I've been going to college for two years now. I'm athletic, decently attractive, and hit the party scene. I have not gotten any serious action besides making out with a few girls. I'm wondering if any of you other totseans in college are having better luck than I am? I think part of this is because of the region I live in. Its a good place to get a down to earth gf though.

yeah i know what you mean

the college i go to... well, there are SOME girls i could hook up with, but they're mostly the crazy types. not many i would consider for a casual fuck - it's a small school and there's no avoiding people, if i hooked up with a girl friday i'd definitely see her monday, and i'm not down with the crazy bitches

however there are some girls that could be considered gf material here

unfortunately i'm too too too picky when it comes to girls (she has to be hot, smart, and the cute-shy-intelligent type, but still socially capable - without coming off as loud or too talkative. yeah, good luck, right?)

but yeah i know what you mean. there are some girls that are full of sluts, some that aren't. do you go to a state school, or a private school? most loose girls go to a state school that's easy to get into

...there are some girls that are full of sluts...

I would watch that.


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nah i play MMORPG's theres no hope for me :D

but i dont give a fuck im satisfied with where im at and i dont need a vagina to stimulate and believe in myself.

the only penetration im doing is into my soul

Ahahahahhaha.
Your post reeks of sophomore in college. Try getting to know people before you judge them. If you give someone you are genuinely attracted to a chance then it might work out into a nice relationship.

Have you tried getting a gf too, or just hookups? I think you might find that actual hookups are pretty rare. I've discovered since being here that when most people say "Oh they totally hooked up last night" they just mean they made out or something, which is retarded.

But think about all the things that could stop two people at party from having sex. If she's on her period. If either one is too wasted. They both have to want to. They have to find a place at the party, or go back to one of their dorms. They have to have a condom (hopefully).

meh even the loosest girls I know have really only had sex with 3 or 4 guys.

wow...

the only penetration im doing is into my soul

fucking lol

love the name btw, BOOYAKASHA

If you're looking for a girlfriend, I wouldn't recommend starting at the party scene. Look in class, the library, extracurriculars, etc. Join an intramural sports team if you want, those leagues tend to be coed and everyone is just there to mess around and have fun.
For hookups, look no further than sorority girls they're easy as fuck. Seriously, just don't dress like a bum and enjoy yourself immensely at a house party or something. They will flock to you trust me.

Maybe your missing signals are just not seeing your "openings" with women there? You cant tell me you dont have at least one girl that pays special attention to you whenever she sees you/you see her?

In college its REALLY REALLY easy to talk to anyone in the class no matter what your first impressions are. I consider it like one big hippy circle everyone is friendly more than you think. Very easy to create a crowd of people who will greet you everytime you see each other.

College hookups are few and far between. The myth that it's easy to go out and get laid whenever is something that movies and music promote, but it's simply not true for most guys. The best thing to do is be less picky and get a girlfriend you can fuck whenever you want.

Not in my experience, I used to go out and go to the bar and pick up girls fairly easy at my last college. Now the school I go to is mostly a commuter school which makes things a lot harder.

It's easy just don't come off as a creep, and act genuinely interested in a girl at a party and you will have a good chance to hook up with them.

wow, i've been at college for 2 months and already have had 2 gfs (yes we fucked daily) and have made out with two others.

as somebody before me said its all about the right moment, which usually happens when the two of you have a few drinks in ya! the real thing to look for is a girl that you know is interested in you, i dont know but I can almost always tell when ill be gettin some, by the way she looks at me, acts around me...

Not in my experience, I used to go out and go to the bar and pick up girls fairly easy at my last college. Now the school I go to is mostly a commuter school which makes things a lot harder.

It's easy just don't come off as a creep, and act genuinely interested in a girl at a party and you will have a good chance to hook up with them.

I should've explained myself a little better. Obviously it's easy to get fat, nasty, or desperate girls. Getting quality, attractive girls is far more difficult simply based on the fact that they can be pickier and there are fewer of them around.

Also, if you spend most of your time focused on school then you'll be out partying less, thus decreasing your chances of getting with women.

I have no problems getting women. The hard thing is finding a quality girl you'd actually want to start a relationship with.

The bottom line is that you have to go out and try with all the girls you can. That's the recipe for success.

Go to house parties, throw your own house parties, act like you're having a good time. Don't get too shitfaced. Dress well, and stay with what you know works. Adderall and similar drugs (should be readily available in college) can make you more social.

Do everything right and you have a solid 30% chance of taking a girl home. At the slightest hint that one is not interested, move on to the next one and think nothing more of it. Do this Thursday, Friday and Saturday night and you're almost guaranteed to find a new girl every weekend.

I don't know that I would go as far to say as you would take a girl home 30% of the time, or that you'd find a new one every weekend, but it's solid advice. That shit is usually left up to chance. I find that the times I go out on a mission to bring a girl home I usually don't, but when I just go out drinking with friends I have better luck. Maybe that's why they call it "getting lucky".

I don't know that I would go as far to say as you would take a girl home 30% of the time, or that you'd find a new one every weekend, but it's solid advice. That shit is usually left up to chance. I find that the times I go out on a mission to bring a girl home I usually don't, but when I just go out drinking with friends I have better luck. Maybe that's why they call it "getting lucky".

If you arent able to find a chick over three days, you're doing something wrong.

nice guess! I am. yea the school is a commuter school. There are 3 girls there who are definitely have some interest in me and i chat them up in my classes. Ive pursued one of them a bit for a relationship but she was too materialistic for me. Hooking up was more of something i hoped for and less and less expect. I'm working on a girl at the neighboring university right now but thats obviously not a hook up.
Thanks everyone for you input

she was too materialistic for me

word man, word.

Ive pursued one of them a bit for a relationship but she was too materialistic for me.

this is why you're not getting any girls