I get that there are lots of guys with a foot fetish. I'm a shoe monger, so I can appreciate it in a way. But I've never really been with a guy with a foot fetish until recently.


I have no idea how to "humor" him or whatever. I really like him though, and I am open, so I'd like to help him out, so to speak. I find it kind of funny and not sexy, but hey I can play along. I don't think I have to share his interests to humor him but I am curious exactly what is it that guys with a foot fetish would appreciate a girl doing for them?

I do keep my toes done and get pedicures, etc to make sure they are looking good, but as far as actual things we do together, what? I feel silly even suggesting anything because I don't know where sexy ends and ridiculous begins?

I have asked and he's clearly too embarassed to explain in detail. So hey since this is an anonymous forum, anyone care to elaborate and explain what gives with the foot thing exactly?

I have no idea......Footjob perhaps?

I have asked and he's clearly too embarassed to explain in detail.

he's too embarassed because he's afraid of ridicule. Can you guess why's that? It's because you're giving him an ambiguous feeling. He still has doubts whether he should tell you more about his foot fetish or not. I've been burned a few times by letting wrong girls know about this shit too soon, a mistake i'll never make again.

first up, it's srs business. There's nothing "ridiculous" about it until he begs you to shove your toes up his nostrils or someshit like that. If he does do that, dump him immediately.

anyway, here's what you need to do. Ask him about it and make him understand that you're ok with it. Avoid laughing or making jokes or any kind of remark that may make him feel like shit for having a simple-ass fixation. Try to get as much info about what he likes so that you know what to do and what not to do.

example: me, i have a foot fetish, but i fucking HATE seeing a chick's soles, i only like the top visible parts (i don't know how to explain this right) while there are guys out there that love soles. If he's like me, even though you'll show off your feet with the best intentions, the second you'll show your soles he'll cringe. Also, i for one don't like feet shoved in my face. Both figuratively and literally. But then again there are types of guys who like to be trampled on and like to have foot soles firmly pushed on their faces (fuck those people, goddamn savages).

always keep your legs clean and NEVER mention foot stench and all sorts of repugnant shit that no proper respectable woman would even think about.

wear stockings/ tights/ sexy socks. Depends on what he likes. Me - i like stockings most. Tights are so-so and sexy socks are good only if they're properly matched with the rest of the outfit. You can ask him up front what he likes and what he doesn't, or you can take the long way and test him with different stuff and see how he reacts.

let me know how it turns out.

No one fetish is the same. Some people like one part and not the other so taking someone elses advice is not going to help that much. Just sit down and tell him you really enjoy being with him and want to make it enjoyable but you are not sure what he would like. Explain you are not going to make fun of him, you just want to make him happy. There is no other way to do it, and you're going to have to talk about it eventually if it is part of your sex life.

Spunk in his shoes






(finally a thread where that fits the context)

Well I'm not the most coordinated girl on the block so if "foot job" means what I think it means, I'm afraid one of us would wind up injured or crying if I tried this? LOL

Longshot I'll try a bit more to talk with him sincerely about it, but he is convinced that this is "weird" and "gross" etc. I really don't think it's weird or gross at all, which is why I'd like to oblige. But I guess other people have convinced him otherwise and he doesn't believe me?

Spunk in his shoes. Hmm, I'll give that one I try? lol

Sit him down and talk to him. Let him know that you're interested in indulging his fetish, and you want to know exactly what you can do to turn him on.

As for finding it silly...That's totally okay. Sex doesn't have to be completely serious all the time. With time you'll start to find his foot fetish sexier, not because you like foot fetishists, but because you like turning him on.