So me and my now girlfriend (explained in another thread) have been participating in PDAs. I am not uncomfortable what so ever because i think "ill probably never see these people again and if i do i doubt theyll recognize me" but she gets uncomfortable when people see us. I always try to find a quiet, out of the way couch/seat on campus but there are people pretty much everywhere. The most we do is several kisses at a time(although we'll sit in the same spot for an hour or so), holding (i ussally have my arm around her back), and some touching/cuddling, but only when people arent paying attention. I am also not concerned because i like to think that the people are jealous of us. The reason for the PDAs is that it is much more comfortable and less awkward than in my truck (damn center console). Plus sometimes people even disturb us there (last time a cop shined his light at us, someone honked when i kissed her when i opened the door for her). I know it bothers her but i usually tell her not to worry about what the other people think and ask her if she wants to go somewhere else. I also always try to cover her up with her clothes if any skin happens to show.

Its not like we are full on making out, no tongue, kisses longer than a second or 2, or groping (although i do touch her lightly, but above the waist and when people arent directly looking).

We dont really have anywhere to go as we both commute and she borrows her grandmother's car which i doubt she wants to make out in.

She doesn't really love you... sorry.

Your/her Dorm?

Inb4 Suicide

Your/her Dorm?

Inb4 Suicide


We dont really have anywhere to go as we both commute and she borrows her grandmother's car which i doubt she wants to make out in.

5char

One day I was lucky enough to bring some speakers to school to play some music at lunch. I played this song for a young couple in the park:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rB0nZbNwm-8

And I'll always do it.

You're girlfriend's lame.

This is fucking college, no one is surprised to see people kissing.

Turn her on more. Seriously, the more turned on she is, the more likely she will do things she normally wouldn't. Like cheat on you.

I think it's a little too late to stop her from cheating.

We dont really have anywhere to go as we both commute and she borrows her grandmother's car which i doubt she wants to make out in.

Does the car smell like old lady or something? If not, then who cares?

Also, a 2 second or less kiss hardly qualifies as PDA.

If it's really a big deal, start walking around/driving around the area awhile until you figure out places you feel more comfortable in.

Also, a 2 second or less kiss hardly qualifies as PDA.


QFT!

PDA is more trying to eat each others tounges/faces. Have seen it before.

There's nothing wrong with it anyways. Play the bubble game. It worked with my ex.

The bubble game is essentially where you pretend that everything outside of the area around the two of you doesnt exist. And you gradually move from a completely private place to more public places. Remember don't lose grip on reality and start humping like jackrabbits out in public.