. Can you imagine what that would do for her self-esteem? She's probably quite a whore now, just because she craves the attention of guys in the hope that one of them will show her some affection. Do you understand what you've done? You've ruined this girl's life. And all because you wanted an easy fuck. Shame on you.

Hope that made it easier to deal with :D.

Oh my God you had sex with someone you didn't care about!?!? WHY!?